My husband always praises and compliments his sister-in-law like she is the most perfect human being. Even when she is not around, he talks about her. It makes me feel awful compared to her. One day, I taught him a lesson that nearly made him cry.
My husband, Jerry, and I have been married for almost four years. We have two beautiful children, and while our lives have been busy and chaotic, we’ve managed to keep our relationship strong.
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Besides the occasional arguments, there is one thing Jerry does that annoys me. I don’t know if my husband does this on purpose or if just has a low EQ, but he knows that it bothers me yet he still does it.
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He thinks the sun shines out of his sister-in-law’s bottom. He sees her as a goddess, the embodiment of perfection. Nothing she says or does is wrong. Whenever we visit her, Jerry talks about her for three to four days afterward like he is in a trance. He compliments LITERALLY EVERYTHING she does.
One would think he was cheating, but I am sure he is not. They don’t even talk besides the times we all get together. Is he in love with her? I have no idea, but he is definitely insensitive towards my feelings.
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His sister-in-law, Grace, is married to Jerry’s brother, Martin. She’s always been the picture-perfect homemaker: three kids, an immaculate house, homemade meals. She somehow always looks put together. She makes motherhood seem so easy.
I’ve always admired her but never felt the need to compete. However, Jerry’s constant praise of her started to wear me down. One of our recent visits got the best of me, so I decided to give my husband a taste of his own medicine.
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We visited last weekend to see their new baby. I swear he was paying more attention to her and the baby than he ever did to me or any of our children. He complimented everything about her, from how she looked to how clean the house was to the delicious food.
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“Wow, Grace! No one would ever think you had just given birth. You look incredible!” he said as we entered their home.
He even praised how she made the bread and how she managed to recall our favorite dishes and desserts. “You are a superwoman,” he said. “Definitely limited edition.” I literally had it with him and said “enough” a couple of times, but he just ignored me. Meanwhile, Grace just giggled and welcomed the compliments.
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At one point, she noticed that I was no longer comfortable with Jerry’s admiration. She would try to instead compliment me, but it was like my husband heard nothing.
Even when we arrived home, the praising continued. “Honey, isn’t it amazing how Grace can manage three kids and keep their home so neat and clean? What does that woman take?!” I tried to change the topic several times and even showed him I was annoyed. Still, Jerry kept going on as if he couldn’t take a hint.
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I had enough. So, yesterday, when we went to his sister-in-law’s again, I decided to turn the tables. As soon as we arrived, I started laying it on thick. We had a barbecue on their patio and Martin was behind the grilling. “Isn’t Martin amazing?” I said to Jerry’s sister-in-law. “He helps out so much and hasn’t succumbed to the dad bod yet. How incredible.”
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My husband looked at me, startled, while his sister-in-law’s eyes widened. But I wasn’t done. “He is so fit in his 40s!” True enough, Martin was in shape and regularly went to the gym. He also watched what he ate.
I continued, ignoring the increasingly tense atmosphere. As we were about to go home, I noticed their new patio decor and added it to my list of compliments. “Did you build those, Martin?” I asked. “Wow, you have golden hands. Jerry can’t even screw in a light bulb,” I quipped.
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My brother-in-law, Martin, looked content receiving the compliments, smiling modestly. But his wife, Grace, and my husband, Jerry, visibly looked awkward. Jerry’s face turned red, and he started fidgeting.
When I mentioned how great Martin’s hair was, Jerry, who had hair problems and was slowly becoming bald, suddenly ran to our car.
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I excused myself and went after him. I found him in our car, nearly crying. “Okay, I got it,” he said. “My brother is better than me in everything, so why did you marry me then?”
Jerry went on to say that he has always been compared to his brother. However, hearing it from me made it sting even more. He went on to accuse me of being in love with his brother, and I just laughed.
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I took a deep breath and replied calmly, “I just did the same thing you’ve been doing to me for the last few years.”
“What do you mean?” he replied.
“I mean, you always praise Grace in front of my face. You’re so obsessed with that you talk about her even when we’re no longer in their home. You make her seem like a God! Maybe YOU are in love with her!”
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He was silent for a moment, then drove home suddenly. He was quiet for the rest of the evening and slept much earlier than usual.
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The next morning, he came to me with flowers and an apology. “I’m so sorry, Penelope,” he began. “I appreciated Grace’s housekeeping skills because it was hard for me to manage work and house chores. I wasn’t complimenting her in comparison to you. I was complimenting her in comparison to ME.”
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He added, “I have been feeling like a lousy husband when it comes to household work, and I just wish I could be more like her. But I hadn’t realized how my words affected you. I promise to become a better husband and pay you more attention.”
I looked at him, holding the bouquet, his eyes filled with remorse and tears about to fall. Part of me wanted to believe him, to forgive and move on. But another part of me was still hurt, still stinging from the months of feeling second best.
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The next few weeks were a mixture of cautious hope and lingering doubt. Jerry started making small changes. He was helping more around the house, planning surprise date nights, and most importantly, expressing genuine appreciation for everything I did.
Maybe everything he said was true, but the fact that my husband felt that way meant I did something or didn’t do something. Was I lacking in making him feel appreciated? Was he just that insensitive to my feelings?
Unlike Jerry, another husband has been making his wife feel wonderful. At 50, he began to change into the man he was when she fell in love.
My Husband Turned 50 and He Suddenly Became the Man I Married
My husband, Chris, and I have been married for over twenty years. He has always been a good man and a wonderful father to our kids. In the early days, he was incredibly affectionate, and couldn’t keep his hands off me. We had this electric chemistry that I thought would never fade.
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But, after the kids came along, things started to change. The affection, the romance, and even the playful flirting that we once had, all began to fade away. It got to the point where I felt like we were just roommates. I read about couples losing intimacy and romance after having children, but I didn’t think it would happen to me.
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Then, two months ago, something completely unexpected happened. Out of the blue, Chris asked me if I wanted to go away for the weekend, just the two of us. It was such a shock that I almost didn’t believe it at first. We hadn’t done something like that in years. But I agreed, hoping it would rekindle some of what we had lost.
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When we got back home, his new attitude continued. He started losing weight and getting more toned. He looked better than he did when we got married, and I found it difficult to keep my hands off him. I couldn’t help but wonder what had caused this sudden transformation.
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My Granddaughter Said Her Wedding Was ‘For Her Friends’ and Didn’t Invite Me—Then She Found Out What I Was Going to Give Her
There are moments in life when someone you helped raise looks at you like you’re nothing but a burden. That’s what happened when my granddaughter told me I wasn’t welcome at her wedding because I didn’t “fit in.” What she didn’t know was, I had a gift planned for her… one she’d never see.
I’m Goldie, 65, and I’ve never been one for fancy things. My little house on Willow Lane has mismatched furniture and faded curtains that have seen better days. But what it lacks in luxury, it makes up for in memories. The walls have heard laughter, tears, and the pitter-patter of little feet… especially those of my granddaughters, Emily and Rachel.
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When their parents’ marriage fell apart, I stepped in. Not because anyone asked me to but because that’s what grandmothers do. I was there for every fever, nightmare, and science project. I clapped until my hands hurt at dance recitals and softball games.
I wasn’t just a grandmother… I became their safe place.
Rachel was always the quiet one… thoughtful and watching everything with those big brown eyes. Emily was my firecracker… bold and bright, demanding the world’s attention.
I loved them both fiercely and differently, but equally.
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“Grandma, look!” Emily burst through my front door one Tuesday afternoon, her left hand extended, a diamond catching the light. “Jake proposed last night!”
My heart swelled as I pulled her into a hug. “Oh, sweetheart, that’s wonderful!”
“I can’t believe it,” she squealed, bouncing on her toes. “We’re thinking June for the wedding. And I need your help, Grandma. You know I’ve always wanted everything to be perfect.”
“Anything, sweetie. Whatever you need.”
Her eyes lit up. “Really? Because I found this dress…”
“Anything for you.”
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The bridal boutique smelled of vanilla and expensive fabric when I entered the following evening. Emily emerged from the dressing room in a cloud of white, her face glowing.
“What do you think?” she whispered, smoothing down the intricate lace.
I felt tears spring to my eyes. The price tag peeking out read $4,000… more than I’d ever spent on myself for anything. But the way she looked at her reflection like she was finally seeing her dreams materialize… that was worth every penny and more.
“It’s perfect,” I said, reaching for my checkbook. “Absolutely perfect.”
Emily threw her arms around me. “You’re the best, Grandma. I don’t know what I’d do without you.”
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As weeks turned into months, my savings dwindled. The makeup artist she wanted was booked for a fashion show in Milan but we could squeeze her in for a premium. The shoes had to be custom-dyed to match exactly the shade of ivory in her dress. Each time, I nodded and wrote another check.
“June 15th,” Emily announced one evening over dinner. “We’ve set the date.”
I nearly dropped my fork. “The fifteenth? But that’s—”
“I know, I know,” she cut in, waving her hand dismissively. “It’s your birthday. But the venue was available, and it’s perfect. You don’t mind, right? It’ll make it even more special.”
I forced a smile. “Of course not, sweetie. It’ll be the best birthday present ever.”
She beamed, already scrolling through her phone to show me more details. On the day of my precious granddaughter’s wedding, I’d be turning 65, a milestone I wanted to celebrate together.
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“Do you want me to help with the invitations?” I asked.
Emily looked up. “Oh, don’t worry about that. I’ve got it all under control.”
***
June arrived in a burst of sunshine and wildflowers. I spent the morning of the fifteenth carefully applying makeup, trying to cover the signs of age that seemed to deepen by the day.
I chose a lovely dress that Rachel once said brought out the green in my eyes, and fastened my mother’s pearls around my neck. I had to look amazing on my granddaughter’s big day.
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“You look beautiful, Grandma,” Rachel said from my doorway. She’d come early to drive me to the venue… a restored barn in the countryside that Emily had fallen in love with.
“Think so?” I smoothed down the jacket. “Not too old-fashioned?”
“Nope!”
***
When we arrived at the barn, it was already buzzing with activity. Florists arranged centerpieces while caterers bustled around with trays of appetizers. Emily was in one of the side rooms that had been converted into a bridal suite.
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I knocked softly before entering. “Emily?”
She turned, resplendent in the dress I’d purchased, her hair swept up elegantly. For a moment, I saw the little girl who used to crawl into my lap for stories.
“You look stunning, sweetheart,” I whispered.
Emily’s smile faltered as her eyes swept over me and her brow furrowed. “Grandma, why are you all dressed up?”
“For the wedding, of course.”
She laughed as she fixed her shoe. “Wait… you thought you were coming to the ceremony?”
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“I… yes. I assumed…”
Emily’s eyes narrowed. “But you never got an invitation.”
“I thought it was an oversight, dear. With all the planning…”
She crossed her arms. “It wasn’t a mistake, Grandma. This day is for my friends… people MY AGE. I didn’t want some elderly presence killing the vibe, you know?”
The word “elderly” hit me like a slap. I’d helped raise this child, had held her through heartbreaks, and celebrated her victories. And she didn’t want me at her… wedding?
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“Besides,” she continued, examining her manicure, “it’s going to be loud and wild. Definitely not your scene. I figured you’d understand.”
I couldn’t find my voice and the room seemed to shrink around me.
Rachel, who had been silent by the door, suddenly stepped forward. “Are you serious right now, Em? She bought your dress. She paid for half of this wedding!”
“So what? That doesn’t mean she gets to crash it.”
Crash it? As if I were some unwelcome stranger.
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“Come on, Grandma,” Rachel said, taking my hand. “We’re leaving. You don’t deserve this.”
I let her lead me out, my legs moving mechanically. Behind us, I heard Emily call out to her wedding planner about some last-minute detail, already moving on.
“I’m so sorry,” Rachel whispered as we reached the car. “I had no idea she would do that.”
I stared out the window as we drove away from the barn, past the arriving guests in their summer finery. “It’s okay,” I lied. “It’s her day.”
“No. It’s not okay, Grandma. And I have a better idea for today.”
“What is it, dear?”
“You’ll see.”
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The restaurant Rachel took me to was nothing like the rustic wedding venue. It was small and elegant, with white tablecloths and candles casting a warm glow over everything.
“Happy birthday,” she said as the waiter brought us menus. “I made these reservations weeks ago. I knew that even with the wedding, we needed to celebrate you.”
I tried to smile, but my lips trembled. “Oh, sweetie… you didn’t have to do that.”
“Yes, I did.” Rachel reached across the table and squeezed my hand. “You’ve been there for every single one of my birthdays. Did you think I’d forget yours?”
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After we ordered, she handed me a small, carefully wrapped box. Inside was a vintage brooch… a delicate silver locket with intricate filigree that I’d admired in an antique shop downtown months ago.
“I remembered you looking at it, Grandma. You never buy nice things for yourself, so I wanted to.”
The tears I’d been holding back all day finally spilled over. “It’s beautiful, honey.”
We ate and talked, and for a while, I almost forgot about the morning’s humiliation. As we were finishing dessert, a chocolate cake with a single candle that Rachel had specially ordered, I made a decision.
“Rachel,” I said, reaching into my purse. “I had a wedding gift prepared for Emily. But after today… I want you to have it instead.”
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I pulled out an envelope and slid it across the table. Rachel opened it, her eyes widening as she saw the deed inside.
“Grandma, this is your house!” she whispered. “You can’t give me your house.”
I covered her hand with mine. “I can, and I want to. I’m getting older, and that place is too big for me now. I was going to give it to Emily, but… I want it to go to someone who sees me as a person and not just a checkbook.”
“But this is too much,” Rachel protested, tears filling her eyes.
“It’s not enough, dear. Not for what you’ve given me today.”
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The next morning, I was in my kitchen making tea when the front door burst open with such force that the pictures on the wall rattled.
Emily stormed in, her makeup smeared. She looked wild and unhinged.
“Where is it?” she demanded, her voice echoing through the house. “Where’s my wedding gift?”
I set my teacup down carefully. “Good morning to you too, Emily.”
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“Don’t!” She jabbed a finger toward me. “Rachel told me what you did. The house… you were going to give me this house! You promised!”
“I never promised you anything. And yesterday, you made it very clear where I stand in your life.”
“That’s not fair! You can’t punish me for wanting one day to be about me and not you!”
“Is that what you think happened? That I wanted to steal your spotlight?”
“You’re just bitter because you’re old and alone! And now you’re trying to turn Rachel against me!”
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Rachel appeared in the doorway, her face pale. “Em, stop. You’re being horrible.”
“Oh, shut up,” Emily snarled. “You’ve always been jealous of me. And now you’ve manipulated Grandma into giving you the house that was supposed to be mine!”
I placed my palms flat on the counter, steadying myself. “Emily, look at me.”
She did, her eyes blazing.
“You had no space for me at your wedding. So I found I had no space for you in my gift. It’s that simple.”
“But you paid for everything!” she cried. “My dress, my shoes, the stylist—”
“Yes. Because I love you. But love isn’t just about giving things, Emily. It’s about seeing people. And yesterday, you looked right through me.”
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Emily’s lips trembled. For a moment, I thought I glimpsed regret in her eyes. But then she drew herself up, her shoulders squared.
“Fine,” she hissed. “Keep your stupid house. Give it to the golden child. See if I care.”
She stormed out, the door slamming behind her with finality.
Rachel and I stood in silence for a long moment.
“Thank you, Grandma. For seeing me,” she said.
I pulled her into a hug.
“No, darling. Thank you… for letting me be seen.”
As I held her, I realized something important: Family isn’t always about blood or history. Sometimes, it’s simply about who chooses to stay when they have every reason to walk away. And in that choice, we find out who we really are.
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