When I got on a flight I didn’t expect to meet someone who’d become an integral part of my life. It all began with a crumpled note with some cash in it, and ended in a happy union that is still going strong!
I wasn’t sure what to expect on that particular flight. To me, it was just another trip back home to see my grandparents, one of many I’d taken over the years. I had my usual routine: board the plane, stow my carry-on, and settle in for a few hours of reading or catching up on emails. But this time, something amazing happened that changed my life forever!
A young man carrying his luggage at the airport | Source: Midjourney
As I boarded the plane, shoved my carry-on in the overhead bin, and settled into my aisle seat, I noticed something that immediately piqued my curiosity… a young middle-school-aged boy, maybe ten or eleven, was seated next to me. I assumed one of his parents or his mother was in the bathroom or something.
But as the plane took off, I realized he was alone. Judging by the way he fidgeted, nervously glancing around the cabin, I could tell he was clearly uncomfortable and this wasn’t something he was used to.
A nervous little boy sitting in his plane seat | Source: Midjourney
I tried to mind my own business because when I offered him a small smile, he quickly looked away. Instead, his gaze was glued to the safety card in the seat pocket in front of him. I figured he was just shy, maybe a little overwhelmed by the whole experience, so I left him alone.
I pulled out my phone to check the time. We hadn’t even taken off yet, and already I could sense the tension radiating from him. A few minutes passed before the plane began to taxi down the runway, and that’s when it happened…
A man looking at his phone while aboard a plane | Source: Midjourney
Without turning to face me, the boy reached out with a trembling hand. His eyes were wide, and without a word, he held out a crumpled piece of paper. When I took the note I noticed it had a ten-dollar bill peeking out.
The boy refused to look me in the eye and just held out the paper until I finally took it. Confused, I took the note, my eyes scanning the neat handwriting. The moment I read the note, I knew I had to contact his mother.
A man reading a note while holding a $10 bill | Source: Midjourney
The note read:
“Please, if you’re reading this, it means that my son with autism is sitting next to you. He might be nervous and might ask several times how soon the plane is going to land. I am his mom and I am waiting for him at home but will pick him up at the airport when he lands. Please be kind and patient. Here is $10 for your patience. Here is my number if he needs anything.”
A shocked man holding a note and $10 bill | Source: Midjourney
I felt a lump form in my throat as I read it. I glanced at the boy, who was now staring intently at the seat in front of him, his small hands clenched into fists. The $10 in my hand felt heavy, almost like a weight pressing down on me.
This wasn’t just about a kid on a plane. This was about a mother’s love and a boy who was navigating a world that often felt overwhelming. I knew I couldn’t just pocket the money and sit in silence.
A man deep in thought | Source: Midjourney
I frantically searched for my phone. This boy needed someone to be there for him, even if only for a few hours. So, I pulled out my phone, connected to the plane’s Wi-Fi, and texted the number on the note.
“Hi, my name’s Derek. I’m sitting next to your son on the plane. He’s doing just fine, but I wanted to let you know I’m here if he needs anything.”
The response came almost immediately:
“Thank you so much, Derek. He’s had a rough few days, but I know he’ll be okay with you there. Please let him know I’m thinking of him.”
A worried woman texting | Source: Midjourney
I turned to the boy, who was still staring straight ahead. “Hey, buddy,” I said gently. “Your mom says hi. She’s thinking of you.”
He glanced at me briefly, his expression softening just a bit, before returning his gaze to the window. It was clear he wasn’t much for conversation, but I wasn’t going to let that stop me. I wanted to make this flight as comfortable as possible for him.
“Do you like airplanes?” I asked, trying to strike up a conversation.
He nodded slightly, still not meeting my eyes.
A little boy staring out a plane’s window | Source: Midjourney
“Me too,” I said, leaning back in my seat. “I always think it’s cool how we get to travel so high up in the sky. It’s like being in a big metal bird.”
He didn’t respond, but I noticed the tension in his shoulders easing just a little. Encouraged, I decided to take it a step further. I signaled for the flight attendant, intending to use the $10 the boy had given me.
“Can I get a snack for my friend here?” I asked, smiling at the flight attendant.
Two flight attendants servicing passengers | Source: Pexels
The boy looked up, surprised, when I handed him a bag of pretzels and a soda. “Here you go,” I said, passing the items to him. “I figured you might be hungry.”
He hesitated for a moment before taking the snack, mumbling a quiet “thank you.” It was the first time he’d spoken since we boarded, and I took it as a small victory!
As the flight progressed, I continued to engage him, answering his questions whenever he asked how much longer the flight would be, or whether we were flying over any cool places. I kept my voice calm and reassuring, sensing that it helped ease his nerves.
A happy man talking to someone | Source: Midjourney
At one point, I decided to snap a quick selfie of us together. I wasn’t looking for anything fancy, just a simple picture to send to his mom. But before taking the shot, I asked my silent companion if he’d mind.
He replied by leaning closer to me so he could fit in the frame. After taking the picture, I showed it to him, and for the first time, he smiled! I must admit, it was a small, tentative smile, but a smile nonetheless! As a then 30-year-old man with no children or much experience with them, I took that as a victory!
A little boy smiling | Source: Midjourney
“Can I send this to your mom?” I asked, feeling bolder. He nodded, so I sent it off with a quick message: “He’s doing great. We’re having a good time.”
Her reply was immediate and full of gratitude, and I could tell that she was relieved. I figured she was probably sitting on the edge of her seat, worrying the whole time. It made me realize just how hard this must have been for her to put her son on a plane alone, trusting that a stranger would take care of him.
A happy man texting during a flight | Source: Midjourney
By the time we started our descent, the boy was much more relaxed! He was even chatting a little, telling me about his favorite video games and how excited he was to see his mom. It was a complete transformation from the nervous, fidgety kid I’d met at the beginning of the flight!
As we landed and made our way to the gate, he turned to me and asked, “Will you walk with me to get my luggage? I’m supposed to meet my mom there.”
“Of course,” I replied without hesitation. “We’ll find her together!”
A little boy asking for help | Source: Midjourney
We disembarked and made our way through the crowded terminal, and as we approached the baggage claim, I spotted a woman standing anxiously near the carousel. Her eyes were scanning the crowd. The moment she saw her son, the boy who was walking next to me, her face lit up!
She rushed over, pulling him into a tight hug!
“Thank you,” she said to me, her voice thick with emotion. “You have no idea what this means to me.”
A happy woman holding her son | Source: Midjourney
I smiled, feeling a warmth in my chest that I hadn’t expected. “It was no problem at all,” I said. “He’s a great kid.”
To be honest, she was a gorgeous woman and she looked around my age if not younger. I didn’t know her background with her son but I already liked him and was interested in getting to know her.
She glanced at the boy, then back at me before extending her hand and saying, “I am Diane, he’s Elliot.”
“Nice to officially meet you, Diane and Elliot, I am Derek,” I replied as I shook both their hands.
A man shakes hands with a woman | Source: Midjourney
When I touched Diane’s hand, an electric current shot through me, and before I knew what I was doing I impulsively asked, “Would you like to grab a coffee sometime? As a way for you to thank me?”
It was a simple question, but it caught ME off guard! I hadn’t expected anything more than a brief encounter, but as I looked at her and her son, I felt an inexplicable connection! A sense that this wasn’t just a random meeting.
A happy man and woman talking | Source: Midjourney
To my surprise, she replied with a smile, “I’d like that.”
As we stood there waiting for Elliot’s luggage, the story behind him flying alone unraveled. Her son had been visiting his dad, her ex-husband, who at the last minute refused to fly back with him and instead put him on the plane alone.
This brave little guy had been on his own, carrying nothing but a note his mom asked him to write and keep and the $10 his father gave him before sending him off.
A man giving a boy money | Source: Midjourney
I knew in my heart that Diane wasn’t a bad mother and as I got to know her better through our long-distance relationship, this was confirmed. Fast forward two years later, and that nervous little boy on the plane is now my stepson!
His mom, my incredible wife, still laughs when she tells people how a simple note and a $10 bill led to the best thing that ever happened to both of us! And that’s how a simple flight changed my life forever!
5 Creatures That Can Crawl In Through Your Toilet and How to Stop Them
If you are wondering why bugs and other pests pay your bathroom a visit, it’s because of all the moisture. And when we’re talking about the toilet seat, in particular, many people fail to clean it consistently and in detail. Flushing isn’t enough, since there is the residue left behind and that is enough to attract all the wrong guests.
Bright Side wants you to know that many pests can crawl into your house through your toilet and that there are ways to prevent this from happening.
1. Snakes
Snakes just love cool, wet, and dark places and that’s why your toilet pipes can be very intriguing to them. But, what drives them there in the first place is the sewer that has food remnants that they can feed on. When they are finished with their food in the sewer, they will look for a way out and the pipes are the easiest and quickest route. However, you shouldn’t be afraid if you live in a cold environment, since snakes will only sneak up in toilets in warm countries.
It’s usually harmless snakes that crawl through the pipes, like garden or tree snakes. That’s because these snakes are slimmer than venomous ones and can fit through the pipes. Although, some anacondas have appeared in people’s toilets in South America and Australia.
2. Rats
Like snakes, rats are also in constant pursuit of food and our pipes can be very appealing to them. In houses where the toilet and garbage disposal end up in the same pipes, rats are more likely to find a way in. And because their anatomy is very bendy, they can swim through the pipes and hold their breath for minutes before they need air.
So, it’s not just important to discard your food remnants in a trash bag but to also never flush food down the toilet. If there is no food in the pipes, rats won’t have any reason to try and enter your sewage system. You should also keep the toilet cover closed at all times and maybe install a rat guard. This allows water to exit the pipes whenever you flush, but nothing can come up in the opposite direction.
3. Spiders
With spiders, things get a bit more complex, since they can’t swim in your pipes, but they can appear in your bathroom through another passage. And when they get in, they will probably sit outside the toilet seat. Only black widows will crawl inside the toilet and weave their web from side to side. But, that will happen only in an outdoor toilet that doesn’t have plumbing and that isn’t connected to a sewer system.
That’s where these venomous spiders thrive since there are many flies that they can catch for food. That’s also why you need to always check the seat thoroughly before using an outhouse toilet. Spiders, like the black widow, the brown recluse, and the hobo spider won’t have any trouble biting you.
4. Lizards
In the Southwest United States, lizards coming through the toilet pipes are a quite common occurrence. That’s because these creatures love water and they try to find food wherever they can. Crickets and other insects (like flies) can be found a lot in your toilet’s plumbing if it’s not kept decently clean. The lizards that can achieve this are usually small enough that they can fit through the pipes.
5. Possums
In 2008, a man was in his bathroom in Australia when he saw the water in the toilet gurgling. Moments later, a baby possum appeared and this is not the first time this has happened. On another occasion, a woman found a dead possum in her toilet. These unusual guests are excellent swimmers and can hold their breath for a long time — that’s why they can crawl into your toilet.
How to prevent and react to these occurrences
- Keep your toilet clean: This may sound obvious, but you really need to clean your toilet often and neatly. Disinfecting cleaners are perfect for that job and if you want something cheaper you can resort to white wine vinegar or baking soda. You can also get one of those fresheners that stick on the side of the toilet and release a nice smell every time you flush.
- Keep it dry: Most pests love humidity and that’s why they will be attracted to wet bathroom floors. So, it’s important to get rid of any standing water from the sink or the floor after you’ve taken a shower. If you notice any leaks in your plumbing, call a technician immediately and get them fixed.
- Clean your pipes naturally: In a bowl, add equal parts of sugar, water, vinegar, and 5-10 drops of dish soap. Mix all of this together and pour it down the toilet or in your bathroom sink. You can also pour some boiling water into the toilet.
- Call a pest control company: If you don’t have the time or courage to deal with pests yourself, call professionals and let them use their heavy cleaners. After that is done, you can occasionally throw water mixed with a cleaning solution down the drain to make sure no pest will climb up into the toilet.
Have you ever found an uninvited guest in your toilet — if so, what was it and how did you react?
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