There are some traditions that have not gotten lost in time and are still respected. Every country and culture is different from one another, and India is a great example of this. People behave, eat, and even dress differently. They have their own traditions and customs, and as tourists, these need to be honored. And this is exactly what we’d like to bring forth in this article.
We at Bright Side have been mesmerized by the uniqueness of Indian culture, so we’d like to share with you a few useful tips to make the most out of your trip.
1. You must not touch books or instruments with your feet.
In India, children are taught from a young age that books are knowledge. They even have a Goddess of Learning, Saraswati. Therefore, touching books with one’s feet or even kicking a school bag full of notebooks or books is considered disrespectful.
Any instrument that is used to develop one’s knowledge is also considered very important and must not be touched by the feet. Even pens and pencils are important, according to Indian culture, and must be respected as such.
2. Don’t be afraid to explore Indian street food.
Exploring foreign cuisine is generally very important when visiting other countries, and sometimes the best food around is the kind made at that small corner vendor. And Indian food is no exception, as it’s one of the richest cuisines out there. It’s a must-try for sure. Just watch out for that extra-spicy food!
As with any street food experience, you must be careful. Seek fresh food, avoid milk products as they can sometimes be spoiled, avoid ice or water that was not heated well (definitely try to avoid tap water), and generally look forward to trying clean (and busy) vendors.
3. Don’t be too polite.
Saying “please” and “thank you” is normal and respectful for us, like at a restaurant or a shop. However, in India, when used too much, you can come across as rude or impolite. Who would’ve thought, right?
When it comes to friends and family, traditional ways of showing appreciation can sometimes create tension or express a level of formality that should not exist. Instead of saying “thank you,” you can try saying “I appreciate it.”
4. Only use your right hand when giving or taking anything.
Many cultures have actually adopted this practice. In many cultures, the right hand is considered pure and even lucky! In India, it is believed that the left hand is impure, as it is used for cleaning shoes, feet, and generally dirty work. So when it comes to food, drinks, and handing objects to other people, we must always use the right hand to show respect.
5. Do not point your finger.
Usually, we use our pointer finger to give directions at a restaurant or generally when referring to something in particular. But this is definitely not the case in India.
Pointing your finger at an object or place is considered rude and impolite. If you wish to give directions or point out something to someone, you must do so by using your whole palm or your thumb. This way, it’s more gentle and polite.
6. Expect to use cash only.
If you’re visiting a small town in India, you should expect to pay with cash most of the time. While in the bigger cities, malls, restaurants, and shops, credit or debit cards may be accepted, they are still rare, and the smaller cities make use of cash. So it would be smart to keep some cash with you, just in case.
7. Not everyone is going to speak English.
Of course, you might be lucky enough to be able to use English inside bigger cities, restaurants, hotels, or certain shops, however, this is not the case for smaller villages. Here, you should expect people to use their native language, which is not necessarily a bad thing.
Spending time among foreign people and hearing their native language might actually do you some good. You can pick up a new language, getting to know a new culture.
8. Learn about and use traditional greetings.
Respect is required everywhere you go in the world, and India is no exception. You can show your respect for the country and its people by learning about their culture and traditional greetings. One such greeting that is used in a general manner is “namaste.” You can put your palms together and bow to show respect while saying namaste, or, if you’d like to be more formal, you can use “namaskar.”
As English has become more globalized, “hello’’ is also used, especially among tourists and foreigners. Just know that “goodbye” is usually not used, as it implies you won’t be seeing each other anymore, or that you are asking for permission to leave.
9. Don’t use public displays of affection.
Public display of affection is generally looked down upon as it is quite a private thing. However, in India, you must not show affection in public. When you visit a new or foreign country, you might want to blend in with other people so as to not get unwanted stares. This is one of those things you must do.
Try and avoid holding hands or using overly affectionate gestures in public, as it is frowned upon. You can even spend time in jail!
10. Know that in small towns, you must wear decent clothes.
One of the most important things to keep in mind when coming to India is the way you present yourself. As a quite conservative country, it’s good to respect its culture and people, and you can start with your clothes. Even if it’s hot outside, try and cover yourself. This way, you can pay your respects to the country, and also make yourself look like a local.
If you’re visiting a particular attraction, it’s important to wrap a scarf around your head to show respect and politeness.
Have you ever traveled to India? Which aspect of Indian culture intrigues you the most?
Stories of Life: Inspiring Lessons We Can All Learn From
Life’s biggest lessons don’t always come from grand, dramatic events; they can be found in ordinary moments if we’re open to seeing them.
What if the stains you saw weren’t on someone else’s laundry, but on your own window? How does a broken vase reveal the secret to a happy marriage? Can two apples teach us not to judge too quickly? These short yet powerful stories uncover unexpected wisdom in everyday situations, offering lessons about kindness, patience, and the way we see the world.
A girl eating an apple | Source: Pexels
1. Laundry with Stains
A woman looked out the window and saw her new neighbor hanging laundry to dry. But something was off: there were stains all over it.
She called out to her husband, “Hey, come look! Our new neighbor was a real disaster. She didn’t even know how to wash her laundry properly!”
Later, she told all her friends about the neighbor. “I swear, she couldn’t even wash her laundry right!”
Time passed, and once again, the woman saw her neighbor hanging laundry, and, yep, still stained.
Woman hanging stained laundry | Source: Midjourney
She ran to her friends to gossip some more, and this time, they decided to see for themselves. They all gathered outside to take a look.
But when they saw the laundry, it was spotless, bright white, not a single stain.
One of her friends looked at her and said, “Before you start judging someone else’s laundry, maybe you should have cleaned your windows. Those things were filthy!”
A dirty home window glass looking into a backyard | Source: Midjourney
2. A Happy Family
In one town, there were two neighboring families. One couple was constantly arguing, blaming each other for everything that went wrong and fighting to prove who was right.
The other couple lived peacefully, with no arguments or scandals.
The more stubborn wife was baffled by the happiness of her neighbors. She envied them.
She said to her husband, “Go see how they managed to make everything go so smoothly and quietly.”
Woman with arms crossed angrily staring out a window | Source: Midjourney
Her husband went over to the neighbor’s house and hid under the open window. He watched and listened carefully.
The wife was tidying up the house, dusting off a precious vase. Suddenly, the phone rang. She got distracted and set the vase on the edge of the table. Just then, her husband walked into the room, bumped the vase, and it fell, shattering on the floor.
The neighbor thought, “Oh no, what was going to happen now?”
A man peeking through a window | Source: Midjourney
Instead, the wife walked over, sighed, and said to her husband, “Sorry, my dear. It was my fault. I placed the vase too close to the edge.”
The husband responded, “What are you talking about, sweetheart? It was my fault. I was rushing and didn’t notice the vase.”
She replied, “No, it was my fault. I wasn’t paying attention. Well, as they say, let it be for good luck!”
A woman sweeping while smiling | Source: Pexels
The neighbor’s heart ached. He returned home, troubled.
His wife asked, “You seem so upset. Did you figure out how they did it?”
He said, “Yes, in their house, everyone was willing to take the blame. That was why they didn’t argue. But in our house, everyone was always trying to be right.”
A man with a sad expression | Source: Pexels
3. Two Apples: A Lesson in Not Jumping to Conclusions
A little girl came inside holding two apples. Someone had probably given them to her.
“Mom, look at these beautiful apples!” she said excitedly.
“They are indeed lovely! Will you share one with me?” her mom asked.
The girl looked at the apples, then took a bite of one. After a moment of thought, she bit into the other apple as well.
A girl sitting in a basket eating an apple | Source: Pexels
The mother was very surprised and thought to herself, “What a greedy little girl I’m raising! She’s eating both apples and didn’t offer me even one!”
But to her surprise, the little girl handed one of the apples to her mom and said, “Mommy! Take this one. It’s sweeter!”
A woman holding a bitten apple | Source: Pexels
4. Bad Words
Two friends had a falling out, and one of them started telling everyone bad things about the other.
But later, he calmed down and realized he was wrong, so he went to his friend to apologize.
The other friend said, “Alright! I’ll forgive you—but only on one condition.”
“What condition?”
“Take a pillow and release all its feathers into the wind.”
Someone holding a pillow to the wind releasing feathers in a field | Source: Midjourney
The first friend did as he was asked. He tore open the pillow, and the feathers flew everywhere. The wind carried them all across the area.
The satisfied friend came back and said, “I’ve completed your task. Am I forgiven now?”
“Yes, if you manage to collect all the feathers and put them back into the pillow.”
But, as you can imagine, it’s impossible to gather all the feathers back.
Just like bad words, once they’ve spread and been heard by others, you can’t take them back.
A feather on the ground | Source: Pexels
5. The Red Rose
A sailor received letters from a woman he had never met. Her name was Rose. But he still wrote her back, and they continued doing so for a long time.
As he read her letters and replied, the sailor realized he could not imagine his life without her. When his service ended, they arranged to meet at a train station at 5 o’clock.
Rose wrote that she would be wearing a red rose on her lapel.
A red rose pinned to a white jacket lapel | Source: Midjourney
The sailor hesitated because he had never seen Rose, not even in a photo. He didn’t know how old she was, whether she was beautiful or not, or if she was tall or short.
He arrived at the station exactly at the agreed time, and under a big clock stood a woman with a red rose in her lapel. She was around 50 years old.
The sailor was tempted to turn around and leave, but then he thought that would be unfair. This woman had written to him all the while he was at sea. She didn’t deserve that.
A handsome sailor in a train station looking determined | Source: Midjourney
So, he walked up to her, extended his hand, and introduced himself.
But the woman said, “My name isn’t Rose. The young woman named Rose is standing behind me.”
The sailor turned around and saw her. She was young and beautiful.
The older woman explained that Rose had asked her to wear the flower in her lapel. If the sailor had turned away, their story would have ended there.
An older woman waiting in a train station wearing a white jacket with a red rose on the lapel | Source: Midjourney
But if he approached the older woman, she would introduce him to the real Rose and tell him the whole truth because looks aren’t everything.
6. Dandelions
A man took great pride in his beautiful, green lawn. One day, he noticed dandelions had bloomed among the grass.
He hadn’t planted those dandelions, so he saw them as weeds. Immediately, he pulled them out by hand. But after a short time, the dandelions appeared again.
No matter how hard the man tried, the dandelions kept coming back, growing more vigorously with each attempt to remove them.
A dandelion | Source: Pexels
Finally, he wrote a letter to a well-known agronomist. He listed all the methods he had tried to get rid of the dandelions and ended the letter with this question:
“I’ve tried everything. Can you suggest a method I haven’t yet tried?”
Soon, he received a reply:
“Yes, there is a method you haven’t tried: I suggest you learn to love them.”
A man in farmer clothes smiling while lying in a field of dandelions | Source: Midjourney
Moral
Sometimes, the things we fight the hardest are the things we need to accept. Just like the man battling dandelions on his lawn, we struggle against what we don’t understand.
The woman judging her neighbor’s laundry didn’t see her own dirty windows, reminding us that our own flaws can blind us. The feuding couple learned that being right was less important than being kind.
A couple hugging and looking sad | Source: Pexels
The little girl with two apples taught us that things aren’t always what they seem, and judging too quickly can lead us astray. Like the sailor and the red rose, true connection comes from looking beyond appearances and accepting others for who they are.
And just as words are like scattered feathers that can’t be retrieved, we must accept the consequences of our actions. If we can learn to accept life’s imperfections, both in ourselves and in others, we might find a peace we never thought possible.
A happy woman with her arms up in a garden | Source: Midjourney
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