Actor Ali MacGraw sacrificed her own career for Steve McQueen

Ali MacGraw became a Hollywood superstar overnight. But just as quickly as she rose to fame, she disappeared from show business altogether.

Ali MacGraw
Ali MacGraw – born Elizabeth Alice MacGraw – was born on April 1, 1939, in Pound Ridge, New York, USA. Her mother, Frances, was an artist and worked at a school in Paris, later settling in Greenwich Village. She married Richard MacGraw, who was also an artist. In 1939, Ali was born.

Ali’s father Richard supposedly had issues from his own childhood which made him a little bit different from others.

He had survived a terrible childhood in an orphanage, running away at the age of 16 to go to sea. He would later study at an art school in Munich, Germany.

“Daddy was frightened and really, really angry. He never forgave his real parents for giving him up,” Ali explained, saying said her father’s adult life was spent “suppressing the rage that covered all his hurt.”

Ali MacGraw – childhood
Money was short for their family, too. Frances and Richard, together with Ali and her brother, Richard Jr, had to move into a house on a Pound Ridge wilderness preserve which they shared with an elderly couple.

“There were no doors; we shared the kitchen and bathroom with them,” Ali said. “It was utter lack of privacy. It was horrible.”

Mom Francis worked with several commercial-art assignments and supported the family. At the same time, Richard had a hard time selling his paintings, and as a result became very frustrated. Ali’s brother Richard became a victim for his anger at home.

“On good days he was great, but on bad days he was horrendous,” she recalled. “Daddy would beat my brother up, badly. I was witness to it, and it was terrible.”

Ali was the daughter of artists, and she knew that she, too, wanted to go into a creative line of work as she got older. She earned a scholarship at the prep school Rosemary Hall, and in 1956, she moved to study at Wellesley College in Massachusetts

By the age of 22, Ali MacGraw moved to New York and got her first job as an assistant editor at Harper’s Bazaar, working with photographers as an assistant.

Fashion work in New York
Fashion editor Diana Vreeland hired Ali as, what she recalls as, a “flunkie”. Ever seen the film The Devil Wears Prada? Well, it was pretty much that.

“It was ‘Girl! Get me a pencil!’,” MacGraw recalled.

The future Hollywood celebrity worked her job as an assistant for several months. Then, about six months in, fashion photographer Melvin Sokolsky noticed her beautiful looks, and Ali MacGraw was hired as a stylist,and given a better salary. She’d end up staying in that position for six years.

“I don’t know where she got this work ethic, but Ali would come in at eight a.m., and many times I’d come back at one in the morning and she would still be doing things for the next day,” Ruth Ansel, a former art director of Vanity Fair and Harper’s Bazaar recalls.

Ali was great as a stylist. But soon, she was asked to work in front of the cameras as a model. It didn’t take long before she was on magazine covers all over the world, even appearing in television commercials. For thing led to another, and Ali tumbled headfirst into the profession of acting.


She had been sketched nude by Salvador Dali a couple of years earlier. But when the surrealist artist started sucking her toes, MacGraw decided that she’d rather be an actress than a model.

Ali MacGraw – films
Ali went straight from an unknown stylist and into the world of cinema, and boy, did she do it with a bang.

She was untutored in the art of film, which gave her acting another dimension. Her natural beauty was stunning, and the audience loved her.

Following a small role in A Lovely Way to Die (1968), she was asked to star in the 1969 film Goodbye, Columbus. It turned out to be a great call, with MacGraw receiving a Golden Globe for Most Promising Newcomer – Female. The following year, she got her big international breakthrough with a role that would pretty much sum up her career.

Ali MacGraw had received a script from her agent. She’d read it and wept twice because of how much she loved it. She decided she really wanted a part in it, and got herself a meeting with the film’s producer Robert Evans – who at the time was Paramount Picture’s head of production – at the Beverly Hills Hotel’s Polo Lounge. Not only did Evans think she was perfect for the part in the movie Love Story, he absolutely fell in love with her.

MacGraw – playing the role of Jenny – acted alongside Ryan O’Neal in the movie Love Story. The American romantic drama film, in which Ali played a working-class college student, became a smash hit.


Love Story hit the cinemas in 1970, and wow did the audience cherish it. It became the No. 1 film in the United States, and at the time, it was the sixth highest grossing movie in history in the US and Canada.

Award-winning actress
MacGraw earned an Academy Award nomination for her role, and the film itself earned her another win and five Academy Award Nominations. She also won herself a second Golden Globe as Best Actress in a Motion Picture – Drama.

Film producer Robert Evans not only loved her on screen, he had fallen in love with her in real life, and that love was reciprocated. In 1969, the couple tied the knot, and two years later, they welcomed their son, Josh Evans.

Ali MacGraw was the hot new star of the 1970s, but her private life and marriage with Evans would soon come to an end. Steve McQueen had visited their home to ask her to star alongside him in The Getaway, and the two Hollywood stars clicked right away.

“I looked in those blue eyes, and my knees started knocking,” MacGraw recalled. “I became obsessed.”


MacGraw and McQueen had an affair, and she soon left Evans to live with the actor in Malibu, along with her son Josh.

“Steve was this very original, principled guy who didn’t seem to be part of the system, and I loved that,” she said.

Ali MacGraw – Steve McQueen
But after a while, Ali realized that Steve McQueen had his own problems. Following his father abandoning his mother, a then-14-year-old Steve was sent to a school for delinquent children. MacGraw said he never trusted women after that.


He didn’t like that she worked and had her own career. For a while, Ali stayed home to raise their sons. But her husband’s demands were something Ali simply couldn’t accept in the long run.

Not only that, but he’d explode if she even looked at another man. He also wanted her to sign a prenuptial agreement, promising not to ask for anything if they’d divorce. She abided by the agreement when they did divorce in 1978.

“I couldn’t even go to art class because Steve expected his ‘old lady’ to be there every night with dinner on the table,” she recalled.

“Steve’s idea of hot was not me. He liked blond bimbos, and they were always around.”


This was the start of a pretty dark time in MacGraw’s life. She arrived on set to shoot the 1978 film Convoy both drunk and high, which prompted her to quit drugs.

Leaving show business
At the same time, several of her movies, such as Players (1970) and Just Tell Me What You Want (1980) flopped.

“It’s brutal for women,” MacGraw told The Guardian about returning to show business in the late 1970s.


“I don’t think there’s a woman over 40 who’s ever been conspicuously in the spotlight who doesn’t get sick of the kind of questioning the media lays on you, the fashion industry, all of it. It’s cruel.”

MacGraw had a short stint as a Hollywood superstar actress. Thereafter, she decided to start working in interior design instead, but didn’t fully give up on her show business career. She appeared in the television miniseries The Winds of War (1983) and China Rose (1985), but soon, her life would change for the worse.

Ali MacGraw simply couldn’t get any work in film, and she thought she was useless. At the same time, she didn’t feel complete unless she had a partner, describing being in love like “a drug high”.


She felt alone and desperate, and drank heavily. In 1986, she checked herself into the Betty Ford Clinic in California.

“The worst stuff happened when I drank,” she said. “I lost my judgment; I fancied other women’s husbands.”

Family tragedies
Her son Josh Evans was 15 at the time and had a hard time watching his mother suffering. MacGraw spent 30 days in group therapy and came out a stronger person.

In 1993, another family tragedy occurred when her house in California burnt down due to a wildfire. She then decided to move from Los Angeles and settled in a town near Santa Fe, New Mexico.


“I live in a little village north of Santa Fe, New Mexico called Tesuque,” she revealed last year.

According to McGraw, her neighbors don’t see her as a former Hollywood star – instead they appreciate all the community work she’s been doing.

For example, she has been doing volunteer work at the annual International Folk Art Market in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

Ali MacGraw left acting, but in 2006, she found herself once again on stage. She reunited with her Love Story co-actor Ryan O’Neal in the Broadway adaptation of the Danish film Festen.

Outside of the Broadway show, MacGraw’s been out of the spotlight the last couple of decades. She’s put her heart into work for animal rights … and produced plenty of successful yoga videos.

Speaking to the Herald-Tribune in 2019, MacGraw stated that she’s still open to new adventures and work.

“One of the lucky things for someone my age is that I’m open and curious,” MacGraw said. “There’s not just one thing I love to do and feel bereft if I can’t. But I know that I’m not happy when I’m not doing something creative.”

Josh Evans – Ali MacGraw
Even though Ali left acting, her family still has a foot in the business. Son Josh Evans is an actor and director, and he’s made a great name for himself in Hollywood.

Also, he looks so much like his mother!

Being the child of Hollywood celebrities Robert Evans and Ali MacGraw certainly came with plenty of pressure.

But for Josh Evans, born in January of 1971, it was pretty much show business he wanted to do from the start.

The first job he ever wanted to do, however, wasn’t in the film business. He didn’t dream about working as an actor, but it was just one of those things that happened.

In 1989, Josh Evans had a small part in Dream a Little Dream (1989), but he wanted to do more. As a teenager with nothing to lose, he used to go to the manager’s office to see the breakdowns of movies being made.

Josh Evans – actor & director
That’s when he met someone he recognized in famous director Oliver Stone. He was making Born on the Fourth of July at the time, starring Tom Cruise. And Josh wanted in.

“At the time I just knew [Oliver Stone] from Platoon. He was making a movie with Tom Cruise and there was a role for the little brother. I wanted to play that part, so he got me a meeting with Oliver Stone,” Josh Evans recalls.

“When I sat with him, Oliver asked ‘Oh, you think you look like Tom Cruise?’. Now knowing him, I realize he was mocking me, but I said, ‘Yeah, I do.’ So, he said, ‘We’ll see what happens.’ Four months later, I got a call to audition and I got the part. It was very exciting and you could feel how special that movie was going to be.”

Since then, Josh has had a great career both acting and directing. He starred in the biographic film The Doors in 1991 and since, he’s been both acting and directing.

With eight films on his resume as a director, he actually had Michael Madsen starring in his 2015 film Death in the Desert. But what does he like best?

“I am definitely more comfortable on the side of the camera that does not show myself,” Josh Evans says.

“If an interesting opportunity presents itself, I am not opposed to it. I think there are other people out there who are more qualified and want it more than I do. As far as directing and telling my stories, I would do that for free, whereas acting is more of a job, but I enjoy it once I do it.”

Josh Evans – family
Josh is a really handsome man, and the resemblance to her mother Ali MacGraw truly is great, especially in his big wonderful eyes.

In 2019, his father – Ali’s ex-husband – Robert Evans passed away. However, the family had the great memory of being together for him when he was honored with a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in 2012.

Josh has been married twice. In October 2012, he married American singer and musician Roxy Saint. By then, their son Jackson was two years old – Grandma Ali MacGraw loves spending time with her wonderful family.

“He’s so wonderful,” MacGraw said about her son. “He’s my favorite human being on the planet, and he goes out with a girl I’m nuts about. Their relationship is so much about, among other things, friendship and respect.”

Ali MacGraw and Josh Evans surely are very proud of their wonderful family. We wish them all the best in the future, and who knows, maybe we’ll see them on the same stage or movie set in the future?

My Fiancée Lost Her Engagement Ring and Demanded That I Re-Propose, but the Whole Truth behind It Made Me Gasp

My Fiancée Lost Her Engagement Ring and Demanded That I Re-Propose, but the Whole Truth behind It Made Me Gasp

Jason’s meticulously planned engagement party took an unexpected turn when he revealed his fiancée’s deceitful act of pawning her engagement ring for a shopping spree. In front of friends and family, he exposed her betrayal and auctioned the ring for charity, reclaiming his dignity in a dramatic fashion.

Losing her engagement ring on that hike devastated Emily. She was a mess, and no amount of shopping therapy seemed to help. She bought a new purse and shoes, but I could still see the sadness in her eyes. It hurt me to see her like that, and I knew I had to do something.

A lost engagement ring | Source: Midjourney

A lost engagement ring | Source: Midjourney

Determined to make things right, I made a tough decision. My PlayStation had been my companion for years, but it was time to let it go. I decided to pawn it and use the money to buy a new ring for Emily. With a heavy heart, I drove to the pawn shop.

The shop was a small, cluttered place on a busy street. As I walked in, the bell above the door chimed. I took a deep breath and approached the counter. A middle-aged man with a friendly smile greeted me.

The owner of a pawn shop | Source: Midjourney

The owner of a pawn shop | Source: Midjourney

“Good afternoon. What can I do for you today?” he asked.

I placed my PlayStation on the counter. “I need to pawn this. I need the money to buy an engagement ring.”

He nodded, looking at me with sympathy. “I see. Let’s take a look.”

The pawn shop owner inspects a gamepad | Source: Midjourney

The pawn shop owner inspects a gamepad | Source: Midjourney

While he examined the PlayStation, my eyes wandered around the shop. And then I saw it. My heart skipped a beat. There, in the glass display case, was Emily’s engagement ring. I recognized it immediately—the intricate design, the tiny chip on the band. It was definitely hers.

“Excuse me,” I interrupted, pointing at the ring. “Where did you get that ring?”

Jason sees the ring | Source: Midjourney

Jason sees the ring | Source: Midjourney

The man glanced at the display case and then back at me. “Oh, that one? A young woman brought it in a few days ago. Said she needed the money for something urgent.”

My mind raced. Did someone steal Emily’s ring and pawn it here? But as the man continued to describe the woman, my heart sank. It was Emily.

Sad Jason | Source: Midjourney

Sad Jason | Source: Midjourney

Why would she pawn the ring and then ask me to buy a new one? Was she in trouble? My emotions swung wildly between confusion, betrayal, and anger. I needed answers.

“Can I see the ring?” I asked, my voice trembling.

Jason understands it was his ring | Source: Midjourney

Jason understands it was his ring | Source: Midjourney

The man handed it to me. Holding it in my hand, I felt a mix of nostalgia and heartbreak. I thanked him and promised to return with money to reclaim it. Leaving the pawn shop, I knew I had to confront Emily.

But a simple confrontation wasn’t enough. I wanted to teach her a lesson she’d never forget.

Jason tried to find a way confront Emily | Source: Midjourney

Jason tried to find a way confront Emily | Source: Midjourney

Back at home, I decided to play it cool. I acted like nothing had happened, going about our daily routines as usual. Meanwhile, I hatched a plan for the perfect revenge.

I began by planning a lavish surprise engagement party. I invited all our closest friends and family. I told everyone it was going to be a special night where I would re-propose to Emily with a new ring, explaining how we had lost the original one on a hike. Everyone was thrilled and eagerly anticipated the event.

Jason invites everyone to a party | Source: Midjourney

Jason invites everyone to a party | Source: Midjourney

I was careful with the details, making sure everything was perfect. I wanted this to be a night Emily would never forget. I wanted her to feel the same shock and confusion I had felt at the pawn shop. It was a cruel plan, but in my anger, it felt justified.

The day of the party arrived, and everything was set. The house was decorated beautifully, and the guests started arriving. Emily was excited, thinking it was just a regular party. She had no idea what was coming.

Emily excited for her party | Source: Midjourney

Emily excited for her party | Source: Midjourney

As I looked around at our friends and family, all there to witness what they thought would be a magical moment, I felt a pang of guilt. But I pushed it aside. This was for Emily. She needed to understand the impact of her actions.

The moment arrived. I got down on one knee, holding the new ring in my hand. Emily’s eyes sparkled with surprise and joy. But I wasn’t done yet. The real surprise was yet to come.

Jason executes his plan | Source: Midjourney

Jason executes his plan | Source: Midjourney

As everyone gathered around, I took the stage with a microphone in hand. “Thank you all for coming,” I began, my voice steady and confident. “Tonight is a very special night. I want to share something important with all of you.”

I turned to Emily, who was smiling broadly, expecting a heartfelt proposal. “Six months ago, I proposed to you with a ring that symbolized my love and commitment. Recently, we thought that ring was lost during a hike. But tonight, I have a different story to tell.”

The ring in a pawn shop | Source: Midjourney

The ring in a pawn shop | Source: Midjourney

The room fell silent, the suspense building.

“I went to the pawn shop to sell my PlayStation so I could buy a new ring and re-propose. But to my shock, I found our original ring there. The pawn shop owner told me it was brought in by someone who needed money for something urgent.”

Checked and frightened Emily | Source: Midjourney

Checked and frightened Emily | Source: Midjourney

I paused, letting the words sink in. Emily’s smile faltered, confusion and fear flickering in her eyes.

“And that someone,” I continued, “was you.”

Gasps and murmurs spread through the crowd. Emily’s face turned pale.

Emily understands her secret is out | Source: Midjourney

Emily understands her secret is out | Source: Midjourney

“You pawned our engagement ring for a handbag and some shoes, then demanded I buy you a new one and re-propose. You didn’t think I would find out, did you?”

Her eyes widened, tears welling up, but I pressed on.

“So, tonight, instead of a re-proposal, I have something else planned.” I reached into my pocket and pulled out the engagement ring. “This ring is a symbol of trust and love. And it deserves to be with someone who truly understands its value.”

Jason auctions his ring | Source: Midjourney

Jason auctions his ring | Source: Midjourney

I turned to the crowd. “I’ve decided to auction this ring tonight, right here. All proceeds will go to a charity that supports honesty and integrity.”

The room buzzed with shock and excitement as I handed the microphone to the auctioneer I had secretly hired for the night. Emily stood frozen, humiliated and speechless.

The auctioneer | Source: Midjourney

The auctioneer | Source: Midjourney

As the auctioneer began taking bids, I watched with satisfaction. The ring sold quickly, raising a substantial amount for charity. The room erupted in applause, and I felt a weight lift off my shoulders.

Jason talks to his friend | Source: Midjourney

Jason talks to his friend | Source: Midjourney

After the auction, friends and family approached me with mixed reactions. Some were shocked, others were impressed by my bold move. My best friend, Mark, patted me on the back.

“Man, that was intense,” he said. “I can’t believe you pulled that off.”

I shrugged, trying to play it cool. “Had to do something. Couldn’t let it slide.”

Emily tries to win Jason back | Source: Midjourney

Emily tries to win Jason back | Source: Midjourney

Emily, still standing off to the side, finally found her voice. She approached me, tears streaming down her face.

“Jason, I… I can’t believe you did this. Why didn’t you just talk to me?” she pleaded.

I looked at her, feeling a pang of guilt mixed with the lingering anger. “You lied to me, Emily. You pawned the ring and didn’t even think to tell me the truth. How could I trust you after that?”

Jason doesn't want anything to do with Emily | Source: Midjourney

Jason doesn’t want anything to do with Emily | Source: Midjourney

She sobbed, covering her face with her hands. “I was desperate. I made a mistake. I’m so sorry.”

I sighed, the reality of the situation settling in. “I needed you to understand the gravity of what you did. Trust isn’t something you can just throw away and expect to get back.”

Jason sits in an emptying restaurant | Source: Midjourney

Jason sits in an emptying restaurant | Source: Midjourney

The room began to empty as guests slowly left, whispering among themselves about the night’s events. I stood there, feeling a mix of relief and sorrow. It wasn’t the ending I had envisioned for us, but it was the one we had come to.

As the last guests left, I walked over to the charity representative to hand over the proceeds from the auction. “Here you go. I hope this helps,” I said, trying to focus on the positive outcome of the night.

Charity associate | Source: Midjourney

Charity associate | Source: Midjourney

“Thank you, Jason. This will make a big difference,” she replied, taking the envelope with a warm smile.

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