In 2012, Patricia Krentcil gained notoriety after being accused of endangering children. In fact, readers may be more familiar with her as “Tan Mom” due to her obsession with frequenting tanning salons and spending time in the booth five days a week.
Eventually, Patricia came dangerously close to passing away because to the contentious condition known as tanerexia, which occurs when a person doesn’t recognize or accept how much color they have. Though she continues to visit the salon, she is now doing much better.
“Tan Mom” has endured a lot over the past ten years. Here is how she seems right now!
Obsession with anything, whether it be eating, shopping, television shows, or anything else, is rarely a beneficial habit to form. Of course, some things are worse for your health than others, but ultimately, it’s important to understand the long-term effects an obsession may have on one’s life.
It’s usually a good idea to see someone if you ever feel like something is starting to dominate your life or that you are placing an obsession above other crucial aspects of your regular existence. Try speaking with a friend or getting support from a counselor.
Patricia Krentcil – ‘Tan Mom’
Patricia Krentcil’s fascination propelled her to internet stardom. She began tanning when she was younger, and it soon became to be a significant part of her life. When Patricia went on trial for bringing her daughter to a tanning parlor in 2012, she instantly became an internet sensation. Although she was never found guilty, her name was already well-known.
She now tans more healthfully, but her time spent in the booth had a significant impact on her life and appearance.
When Patricia was only 23 years old, she developed a tanning fetish. According to the owner of City Tropics Tanning Salon in Nutley, New Jersey, the New Jersey woman averaged five visits each week for a maximum session length of 12 minutes. She paid $100 a month for an unlimited package.
“I’ve been tanning my whole life, going to the beach, tanning salons and so forth,” she said.
However, it wasn’t her tanning that originally made her a household name online. Her image was widely shared online in 2012, but for a completely different cause.
Krentcil was accused with endangering children in May 2012. According to authorities, she put her 6-year-old kid in a stand-up tanning booth, causing burns, as CBS New York reported.
Charged after brining daughter tanning
Patricia, though, asserted that everything was a massive misunderstanding. She was adamant that she would never take Anna, her daughter, to the salon.
“No not at all, not at all, not whatsoever,” Krentcil said.
However, the Nutley Police Department detained Krentcil and accused him of endangering children. The toddler allegedly received a minor burn in the tanning salon where she had taken Anna with her, according to the authorities.
According to ABC, New Jersey law prohibits anyone under the age of 14 from using a tanning bed. Teens older than 14 could visit salons, but only with permission from their parents.
In Anna’s case, the controversy began when a school nurse happened to ask Anna how she had gotten burned, to which the girl answered: “I go tanning with mommy.” Patricia, though, claimed that Anna had been burned after playing outside in their backyard.
“There’s not room… I would never permit it… It didn’t happen,” Krentcil said.
“She’s 6 years old. Yes, she does go tanning with mommy, but not in the booth,” she added. “The whole thing’s preposterous!”
Patricia at that moment earned the moniker “Tan Mom” in the media. Patricia’s face was on newscasts and in newspapers all around the world after the purported incident went viral online.
“They just don’t realize just how much color they have”
Additionally, it clarified the contentious condition known as tanorexia, in which a person develops a dependence on and obsession with tanning.
“When you look at this, this is somebody who has a problem which most likely has a condition called tanerexia, where they just don’t realize just how much color they have,” New York dermatologist Doris Day told ABC News.
“There’s really no excuse to take a young child to a tanning salon,” she added.
“We often consider going to a tanning salon the equivalent of smoking for the skin and the younger you start, those effects are cumulative.”
Health professionals concurred that Patricia’s situation was quite serious. Dermatologist Dr. Joshua Zeichner thought it was one of the craziest situations he had ever encountered.
“In all my years of treating patients as a dermatologist, I have never encountered anything like this,” Zeichner said.
“Going to a tanning salon 20 times a month, frankly, is insane, especially with all of the public education and awareness campaigns on the dangers of tanning beds and skin cancers.”
“It may be she has an [obsession with] tanning, which actually now has a name – tanorexia. She may need help to treat not only the damage to her skin but also what is going on with her psychologically,” he added.
‘Tan Mom’ faced up to 10 years in prison
The Skin Care Foundation claims that people who use indoor tanning equipment have a four-fold increased risk of developing melanoma. Sunbeds emit 12 to 15 times more UV radiation than the sun, according to the foundation.
My Mom Excluded My Wife and Stepdaughter from Family Dinner, So I Taught Her a Real Lesson on What Being a Family Means
When Jake’s conservative Mom goes to extremes to exclude his wife and stepdaughter from a family dinner, he decides to teach her a harsh lesson about the meaning of family.
I’m Jake. I want to share a story about standing up for my family, despite some serious disapproval from someone who should have been supportive. Here’s how it all started.
A year ago, I met Linda, and my life changed forever. She’s amazing—kind, smart, and incredibly strong.
And with her came her little daughter, May. From the first moment we met, May and I clicked. She has this infectious laugh that brightens up even the gloomiest days.
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May’s dad isn’t in the picture, so I naturally stepped into that role. It felt right like she was always meant to be part of my life.
But then there’s my mom. She’s very conservative and has rigid views about what a family should look like. Linda is Black, and while Mom never said anything outright, her actions spoke volumes. She always had an excuse whenever we invited her over.
The real heartbreak happened at our wedding.
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My mom refused to be in any family photos. I remember trying to hold back my tears as she looked at me with a faint sneer.
“This won’t last,” she muttered as she swept past me. “You’ll come to your senses, eventually.”
Linda heard her nasty remark and cried her eyes out that night. Mom’s disapproval left a lasting scar on what should have been a perfect day.
But a few weeks ago, Mom pulled a stunt that pushed me over the edge.
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Here’s what went down: Mom called me on a Saturday afternoon in a hysterical panic, claiming she was having a heart attack.
I could barely understand her through the sobs and pain-filled gasps. My heart was racing as I dropped everything and rushed to her house, fearing the worst.
When I got there, my heart sank, but not for the reason I thought it would.
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There she was, sitting comfortably on the couch, looking perfectly fine. Surrounding her were my brothers, their wives, and their kids—her biological grandchildren. Everyone except me, Linda, and May.
My mom smirked when she saw me and said, “Finally, our family is together without that burden you always drag with you.”
“What are you talking about?” I asked, still reeling from shock. “What’s going on here?”
“We’re having a family dinner,” Mom replied breezily.
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“I lied about the heart attack,” she added, “because it was the only way to get you here alone.”
I was stunned, standing there like an idiot while my mom looked pleased with herself. I couldn’t believe she would stoop so low as to fake a heart attack just to exclude my family.
Anger bubbled up inside me, but I kept my cool. I knew losing my temper wouldn’t solve anything. Instead, I decided to play along.
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“Oh, thank God you’re alright, Mom,” I said, forcing a smile. “You really had me worried.”
She looked so smug, thinking she had won some kind of battle. But inside, I was seething. I knew I had to teach her a lesson she wouldn’t forget.
Over the next few days, I thought about how I could show her what real family means. That’s when I came up with the idea for the photo album.
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I went through old family photos and found every picture that included Linda and May. There were so many happy memories, and seeing them only strengthened my resolve.
I made copies of those photos and created a beautiful photo album labeled “Our Complete Family.” I wanted my mom to see how happy and complete my family was with Linda and May.
Then, I invited Mom over for a special family dinner. To ensure she came, I baited the trap by hinting that I planned to divorce Linda.
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When my mom arrived, she acted like she had won some sort of victory. Little did she know what was coming.
“Mom, I’m really glad you came,” I said, trying to keep my tone light and welcoming. “It’s been too long since we all sat down together.”
Linda greeted her politely, and May ran up to give her a hug. I could see the hesitation in my mom’s eyes, but she awkwardly patted May on the back. It was a start, at least.
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Mom seemed to relax over dinner, thinking she had achieved her goal of separating me from Linda and May. I kept the conversation light, talking about work and harmless family gossip.
Afterward, I cleared my throat and said, “I have something special for you, Mom.”
I pulled out the photo album I had prepared, labeled “Our Complete Family.” I handed it to her with a smile.
She opened the album, and her expression shifted from curiosity to confusion to outright anger as she flipped through the pages.
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“What is this supposed to mean?” she snapped, her voice icy.
“It means this is my family, and they are not a burden,” I said firmly. “Linda and May are part of my life, and they always will be. You need to accept that, or you won’t be included in our lives anymore.”
Her face turned red, and she opened her mouth to argue, but I didn’t give her the chance.
“There’s more,” I continued.
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“Linda and I are renewing our vows next month, and you’re invited.” I sternly looked Mom in the eye. “But only if you promise to respect Linda and May.”
She was speechless, but I didn’t stop there. I took Linda’s hand and said, “I’m also in the process of adopting May officially. She will be my daughter in every way.”
The room was silent. My mom’s face shifted rapidly from shock to anger, and back again, but I could see the realization dawning on her that I wasn’t going to back down.
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Finally, she stormed out, slamming the door behind her. The tension in the room dissipated, and a sense of relief washed over me. Linda hugged me tightly, tears in her eyes, and May looked up at me with a big smile.
“Thank you, Jake,” Linda whispered. “For standing up for us.”
“Always,” I replied, kissing her forehead. “You two are my family, and nothing will ever change that.”
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So, after I dropped the bombshell about renewing our vows and adopting May, the fallout was immediate.
A couple of days later, my brothers started calling me, saying Mom was furious and felt betrayed. They wanted to know what had happened. I explained how Mom’s behavior had been hurting Linda and May and how it was unacceptable.
To my surprise, they understood.
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“Jake, we had no idea it was this bad,” my oldest brother, Tom, said. “Mom’s always been stubborn, but this is too much. You did the right thing.”
My younger brother, Sam, chimed in, “Yeah, man. We support you. Family is about love and acceptance, not just blood. We’ll talk to Mom and try to make her see that.”
Their support was a huge relief. It felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. My brothers were on my side, and that meant everything.
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About a week later, I got a call from Mom. Her voice was shaky, and I could tell she had been crying. She wanted to talk, so I invited her over. To my surprise, she appeared at my doorstep soon afterward, looking worn out and remorseful.
“Jake, I’m so sorry,” she began, tears streaming down her face. “I was so blinded by my own prejudices that I didn’t see how much I was hurting you and our family.”
“Our family?” I asked pointedly.
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“All of our family,” she replied, nodding toward the living room, where Linda and May were watching TV. “From today, I’ll do better by Linda and May. I’ll make things right.”
It wasn’t an instant fix, but it was a start. We began to rebuild our relationship, step by step. Mom made a real effort to get to know Linda and May, and over time, things got better. She even attended our vow renewal ceremony and treated Linda and May with the respect they deserved.
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So, the lesson here? Stand up for your loved ones, even against your family. Sometimes, people need a harsh wake-up call to realize their mistakes. And never let anyone make your loved ones feel like a burden.
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