Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
Campbell’s Soup: A Tale of Survival Amidst a Changing Market Landscape
The well-known American company Campbell’s Soup, which has endured for almost 200 years, is dealing with serious issues that might force it to close.
The corporation is battling a changing customer trend that deviates from Campbell’s traditionally processed offerings and supports natural and unprocessed food options. Campbell’s bought a number of businesses in an effort to meet the evolving needs of its customers, but regrettably, this action left the company deeply in debt—nearly $9 billion.
In addition to contending with growing debt and shifting market conditions, Campbell’s is also facing internal conflict among its key stockholders. There is a power struggle between the Dorrance family, who own a substantial 40% of Campbell’s shares, and Daniel Loeb, the hedge fund manager of Third Point, who holds about 7% of the company’s stock. Loeb has been pushing for radical changes within the organization, including as rebranding campaigns that might even modify the iconic red and white Campbell’s Soup cans. The Dorrance family, however, objected to this suggested change, which is why Loeb sued the business for purported mismanagement.
There has been movement in the direction of resolution and transformation notwithstanding this tension. Although Campbell’s has criticized Loeb’s claims, both parties have decided to add two of Third Point’s recommended directors to the company’s board. This suggests that additional changes may be in store as Campbell’s works to preserve its existence.
The loyal customer base of Campbell’s Soup stands to lose a great deal from the possible shutdown of the company, which also represents broader trends in consumer choice shifting. While industry watchers regard the shutdown as another example of consumers turning away from processed goods, devoted Campbell’s fans would view it as a significant loss. The organization will need to embrace adaptation and make significant changes to its business model in order to weather this storm and remain relevant in a market that is changing quickly.
In addition to determining Campbell’s own destiny, its actions during this volatile time will offer important insights into how well-known businesses can adjust to shifting customer trends and tastes. Campbell’s story will be used as a case study by companies trying to find a way to embrace change while holding onto tradition.
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