There are many people who get married despite the fact that critics may doubt their ability to stay married for the long term. This often happens when we get married quickly or perhaps we are young and people don’t think we are yet responsible enough for the bond.
In 1995, there was a young couple who also were doubted but they ended up getting married and they stayed married for 25 years. They also were the first couple with Down syndrome in the UK to become husband and wife.
These days, we hear about people who have Down syndrome getting married on a regular basis. At that time, however, it was unheard of and it was the first time in the world that a couple with Down syndrome said I do.
Just like any other disability, however, those with Down syndrome have the ability to beat the odds, and certainly, that is what Tommy and Maryanne Pilling did. In fact, they are an inspiration to many who wonder if they have what it takes.
Maryanne was born in 1971. Her mother, Linda Martin, provided her with a loving atmosphere at home and she also had a sister who loved her as well. There were still times, however, when she struggled in life and she was even rejected by her father.
Since she was raised in a loving household, however, she grew up to be a very loving woman. It was easy to see in her lively personality.
Tommy was born in 1958 and was an only child. When he was 12 years old, he became an orphan and he grew up in a care home in Essex. He did have delayed development because of a lack of a support system, and he didn’t care much for his physical appearance.
When the two of them met in 1990, they were working in a kitchen in a training home for disabled individuals. He was 32 and she was 19 at the time.
It was easy to see how Maryanne felt about Tommy because she would absolutely light up when she spoke about him. They shared a number of common interests, such as music, cooking, movies, and doing craftwork.
Tommy also loved Elvis Pressley and the two of them would dance together on a regular basis. He would also let her know how much he loved her, and eventually, the family got accustomed to having him around.
18 months after they started dating, he proposed to her and asked her mother for permission to marry her daughter. The mother didn’t hesitate, she gave her blessings right away.
Other people, however, were not quite so positive about the idea of the two of them getting married. Some said that she wasn’t ready for it and some even asked about their sex life.
Despite the fact that they were criticized openly, they got married in 1995. 250 people came to the wedding, which was a fairytale for them.
They lived together with her family for seven years before moving into their own apartment next door. Her sister also moved along with them.
They have a very strong bond because he listens carefully when she speaks. There is never any type of hidden agenda and they love each other with their whole hearts.
Unfortunately, Tommy was hospitalized in 2020 after he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and then got COVID. Due to his declining health, he passed away. That was on January 1, 2021.
When the news was broken to her, she seemed to understand but still was a little confused about the situation. We are just glad that they had almost 30 years together, and they loved each other till the end.
An 11-year-old tragically lost his life due to an online trend involving a common household item. Now, his grieving family is warning others about the dangers of this deadly challenge.
An 11-year-old boy, Tommie-Lee Billington from Lancaster, England, tragically passed away after participating in a dangerous TikTok challenge that involved inhaling harmful substances. The incident occurred during a sleepover at a friend’s house, where Tommie and his friend decided to try a viral trend they had seen on the app.
The challenge, known as “huffing,” involves inhaling toxic gases or solvents such as spray deodorant, glue, or dry shampoo to experience a temporary high. Unfortunately, as soon as Tommie inhaled the substance, his heart stopped, and despite immediate medical attention, he could not be revived. Doctors confirmed that he died instantly.
His grieving family is now speaking out, warning others about the hidden dangers of such social media trends. Tommie’s mother, Sherry, has taken to social media to raise awareness, urging parents to speak with their children about the deadly risks associated with these viral challenges.
In an emotional message on Facebook, Sherry expressed her deep pain and loss, writing, “This cost my son his life from trying something other kids are doing. Please talk to your children about the consequences of this. I have never felt pain like this. My whirlwind. My baby boy. You will forever be in my heart.”
Sherry’s heartfelt plea serves as a powerful reminder for parents to be vigilant about what their children are exposed to online. The family hopes that by sharing their story, they can prevent other families from enduring the same devastating loss and save lives by raising awareness of the dangers that lurk within seemingly harmless online challenges.
Sherry concluded her message by vowing to keep Tommie’s memory alive, saying, “I will make sure to the best of my ability that your name and your beautiful face will become the reason that other children’s lives will be saved, and other families don’t have to suffer this deep, deep hurt.”
Tommie-Lee’s death is not an isolated incident; it follows similar tragedies where other young people have lost their lives participating in dangerous online trends. His family’s warning is a sobering reminder of the potential harm that social media challenges can cause, and the need for open conversations between parents and children about the real risks of imitating what they see online.
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