My Mother Abandoned 10-Year-Old Me to Raise Her ‘Perfect Son’ — but My Grandma Made Her Pay for It

I was ten when my mother decided I was a burden. She had a new family and I didn’t fit the picture. So she got rid of me and gave me away like I was nothing to raise her “perfect son.” My grandma took me in and loved me. Years later, the woman who abandoned me showed up at my door… begging.

There’s a moment when you realize some wounds never heal. For me, that moment came at 32 as I stood at my grandmother’s grave. The only person who had ever truly loved me was gone, and the woman who gave birth to me and abandoned me stood across the cemetery, not even looking in my direction.

I hadn’t seen my mother in years. Not since she decided my brother was worth raising… but I wasn’t.

A grieving woman in a cemetery | Source: Midjourney

A grieving woman in a cemetery | Source: Midjourney

The rain fell in sheets that day, soaking through my black dress as I watched them lower Grandma Brooke’s casket into the ground. My mother, Pamela, stood under an umbrella with her perfect family — her husband Charlie and their son Jason… my replacement and the “golden” child worthy of her love.

She didn’t cry. Not really. She just dabbed at her eyes occasionally for show.

When it was over, she turned and walked away without a word to me, just like she had 22 years ago when I was ten. I remained rooted to the spot, alone with the fresh mound of dirt that covered the only parent I’d ever really had.

“I don’t know how to do this without you, Grandma,” I whispered to the grave.

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A heartbroken woman | Source: Midjourney

I was born from a brief affair and I was an inconvenience my mother never wanted. When I was ten, she married my stepfather Charlie and gave birth to their “perfect son” Jason. Suddenly, I became nothing more than a reminder of her past mistake.

I still remember the day she told me I wouldn’t be living with them anymore.

“Rebecca, come here,” she called from the kitchen table where she sat with Grandma Brooke.

I walked in, hope blooming in my chest.

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A frustrated woman | Source: Midjourney

“Yes, Mom?” I asked. She rarely spoke directly to me anymore.

Her eyes were cold and distant. “You’re going to live with Grandma now.”

The words didn’t make sense at first. “Like… for the weekend?”

“No,” she said, not meeting my eyes. “Permanently. Grandma’s going to take care of you from now on.”

I looked at Grandma, whose face was tight with anger and grief.

“But why? Did I do something wrong?”

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A sad little girl looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

“Don’t make this harder than it has to be,” my mother snapped. “I have a real family now. You’re just… in the way.”

Grandma’s hand slammed the table. “Enough, Pamela! She’s a child, for God’s sake. Your child.”

My mother shrugged. “A mistake I’ve paid for long enough. Either you take her, or I’ll find someone who will.”

I stood there, tears streaming down my face, invisible to the woman who gave birth to me.

“Pack your things, sweetheart,” Grandma said gently, wrapping her arms around me. “We’ll make this work, I promise.”

An annoyed older woman | Source: Midjourney

An annoyed older woman | Source: Midjourney

Grandma’s house became my sanctuary. A place where I was wanted and where someone’s eyes lit up when I walked into the room. She hung my artwork on the fridge, helped with my homework, and tucked me in every night.

Still, the wound of my mother’s rejection festered.

“Why doesn’t she want me?” I asked one night as Grandma brushed my hair before bed.

Her hands paused. “Oh, Becca. Some people aren’t capable of the love they should give. It’s not your fault, honey. Never think it’s your fault.”

An upset girl | Source: Midjourney

An upset girl | Source: Midjourney

“But she loves Jason.”

Grandma resumed brushing, each stroke gentle and soothing. “Your mother is broken in ways I couldn’t fix. I tried, God knows I tried. But she’s always run from her mistakes instead of facing them.”

“So I’m a mistake?”

“No, honey. You are a gift. The best thing that ever happened to me. Your mother just can’t see past her own selfishness to recognize what she’s throwing away.”

An older woman with a kind smile | Source: Midjourney

An older woman with a kind smile | Source: Midjourney

I leaned into her embrace, breathing in the scent of lavender that clung to her clothes.

“Will you ever leave me too, Grandma?” I whispered.

“Never,” she said fiercely. “As long as there’s breath in my body, you will always have a home with me.”

“Promise?”

“I promise.”

A disheartened girl looking up at someone with hope | Source: Midjourney

A disheartened girl looking up at someone with hope | Source: Midjourney

When I was 11, Grandma insisted we visit for a “family dinner.” She thought it was important to maintain some connection, however tenuous. Deep down, I hoped my mother realized what she’d thrown away and welcome me back with open arms.

Walking in, I saw her doting over my brother, laughing and proud… like she had never abandoned me. One-year-old Jason sat in a high chair, mashed potatoes smeared across his chubby face. My mother wiped it away with such tenderness it made my chest ache.

She barely glanced at me.

“Hey, Mom,” I said, forcing a smile.

She frowned. “Oh! You’re here.”

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A woman frowning | Source: Midjourney

My chest tightened, but I swallowed the hurt and reached into my pocket. I pulled out a small, slightly crumpled handmade card. I had spent hours on it, carefully folding the paper, writing “I Love You, Mom” in my neatest handwriting on the front.

Inside, I had drawn a picture of our family — me, my mother, my stepfather, my baby brother, and my grandmother. I had colored it with the few markers I had, making sure to give everyone a smile. Because that’s how I wanted us to be… a real, happy family.

With hopeful eyes, I extended it toward her. “I made this for you.”

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A desperate little girl holding a sheet of paper | Source: Midjourney

She barely glanced at it before passing it to my brother. “Here, honey. Something for you.”

I froze. That gift wasn’t for him. It was from me to my mother.

“I-I got that for you.”

She waved a hand dismissively. “Oh, what would I need it for? I have everything I want.”

Everything. Except me.

A shattered girl | Source: Midjourney

A shattered girl | Source: Midjourney

Years of neglect hung between us. My grandmother shot me a sympathetic glance, but I forced a smile. I wouldn’t let them see me break.

“Dinner’s ready,” Charlie called from the dining room, oblivious to the moment or choosing to ignore it.

“Come on,” my mother said, lifting Jason from his high chair. “The roast will get cold.”

That was the last time I ever wanted to see my mother. After that night, I stopped trying. And she didn’t seem to care. Not long after, she moved to another city and only called my grandmother occasionally. But she never called me.

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Shot of an airplane passing above high-rise buildings | Source: Unsplash

Years passed. I grew up, became a successful woman, and built a life of my own. I went to college on scholarships, got a job in marketing, and bought a small house near Grandma’s cottage. I dated, sometimes seriously, but relationships were hard. Trust didn’t come easily when my own mother couldn’t love me.

Grandma was my rock through everything. She never missed a graduation, a birthday, or a milestone. She hung my college diploma next to her achievements. She made sure I knew I belonged.

But time is relentless. My grandmother, my true parent, grew older too. Her hands became gnarled with arthritis, her steps slower, and her memory was sometimes foggy.

An older woman walking in a park | Source: Pexels

An older woman walking in a park | Source: Pexels

“Remember when you tried to teach me to bake cookies and we set off the smoke alarm?” I asked one afternoon as we walked in her beloved garden.

She laughed, the sound still musical despite her 78 years. “The neighbors thought the house was on fire. That fireman was so handsome, though… I almost didn’t mind the embarrassment.”

“You flirted with him shamelessly,” I teased.

“Life’s too short not to flirt with handsome firemen, Rebecca.” She patted my hand. “Promise me something?”

“Anything.”

“When I’m gone, don’t waste time on bitterness. Your mother made her choice, and it was the wrong one. But don’t let that choice define your life.”

Close-up shot of a young woman with her grandmother | Source: Freepik

Close-up shot of a young woman with her grandmother | Source: Freepik

I felt a chill despite the summer heat. “You’re not going anywhere.”

She smiled sadly. “We all go somewhere eventually, honey. Just promise me you’ll live fully. That’s all I’ve ever wanted for you.”

“I promise,” I whispered, resting my head on her shoulder like I had countless times before.

Three months later, she was gone. A stroke in her sleep. “Peaceful and a blessing, really,” the doctor said.

But it didn’t feel like a blessing to me.

A woman shaken to her core | Source: Midjourney

A woman shaken to her core | Source: Midjourney

I was 32 when I buried her. My mother arrived with her family, but I never really saw any remorse in her eyes. She didn’t even look at me during the service.

The house felt empty without Grandma. I wandered from room to room, touching her things — the crocheted blanket on the couch, the collection of ceramic birds on the mantel, and the worn cookbook in the kitchen with her handwritten notes in the margins.

God, I missed her so much.

Just a few days after the funeral, there was a knock on my door. When I opened it, I froze.

It was my mother.

A desperate senior woman at the doorway | Source: Midjourney

A desperate senior woman at the doorway | Source: Midjourney

She looked older, gray threading through her dark hair, and lines around her eyes and mouth that hadn’t been there before. But her eyes were the same — distant and calculating.

“Please,” she whispered, gripping her purse with white-knuckled hands. “I just need to talk to you.”

Every instinct in me screamed to shut the door and walk away. But something in her tone, something almost… defeated, made me pause.

I crossed my arms. “Talk.”

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An annoyed woman with her arms crossed | Source: Midjourney

She exhaled, looking down before meeting my gaze. “Your brother knows about you.”

My breath hitched. “What do you mean?”

“Before she passed, your grandmother sent him a message. And told him everything.”

I swallowed hard.

“He was too young to remember you, Rebecca. And I… I didn’t let your grandmother talk about you to him. I told her if she did, she’d never see him again.”

My stomach churned. It was worse than I imagined. My mother not only abandoned me… she ERASED me.

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A happy little boy walking on the road | Source: Pexels

She must have seen the horror on my face because she rushed to explain. “I thought I was doing the right thing! You had your grandmother, and I had my family —”

“You had a family,” I cut in. “You decided I wasn’t part of it.”

Her lip trembled. “He won’t speak to me, not since he read the message last night. His phone fell in the water and had been switched off for days… and he’s just gotten the message from Grandma after turning it on last night. He’s mad at me for hiding you from him. I need you to talk to him. Tell him I’m not a monster.”

I let out a hollow laugh. “Not a monster? You abandoned your daughter at ten, pretended she didn’t exist, and threatened your own mother just to keep your secret. What would make you a monster, then?”

A guilty woman | Source: Midjourney

A guilty woman | Source: Midjourney

Tears welled in her eyes, but they didn’t move me. I had shed enough tears for her years ago.

Still, despite everything, I hesitated. Not for her, but for my brother.

I spent my life believing he had forgotten me. But he never had the chance to know me at all. He was just a child, manipulated by a woman who only saw me as an obstacle.

“I’ll take his number,” I said flatly.

My mother exhaled in relief, but her face fell when she realized what I meant. I wasn’t calling for her. I was calling for him.

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A furious yet composed woman | Source: Midjourney

“You can give him my number,” I clarified. “If he wants to talk to me, that’s his choice. And if he doesn’t want to talk to you…” I shrugged. “That’s his choice too.”

“Rebecca, please —”

“Goodbye, Mom,” I said, and slowly closed the door.

I met Jason a week later at a quiet café across town, my heart pounding as I saw him walk in. He was tall, with dark hair like our mother’s, but his eyes were kind.

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An upset man in a coffee shop | Source: Midjourney

He looked nervous but when he spotted me, something in his expression softened.

“I’m so sorry,” were the first words out of his mouth.

I stared at him. “You don’t have to apologize. You didn’t do anything wrong.”

“But I…” he swallowed hard. “I didn’t know. She never told me. I only found out because of Grandma’s message. I can’t believe she did that to you.”

I studied his face, searching for any sign of dishonesty. But there was none. He was just a kid when it happened. He hadn’t chosen this.

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A smiling woman looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

“You’re nothing like her, Jason.”

His shoulders sagged in relief. “I’ve been so angry since I found out. It’s like… everything I thought I knew about Mom was a lie.”

“How did you find out exactly?”

Jason ran a hand through his hair. “I got this email from Grandma. It had pictures of you, stories about you… things Mom never told me. And a letter explaining everything.”

“She was always clever,” I said, a sad smile tugging at my lips. “Even from beyond the grave, she was looking out for us.”

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A man lost in deep thought | Source: Midjourney

“She wrote that she promised not to tell me while she was alive because she was afraid Mom would cut me off from her completely.” He shook his head. “I can’t imagine being forced to make that choice. It’s so cruel.”

“That’s who Mom is,” I said. “She makes everything a transaction.”

He nodded, then pulled out his phone. “I have the pictures Grandma sent, if you want to see them?”

We spent the next hour looking at photos of a life intersected but separate. Grandma had documented everything for him, creating a bridge across the chasm our mother had dug between us.

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A smiling man looking at his phone | Source: Midjourney

“I always wanted a sibling,” Jason said quietly. “I used to beg for a brother or sister. Mom always said she couldn’t have more children after me. Another lie.”

“You know,” I said, pushing my empty coffee cup aside, “we can’t change the past. But we can decide what happens next.”

He nodded, a tentative smile crossing his face. “I’d like to know my sister, if that’s okay with you.”

For the first time in over two decades, I let myself feel something I never thought I’d have again — a connection to family that wasn’t built on obligation or pity.

“I’d like that,” I said. “I’d like that very much.”

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A cheerful woman | Source: Midjourney

Over the next few weeks, we talked more. I told him about my life, about how Grandma raised me, and how I spent years wondering if he ever thought of me.

And he told me about our mother. About how she had always been controlling, suffocating, and never allowed him to make his own choices.

We met at a park on a crisp autumn day, walking along paths covered in fallen leaves.

“Mom’s been calling me nonstop,” he said. “Showing up at my apartment. She even contacted my work.”

“That sounds like her. When she wants something, she doesn’t stop.”

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People walking in a park | Source: Pexels

“She always acted like the perfect mom, Rebecca. I thought she was just overprotective, but now I realize… she’s just selfish. Everything has always been about her image, her comfort, and her needs.”

“Has she always been like that with you?”

He kicked at a pile of leaves. “Yeah, I guess so. I just didn’t see it clearly until now. Nothing I did was ever quite good enough unless it made her look good too.”

We both knew, at that moment, that neither of us owed her anything.

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Portrait of a smiling man | Source: Midjourney

Weeks passed. I built a relationship with my brother, the one thing Mom had tried to keep from me. And she kept calling, sent messages, and even showed up at my door again.

But this time, when she knocked, I didn’t answer. She had made her choice 22 years ago. And now, I had made mine.

On what would have been Grandma’s birthday, Jason and I met at her grave. We placed her favorite yellow daisies and stood in silence.

“I wish I’d known her better,” Jason said. “Really known her.”

“She would have loved you,” I told him. “Not because you’re perfect, but because you’re you.”

A bouquet of yellow daisies on a gravestone | Source: Midjourney

A bouquet of yellow daisies on a gravestone | Source: Midjourney

As we walked back to our cars, something caught my eye across the cemetery. A familiar figure stood watching us.

Our mother.

Jason saw her too and tensed beside me.

“We don’t have to talk to her,” I said.

He shook his head. “No, we don’t.”

We got into our cars and drove away, leaving her standing alone among the gravestones.

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A sad woman in a cemetery | Source: Midjourney

In the end, family isn’t always who gives birth to you. Sometimes it’s who sees you and chooses to stay. Grandma chose me. And in her final act of love, she gave me back the brother I never knew.

Some wounds never heal completely. But around the scars, new life can still grow.

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People holding hands | Source: Pexels

Poor Mom Lives in Old Trailer with Son and Never Lets Anyone in until She Gets Hospitalized

Before she passes out and is taken to the hospital, an impoverished woman never lets anyone inside her run-down trailer. Her life is ultimately altered irrevocably by the subsequent events.

“Hey, young one! Keep away from him! Barbara let out a scream and hurried to where her son Timothy was playing with a child called Harry. “You have no right to come play with my son here. He doesn’t associate with weirdos and recluses!

“Mum!” Timothy started to cry. “That’s not Harry at all! I invited him to play with me and the other kids from the neighborhood because we are friends.

“Stop talking, Tim! You’re not aware of the potential risk that some people pose. You are aware that his mother is a deranged person who never allows anyone to be around her or enter her ridiculous trailer? How often have I told you not to go visit him already?

“Please, mom! It’s a nice boy, Harry. Simply said, we Harry cut Timothy off just as he was getting started.

“Don’t worry, Tim. He turned to face Barbara and said, “My mom says that mothers are always right, but Mrs. Anderson.” “My mother is a sweetheart. She is so afraid that she won’t let anyone into our trailer.

“Afraid?” Barbara gave him a sardonic chuckle. “We ought to be terrified of her! She must be planning something shady! Anyway, remember this, child: you will never again play with my son! Did you get the message?

Harry became so overcome with emotion that he was unable to talk. He ran out of the park to where he always parked his old white trailer, beneath a parched tree that marked the edge of a woodland that connected two suburbs.

Tracy, his mother, became concerned when she noticed he was sobbing all the time. “Honey, what’s the issue? What’s causing your tears? Are you in pain?

Harry sobbed, “It was one of our neighbors again, mom.” “Mom, they call you names all the time. I detest that! I detest all of them!

Tracy gave him a hug and whispered, “Oh, honey.” “Never harbor hatred for someone. People tend to say hurtful things when they’re upset. It implies neither that they despise you nor…

“No, mother! You’re not getting it! Harry shot back. They have no interest in comprehending you, myself, or anybody else. Are you even aware of the events of today? Mrs. Anderson advised me not to play with Timothy because I’m a hermit’s son and called you a recluse. Mom, please let’s get out of this town. I wish to leave this place.

Tracy was at a loss for words at that time. She was unable to inform Harry that her supervisor had sacked her that very afternoon and that her savings were running low. There was a moment before she said, “Honey.” “Maybe we should put off making a decision until the following month?”

“But why, mother? Why should we put up with their taunts? The boy became irrational. “Aww…all right, just do what you want! He moaned, “I want to spend some time alone,” and turned to leave.

Tracy started crying as soon as Harry departed. She berated herself for being an awful mother and a failure in life who had let her son down in addition to herself. She got up slowly and went to her bed, where she sobbed while holding a picture of Harry. Before long, she was fast asleep and unable to think of anything.

Harry returned to the trailer after nearly an hour had passed. “On my way back, Mom, I picked up some bread.” Would you kindly prepare the french toast for tomorrow morning? As he walked in and shut the door, he said.

Tracy was sleeping on the bed when he discovered something strange about the way she was lying there. “Mum? After asking, “Did you have dinner?” and giving her a little shake, Tracy ended up on the ground. “Mum! What took place? Let your eyes open! As the youngster realized his mother was not breathing, he began to cry.

He swiftly looked for Tracy’s phone and made a 911 call. Tracy was hauled away by the ambulance after a short while, which seemed like an eternity to the little kid. Harry sobbed while sitting outside the trailer, covering his face with his hands.

A voice suddenly cut him off. “Boy, what are you doing here by yourself? What happened to your mother?

Harry observed an older woman standing in front of him when he looked up. She smiled and said, “Don’t worry, I often see you and your mother here before I leave for work, so I know you two.” “Is everything in order?”

Harry felt a tiny bit of relief. “Mom fainted and was taken to the hospital.” I’m concerned for her.

The woman let out a gasp. “Don’t worry, she will be alright. Did they let you know which hospital they brought her to?

Yes, they provided me with a number and address. They wouldn’t let me accompany her because I’m a minor.

What if you spent the evening at my house? Tomorrow morning, we can visit her.

“However,” Harry faltered. “Why do you assist me? Our neighbors don’t think well of us. Do you not also believe that we are?

The woman started giggling. Harry, try not to let stuff like this affect you. In some manner, everyone is cruel.

“How did you know my name, wow?” Never before have we…

“Well, when I get home late from work, I see that you’re playing around here a lot.” You refuse to go back and sleep despite your mother’s persistent pleas.

“Oh!” With a smirk, Harry embarrassedly rubbed the back of his head. “I apologize; I didn’t adequately introduce myself. Harry Stevens is who I am.

“Hello Harry, nice to meet you. You may address me as Mrs. Taylor. So, are you interested in coming to supper with me tonight?

The boy said, “Sure,” and went with Mrs. Taylor to her house. The boy stayed at her residence that night after they had dinner together. Tracy had fainted from stress and tiredness, they found out when they went to see her the next day. Mrs. Taylor took over to take after Harry while she was in the hospital, as the doctors predicted she would be there for some time.

“Ma’am, you have my sincere gratitude,” Tracy remarked to Mrs. Taylor. “I’m very happy Harry is doing well. She turned to Harry and said, “Honey, would you please wait outside while I speak with Mrs. Taylor?” “I have important things to talk about.”

Yes, mother.

Tracy burst into tears as Harry left. “We appreciate your assistance, ma’am. We are truly unable to repay your kindness.

“I’ve seen you by yourself quite a bit. How come you don’t interact with your neighbors? Although they can be bothersome occasionally, they aren’t too bad.

“Mrs. Taylor, I don’t blame them for treating me badly. I kept quiet about my living situation since I felt ashamed of it. Being an orphan, I was sure I could care for my son after my spouse passed away, but things didn’t work out. We had to get out of our big mansion and drive a little car. I used to be a waitress in a restaurant to help support my son while I was a struggling writer, but I got fired yesterday for being consistently late to work. I’m just a failure, nothing more. Kindly accept Harry. I am unable to care for him. Would you please…I simply want to stop living!” She sobbed uncontrollably.

“You ought not to say that! In all time! For now, concentrate on recovering quickly! Young lady, you never know where life will lead you!

Mrs. Taylor was correct, of course, when she emphasized that anything can happen in life at any time.

Sitting at a table, Tracy autographed copies of “The Woman: Life Through the Odds,” her debut book, which was already a New York Times bestseller. There was a sizable group waiting for her to sign the copies, and she was resplendent in a suit.

This day, exactly a year ago, she had come home from the hospital. Mrs. Taylor started a GoFundMe page to gather money to help her and Harry when she saw how horrible the conditions were inside her mobile home.

That gave Tracy the willpower to start over after she had earlier wanted to give up on everything and consider herself a failure. She began working as a waitress on the weekends and as a freelance writer during the week after renting a tiny home. She would write her book all night long, and nine months later, it was eventually published. Harry was able to attend a better school thanks to her, and Mrs. Taylor—who had previously been unknown to them—became both her mother and Harry’s grandmother.

As Tracy was about to leave her book signing, she thought back on how her life had altered. She pulled out to find a black automobile waiting for her. Anderson Brown, her fiancé, got out of the car and held the door open for her.

It was at Harry’s school that Tracy had first encountered him. She fell in love with him right away; he was a widower with a daughter. He asked her to marry him shortly after, and she accepted.

After Tracy took a seat in the front seat, they drove home to their daughter and son and their new roommate, Mrs. Taylor. On her walk home, she said a little prayer to God, giving thanks for everything.

What lessons may we draw from this tale?

We must exercise patience and seek out the bright side. When things get tough, we start to lose hope, just like Tracy. However, we must never lose sight of the truth that, with enough confidence, we can conquer any challenge. With Mrs. Taylor’s help, Tracy made a fresh start and is today a well-known author.
A book shouldn’t be judged by its cover. Because she was ashamed of her living situation, Tracey never opened her door to others, but they misinterpreted her and called her all kinds of nasty names.

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