My In-Laws’ Christmas Gift Felt like a Slap in the Face

When Alicia and Matt’s Christmas holiday trip to Jamaica is canceled due to his father’s open-heart surgery, they decide that spending time with the family is more important. Weeks later, Nancy, Matt’s mother, promises the couple a gift… only to take it back later and replace it with something unexpected.

Every family has its quirks, but my husband’s family is exceptional. They’re the kind who do everything together, who share big plans, and who never think twice about helping out.

I’d always admired that sense of closeness; it wasn’t something that I was used to with my own family. So, I was grateful for how they had welcomed me into their own.

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A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney

“Your family is the best gift you could have given me, Matt,” I told my husband early on in our relationship.

“Alicia, they’re your family now, too. You can count on them for whatever you need. I promise you, they’ll always be there for you. Especially my mom.”

And you know what? I believed him.

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A smiling couple | Source: Midjourney

This year, we planned a holiday of our own—a Christmas trip to Jamaica. It was supposed to be a special reset for us after months of long hours at work, endless bills, and a list of stressors we hadn’t been able to shake. We found a website that offered a great discount, and before we knew it, we were booked and almost ready to go.

All we wanted was to let our hair down, drink cocktails on the beach, and get in as much sunshine as we could.

But in early November, my father-in-law, Derek, suffered a heart attack, and within days, he was scheduled for open-heart surgery.

A man sleeping in a hospital bed | Source: Midjourney

A man sleeping in a hospital bed | Source: Midjourney

We didn’t think twice about staying. Derek was Matt’s biggest supporter, and we knew that if the roles were reversed, Derek would be the first one at his bedside.

Losing our vacation was nothing if it meant being there to support Matt’s family. And if I’m honest, being with them at Christmas felt like the right thing to do. We could have our beach vacation another time.

After Derek’s surgery, we all settled into a new holiday plan: Christmas at home, but together.

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A man sleeping on a couch | Source: Midjourney

“It’s nothing that different from our usual Christmas plans,” Matt said as he read the messages on the family group chat. “At least we’ll all be together, and Dad will get the support he needs.”

“I agree,” I said. “And I’ll make all his favorites, just heart-condition-friendly versions of them.”

A few weeks after Thanksgiving, my mother-in-law, Nancy, called and mentioned they wanted to do something extra for us. Of course, I didn’t expect anything, but her offer took me by surprise.

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A couple sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

She said she and Derek would be giving us a generous gift.

“Nancy, please, you don’t have to do anything,” I said.

“Alicia, just listen, darling,” she said. “Let me speak. I know that you and Matt have been going through so much this year, especially when the plumbing needed to be sorted out. It’s been heavy…”

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An older woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“It hasn’t been easy, Nancy,” I said. “You’re right. But we did get most of our trip refunded, so we’re good.”

“Darling, stop,” she said. “Derek and I talked, and we’d like to offer you some financial help. Use it however you need, okay?”

When she told me the amount, I nearly fainted. They were offering us the equivalent of a full month’s salary.

I felt my voice catch.

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A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Are you serious?” I managed, barely believing it.

“Of course, darling,” she replied warmly. “We know you and Matt had a hard year. We want to help you two catch up.”

I hung up the phone, practically in tears. For the first time in ages, I felt relief instead of worry. I imagined what this money could mean for us.

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A woman holding her phone | Source: Midjourney

We could catch up on bills, pay off credit card debt, maybe even have a little left over for something fun. It was a gift that meant security, peace, and breathing room.

For the first two weeks, I felt lighter than I had in ages. I pictured us on a holiday without the burden of stress hanging over us. I even allowed myself to imagine having enough left over to start saving again.

For the first time, our financial worries seemed less overwhelming.

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A smiling woman daydreaming | Source: Midjourney

But then, everything changed with a single text.

Matt and I were sitting down to breakfast when he got a message from his mom. He was salting his eggs when his phone buzzed, rattling the cutlery on the table.

Hi darling, Dad and I have changed our minds a bit on the Christmas gift. We’ve decided that instead of the money, we thought you & Ali would enjoy a weekend at a spa. We’ve prepaid it already. January.

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Food on a table | Source: Midjourney

“What?” I whispered, reading the message over Matt’s shoulder, my face hot.

“They didn’t mention anything about this before,” Matt mumbled, scrolling back through the message thread as if he’d missed a message from his mother.

The phone chimed again.

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A man using his phone | Source: Midjourney

We decided to cover Maddie and Josh’s accommodation in Italy this summer. They’re planning a big family trip. We thought it would be a nice way to make sure they could join us! xx

As the meaning of the words sank in, I felt like I’d been slapped across the face.

“They… they’re just going to take it back?” I asked, my voice barely above a whisper. “The money, the promise… they’re just dropping it for a spa weekend?

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A spa setting | Source: Midjourney

Matt looked at me, clearly at a loss.

“I don’t know what to say. They probably thought it’d be… you know, relaxing for us?” he said.

Relaxing?

I imagined Maddie and Josh taking photos in Italy, sending them to the family group chat for us to see…

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A couple in Italy | Source: Midjourney

I felt my hands clench as the weight of this entire thing hit me. I’d been holding onto this promise for weeks now. I had pictured how we’d finally get out of our financial rut, and now we’d been handed a weekend of massages and facials instead.

I struggled to hold my composure.

“Matt,” I began. “You know that I’m not ungrateful…”

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A woman getting a facial | Source: Midjourney

I began pacing the kitchen as I tried to gather my thoughts.

“It’s just… that money was a solution. It was something real, something we could count on to make things easier. Now, they’re giving us a spa weekend? And… paying for accommodation in Italy?”

“I get it, Alicia. I get it, babe, trust me,” Matt replied, running a hand through his hair. “But it’s hard. They’re trying to do something nice, you know?”

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A man holding his head | Source: Midjourney

“Are they?” I shot back, frustrated. “Or are they just throwing money at something flashy because they don’t actually understand what we need? Your sister’s going to Italy with them, Matt. Italy. With her boyfriend. And she earns way more than I make in a month.”

Matt was silent as he buttered his toast slowly.

“We’re over here barely scraping by, Matt. I don’t know what else to tell you. I’m just disappointed. I wasn’t banking on the money, but I just imagined all the stress being… removed from our lives.”

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Buttered toast on a plate | Source: Midjourney

I sank back down into my seat. I wanted to put my head down and cry. I felt like I’d just lost something so important to me. But in reality, it wasn’t even mine to feel the loss over.

The money was Nancy and Derek’s. We had no claim over it at all.

Matt sighed and leaned closer to me, his shoulders touching mine.

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An upset woman | Source: Midjourney

“I don’t know, love,” he said. “Maybe they do see it that way. I don’t think they understand what it’s like to struggle. My sister’s never had to worry, and Mom and Dad don’t live in our reality.”

Part of me wanted to pick up the phone and call my mother-in-law, to tell her exactly how I felt. I imagined the conversation, my words measured and calm.

I would explain that her change of plans felt hurtful, that throwing around large sums only to take them back seemed thoughtless.

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A woman holding her head | Source: Midjourney

I imagined saying something like, “Look, we don’t need a spa weekend. I don’t need a spa weekend. I need help.”

But how would that go? Would she understand, or would she just think I was ungrateful? Would she tell me I was spoiled for wanting more than they offered?

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A woman with her hands on her hips | Source: Midjourney

As I ran through the possible outcomes in my mind, another thought crept in. Christmas with Matt’s family had always felt lavish, almost alien to Matt’s and my current financial reality.

His parents loved to surprise everyone with over-the-top gifts, like high-end gadgets and designer clothes.

Meanwhile, I was trying my best to keep up with it all, to pretend I wasn’t doing mental calculations every time they handed me something expensive.

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A pile of Christmas presents | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t want to be that person, but the discomfort lingered, year after year. This time, though, it wasn’t about receiving something over the top.

It was about a broken promise, one that could have changed things for us.

I looked at my now-cold cup of coffee, feeling nauseous.

Matt finally spoke, his tone gentle.

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A cup of coffee on a table | Source: Midjourney

“Look, if it’s really bothering you, maybe we should talk to them. I’ll go with you. We can tell them how we’re feeling without sounding so rude.”

I shook my head.

“No, love,” I said. “I understand… and it wouldn’t help. We’ll just come across as being petty or greedy. They won’t understand why this hurts us.”

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A woman with her hand on her head | Source: Midjourney

Matt didn’t argue, but I could see the sadness in his eyes.

He knew as well as I did that this wasn’t just about the gift. It was about feeling overlooked, like our struggles didn’t matter in the world they lived in.

It was about a reminder that we’d never truly belong to the same world.

I took a deep breath.

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A man looking sad | Source: Midjourney

“We’ll accept the spa weekend,” I said, the words coming out flat, resigned. “We’ll go, and we’ll pretend it’s everything we wanted. Because that’s what they expect. It’s easier that way, right?”

Matt’s hand found mine.

“I’m so sorry, my love,” he said. “I wish I could fix this.”

I looked at him, fighting back tears.

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A couple holding hands | Source: Midjourney

“I know you do, Matt,” I said. “I just wish… I wish they understood us a little more. That’s all.”

And with that, I realized the real gift I wanted wasn’t money or a spa weekend. It was understanding, a sense of connection that went beyond their gestures.

And somehow, I knew that was the one thing they’d never be able to give us.

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A couple sitting together | Source: Midjourney

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My Stepmother ‘Gifted’ Me an Old, Smelly Couch — When She Saw What I Did With It, She Demanded $2,500 From Me

When Nicole’s stepmother calls her saying that she has a gift for her, Nicole goes over excitedly. But when she discovers what the gift is, Nicole is torn between keeping her father happy or retaliating. Finally, she accepts it and plans to transform it into something completely different. In the end Nicole is ready to claim the rewards of her hard work.

Ever have one of those moments where you should’ve just trusted your gut? Yep, that was me, standing in my stepmother’s basement, staring at the ugliest, smelliest couch I’d ever seen.

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My stepmother, Susan, called me earlier that morning with a grand gesture for my birthday. She insisted that she had a “priceless” gift that was too big for her to move alone.

“You’re going to love it, Nicole!” she said. “It’s absolutely priceless! Come over later today, and we’ll show it to you.”

Now, this is the point when I tell you that Susan and I had never been close. In fact, if I’m being honest, she barely tolerated my existence. So, imagine my absolute surprise when she offered me a gift.

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A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney

“Curiosity killed the cat, Nic,” I said to myself as I got into the car.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

What Happens to Your Nose When Death is Near? The Answer Will Shock You

Death is a topic that many people find mysterious and a bit scary. Throughout history, humans have tried to understand what happens at the end of life. Interestingly, some scientific studies suggest that our sense of smell might help us understand when death is approaching. It seems our nose can provide clues about when death might happen, both by detecting when someone else is nearing death and by losing our sense of smell, which can be a sign of our own health issues.

One interesting thing about our sense of smell is that it might be able to detect when someone else is near death. Many people have shared stories about noticing a particular smell before a loved one passed away. These experiences suggest that there might be a mysterious sixth sense connected to our sense of smell.

Several theories try to explain this interesting phenomenon. One idea is that as the body gets closer to death, it produces certain chemicals or odors that most people cannot smell, but some individuals with a stronger sense of smell can detect. Another theory suggests that our sense of smell is connected to subtle changes in our emotions, helping us sense the upcoming loss of someone we care about. It’s not that we consciously realize we are smelling death; instead, our sense of smell might alert us that it is near.

While there isn’t a lot of scientific proof on this topic, some intriguing studies have been done. For example, researchers at the University of Chicago found that animals like dogs and cats can detect chemical changes in people with specific medical conditions, such as cancer. Similarly, it seems that humans with a keen sense of smell might also sense when death is approaching. There are even stories of animals living in hospitals or care homes that can often predict when a patient is about to pass away.

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As we learn more about the human body, we are uncovering new connections and insights into how different systems and senses work together. The sense of smell, often not given as much attention as sight or hearing, appears to play a significant role in predicting when death is near for others and in understanding our future health. More research is needed to confirm these interesting discoveries. Scientists are looking into the chemical changes that happen in the body before death, as well as how problems with the sense of smell might affect overall health and the risk of dying. With a better understanding, we might be able to create diagnostic tools that use our sense of smell, which could lead to timely and potentially life-saving treatments.

The idea that “the body knows when death is near, and it begins in your nose” is an intriguing subject for research. The ability to detect death in others through smell and the loss of smell as a sign of future health creates new opportunities for discovery in medicine and human biology. By studying and utilizing our sense of smell, we could gain important insights into life and death, which may help enhance our overall well-being.

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