Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
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Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
Roy Rogers and Dale Evans: The Legendary Hollywood Family
Famed Hollywood stars Roy Rogers and Dale Evans were not only known for their iconic roles on the big screen but also became beloved television stars. Roy, known as the “King of the Cowboys,” captivated audiences with his singing cowboy persona and his faithful palomino horse, Trigger. He had his own show, the Roy Rogers Show, and appeared in over a hundred films.
Between his marriages to Grace Arline Wilkins and Dale Evans, Roy Rogers had a total of nine children. While some followed in their famous father’s footsteps in Hollywood, others chose quieter paths. Let’s take a closer look at the fascinating lives of Roy Rogers’ offspring.
Cheryl Rogers and Linda Lou Rogers: Two Paths, One Family
Grace Arline Wilkins and Cheryl Rogers adopted Cheryl when she was young. As a child, she made cameo appearances in films alongside her father and his famous horse, Trigger. Linda, Roy Rogers’ biological daughter with Grace, lived a quieter life. She was married to priest Gary Johnson for over 40 years until his passing in 2008. Linda now enjoys her time with her children and grandchildren in California.
Dusty Rogers: The Legacy Continues
Roy Rogers Jr., affectionately known as Dusty, is Roy Rogers’ only biological son. Dusty made his first appearance on The Roy Rogers Show as a young boy and later went on to manage his father’s career. He was also a talented musician, leading the bands Roy Rogers Jr. and the High Riders and being a member of the Sons of the Pioneers.
Honoring the Lost: Robin and Deborah Lee Rogers
Dale Evans and Roy Rogers’ daughter, Robin, tragically passed away at a young age due to mumps complications. To honor her memory, Dale wrote the heartfelt book “Angel Unaware.” Deborah Lee Rogers, adopted during the Korean War, found a loving home with the family. Sadly, Deborah and other children from her church were involved in a devastating bus accident in Los Angeles, resulting in her untimely death at the age of 12.
Dodie Rogers and Mimi Rogers: Love and Adoption
Native American Dodie Rogers joined the family when she was just seven months old. After marrying NASA worker Jon Patterson, Dodie became a mother to their daughter, Kristin, and now enjoys being a grandmother to her own grandkids. Mimi Rogers, originally named Marion Fleming, became a member of the family after Roy and Dale adopted her from a children’s home in Scotland. Mimi went on to have three children with her husband, Marine Dan, before his passing. Now a grandma herself, Mimi cherishes her role in the family.
Tom Fox: A Musical Life
Tom Fox, Dale Evans’ biological son from her previous marriage, was lovingly brought up by Roy and Dale. Throughout his life, Tom pursued a career as a music minister and educator, leaving a lasting impact on those he encountered. He passed away in 2012, leaving behind a legacy of music and family values.
Through happiness, sorrow, and love, the remarkable story of Roy Rogers and Dale Evans’ family stands as a testament to their unwavering family principles and lasting impact on Hollywood and beyond.
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