Cher’s journey from the unknown to establishing her distinct place as a multitalented icon is nothing short of exciting. In addition to redefining music and ruling the world of music for nearly six decades, she has challenged the norms and expectations, building a persona unlike any other.
From being fun and full of surprises to exuberating boldness and brilliance—Cher’s journey to success has been both unconventional and exceptional. Moreover, she has used fashion as a form of self-expression, unapologetically conveying her somewhat complex personal style.
Despite her age, the “After All” singer’s revealing style has remained unchanged. Her choice of seemingly inappropriate outfits has kept her in the spotlight for years. At the 2017 Billboard Music Awards, she rocked a body-baring, heart-shaped pasties outfit made from beaded threads.
Cher topped her look with a platinum wig, looking snug and happy in her bold beaded dress. Interestingly, everyone adored her style, and she also bagged the Icon Award, which later gave her a chance to share an emotional acceptance speech.
While reflecting on her journey in the music arena for over 50 years at the time, Cher echoed what her mom told her when she was a young girl:
“You’re not going to be the smartest, you’re not going to be the prettiest, you’re not going to be the most talented, but you’re going to be special.’”
Taking the conversation further, the “If I Could Turn Back Time” star noted how her style statement throughout her career had been unique, despite being dubbed outrageous, distinct, and against the rule books.
To anyone wondering how she pulled off such a revealing dress for her age, the then-71-year-old responded, “I can do a five-minute plank.”
Despite going strong in her 70s, Cher has received immense criticism for her looks. In 2019, a user called the songstress “too old to dress like a [20-year-old].”
In 2014, a second user slammed her for looking ugly in her purple dress, saying she needed to wear something longer. “Cher looks like an ugly Ozzy,” commented another user.
She has reportedly been dubbed as the poster girl for cosmetic procedures.
Besides being criticized, the “Moonstruck” alum has also received supportive comments from fans. “THIS is cher! she looks her age, beautiful and happy. there’s nothing wrong with looking like you’ve lived [sic],” stated one user on Twitter.
When Cher posted her mother’s picture on social media in June 2022, many drew similarities between the two women. She is beautiful. She is beautiful at her age now!” wrote a fan. Another netizen commended the pop star, adding, “Looks beautiful for any age and she is already doing her job fabulously.”
For Cher, the world of glitz and glam has also pressured her to remain young and relevant in her field. She has reportedly been dubbed as the poster girl for cosmetic procedures.
When asked if she normalized the trend, the singer immediately pointed out how she had seen girls as young as 18 want to change their appearance. She said she didn’t comprehend why people held her responsible for something which had been trending for a long time.
“If you’re no good at what you do, people don’t care what you look like,” answered Cher when asked if cosmetic treatments had prolonged her career. She noted how people didn’t pay money to look at someone and attached much more importance to someone’s performance.
Despite admitting to feeling exhausted and drained, the “Burlesque” alum said her voice had never been better. She also stated how she had worked diligently to build her body strength, adding that even 20-year-old girls couldn’t do what she did.
While commenting on an American tabloid newspaper constantly suggesting she was on the brink of death, Cher appeared shocked and confused. During her response to the somewhat queer question, she said she was unsure why they thought she was dying when she had never felt that way.
Cher is also excellent at monitoring her diet and is a fan of healthy eating except for her love for chocolate. She also credits working out and exercising to her gorgeous appearance and agelessness.
So, how does the “All or Nothing” singer maintain her lovely figure while adding more years to her life? She once shared how she works twice as hard and loves being in the gym as much as possible. Cher said she was a tomboy in her youth and loved playing sports.
Owing to her sporty attitude, Cher also learned to surf and said she loved embarking on adventures. The Oscar-winning diva has a few simple beauty tips which have helped her remain an elegant beauty over the years.
Her secrets to staying fit, active, healthy, and of course, ageless include saying no to drinking, smoking, and drugs. In addition to understanding the importance of mindful eating and adopting a vegetarian diet, Cher confessed she rarely drank and never did drugs.
Cher once rated Cruise among her top five lovers, and the duo’s relationship amassed immense popularity back in the day, despite the “Jerry Maguire” actor being 16 years her junior.
The “Baby Don’t Go” star explained how she had always considered drinking and drugs unhealthy. While she admitted to smoking cigarettes for some time, she quickly bounced back and steered clear of anything that contradicted her taste.
Being the superstar she is, Cher’s health continues to worry her fans from time to time, mainly in the wake of her advancing age. In 2021, she had to cancel some of her concerts after contracting a mysterious illness.
Heeding her doctor’s advice, Cher, then 75, took some time to rest and recover and kept her loyal fan base updated about her health through regular social media updates.
Known for entertaining the audience, staying relevant, and serving style goals despite her age, the Emmy-winning star was shattered to cancel some of her shows. During her “Dressed To Kill” tour, she was said to have fallen ill with a severe virus affecting her kidneys and voice box.
At the time, Cher had to cancel her mega show’s second half because she appeared too unwell to perform. However, despite her health scares, she has managed to stay fit and healthy, determined to keep her fans entertained with her mesmerizing performances.
Cher’s age has never deterred her from chasing her dreams. In addition to reveling in continued success and fame, she had had an exciting love life. In November 2022, the “Love and Understanding” singer went public with her relationship to Alexander “AE” Edwards, 40 years her junior.
When photos of the hot duo circulated on social media, many fans warned Cher about her then-boyfriend’s past. But sources reported that the Grammy-winning musician was unswayed by the online chatter, and she couldn’t care less about the skepticism surrounding her relationship.
Despite the undue media and public scrutiny, Cher seemed to enjoy the attention, reportedly adding that she and her then-beau shared something extraordinary, making her feel sexy and full of life.
The same source shared that Cher had always had a thing for younger men, and her relationship with Edwards was no different than her previous connections. But what made it stand out from the “Bang Bang” star’s prior romances was how it made her feel and her confidence to take it public.
In December 2022, Cher posted a picture of her pear-shaped diamond ring on Twitter, triggering the romance rumor mill. The “Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again” alum wrote how she wished her late mom, Georgia Holt, could witness her happiness and gorgeous ring.
She mentioned how her mother loved diamonds and would have been ecstatic to share her daughter’s happiness. Later, Cher said she had posted the ring’s photo because she wished to flaunt her then-boyfriend’s fabulous nails.
The pop star’s romance with Edwards isn’t the only one that gained widespread media attention. In the past, she’s dated Hollywood A-listers, including Richie Sambora, Elvis Presley, Tom Cruise, and several others.
Cher once rated Cruise among her top five lovers, and the duo’s relationship amassed immense popularity back in the day, despite the “Jerry Maguire” actor being 16 years her junior.
She has been married twice: she wed Sonny Bono in 1964, and they divorced in 1975. They share a son, Chaz Bono. Unfortunately, Sonny died in 1998. Later, in 1975, she tied the knot with Gregg Allman, but the duo divorced three years later. Allman passed away in 2017, and the duo share a son, Elijah.
Despite the rumors that Cher and Edwards were engaged, sources close to the couple confirmed that they had gone their separate ways after just six months of dating. It was also revealed that the pair were never engaged, and Cher’s ring was merely a gift from her ex-lover.
Regardless, the duo was said to be incredibly close, and Edwards’ son loved spending time at Cher’s Malibu residence. Their romance and brief relationship were believed to be real and special, and despite their decision to call it quits, they were said to be on friendly terms.
Although Cher has been slammed off and on for her revealing style, she continues to exuberate class and confidence while showing off her slim figure, proving that age is just a number!
My Sister Shocked Grandma with a $3,000 Birthday Party Bill – I Taught Her a Lesson
What started as a lovely birthday gesture from my sister to our grandmother turned into a painful confrontation and hurt feelings. I was determined to remedy the situation, and the only way to bring us all together as a family again was to heal the wounds. Read on to learn how I taught my sibling a valuable lesson.
Growing up, family gatherings were always a big deal for us. We’d gather around, laugh, eat, and celebrate each other’s milestones. My sister, Amanda, and I had always been close, sharing our lives’ ups and downs. But last year, she pulled a stunt that nearly tore our family apart.
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It all started when Amanda decided to throw a surprise 90th birthday party for our grandmother, Grace. It was supposed to be a small, intimate gathering at our house, but my sister had bigger plans.
She booked a hall in a swanky downtown restaurant and assured everyone that the costs were covered. “Don’t worry about anything, guys,” Amanda said confidently during our family Zoom call. “It’s Grandma’s 90th, so we’re going all out. I’ve got it all handled.”
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We were all excited and ready to enjoy what we assumed would be a perfect day, but I should have known better. My sister had a history of being a bit extravagant, often going overboard with her ideas. But I trusted her like I always did.
The day of the party arrived, and the restaurant hall was beautifully decorated with flowers and balloons. There was also a large banner that read, “Happy 90th Birthday, Grandma!” My grandma was beaming and over the moon, touched by the effort when she arrived to everyone singing “Happy birthday to you!”
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My granny couldn’t stop smiling because of all the love and attention she was getting. It was a beautiful thing to witness, and I almost got teary-eyed at one point. Everything was going wonderfully.
We all enjoyed delicious food, lively conversations, and a warm and welcoming family atmosphere. Everything seemed perfect. But as the evening was winding down, the mood shifted dramatically in anticipation of the surprise that was about to hit us.
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A waiter approached our grandmother with a leather folder in hand. “Ma’am, here’s the bill,” he said politely, placing it in front of her. Grandma’s eyes widened as she opened the folder.
“Three thousand dollars?” she gasped, her face turning pale with shock.
My poor grandmother was floored when she realized the WHOLE tab was on her! We were also confused and kept muttering amongst ourselves as we tried to figure out what was going on.
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Amanda, seemingly unfazed, turned to Grace and said, “Oh, Grandma, we all know you’re wealthy, so don’t hesitate to pay up for everything. After all, I organized all this for YOU!”
I was so shocked, I couldn’t believe what I was hearing!
The room had fallen silent. But my grandmother’s reaction left me even more floored. Her hands trembled as she closed the folder before asking, her voice shaking with anger, “What makes you think I’m wealthy?”
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Amanda shrugged nonchalantly. “Well, you have a big house and a nice car, and you paid for everyone’s college. That means you have money. Don’t pretend you’re poor.” The room gasped as we listened to them going back and forth.
Grandma’s expression hardened as she said, “I worked HARD to earn a decent life for myself and to pay for my children’s and grandchildren’s education. But that doesn’t mean I’m rich.” Seeing how upset my grandmother was getting, I tried to settle her.
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“It’s okay, Grandma, you don’t have to explain yourself, we’ll sort this out,” I said. But the damage was already done, and Grace was livid. She shrugged me off and continued talking to my sister.
“I didn’t ask for this dinner, and if you all came just to eat at my expense…” The weight of her words hung in the air. Without another word, Grandma pulled out her checkbook, wrote a check for the full amount, and left the restaurant.
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The rest of us sat there, stunned and ashamed. I felt horrible about the whole situation, especially since my sister made it seem like we were all in on it. The way things played out, my Grandma thought we were all involved in Amanda’s plan when we had no idea she would do something like this.
Amanda looked around, her confidence waning. “I didn’t mean for it to go like this,” she said quietly. But the damage was done. What had started and progressed into a lovely celebration was now dampened by conflict.
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Everything was spoiled, and the good memories we’d made were now overridden by Amanda’s carelessness. I couldn’t shake the feeling of betrayal. Without saying much, I left the venue and drove home in silence while being deep in thought.
By the time I reached my house, I had decided I needed to teach my sister a lesson she wouldn’t forget. I wanted to get back at her for what she did to our grandmother. So I came up with a cunning and devious plan.
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A few weeks later, I set my plan into motion. I organized a fake “exclusive event” in Amanda’s honor, claiming she was getting a surprise award for her “amazing organizational skills.” I sent out invitations to all our friends and family, making sure everyone knew it was a surprise.
I told Amanda that it was a black-tie affair at a fancy venue and that she was our guest of honor. Since she LOVED attention, my poor clueless sister didn’t even want to know much about why she was being honored.
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She was thrilled to have an event done specially for her. The special occasion was set for a Friday evening at a fancy venue downtown. I hired actors to play the roles of important guests and even a fake award presenter.
I wanted everything to be perfect the same way Amanda had wanted Grandma’s party to be. My sister arrived that evening, dressed to the nines in a shimmering evening gown. She looked radiant, expecting a night of praise and admiration.
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As she entered the venue, she was greeted by applause from the guests. “Welcome, everyone,” the fake presenter announced, stepping onto the stage. “Tonight, we honor Amanda for her exceptional organizational skills and her ability to make every event memorable.”
My sibling beamed, her smile lighting up the room. She had no idea what was coming next. The presenter continued, “Amanda has a unique talent for managing events, often finding creative ways to ensure everything runs well.”
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He paused for effect, glancing at me before delivering the punchline. “And by creative ways, I mean her masterful ability to make others pay for her grand schemes.” The room erupted in laughter. Amanda’s smile faltered as she realized this was no ordinary award ceremony.
The presenter, an actor I’d hired, listed several fabricated examples of my sister’s so-called organizational skills, each one more absurd than the last. “And let’s not forget her recent accomplishment, convincing her grandmother to foot the bill for a $3,000 birthday party. Truly, a genius move!”
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Amanda’s face turned crimson. She looked around, mortified, as the guests continued to laugh and clap at her expense as they realized the event was a prank. My sister turned to me, her eyes filled with betrayal but also a look that conveyed that she understood the message.
When the whole performance was done, people settled in to enjoy the rest of the evening. I pulled Amanda aside, away from the prying eyes of the guests. “This is a taste of how it feels to be humiliated in front of people you care about,” I said, my voice low but firm.
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“You better think twice before you treat Grandma or anyone else like that again.”
Amanda’s eyes filled with tears. “I’m sorry,” she said, her voice breaking. “I never meant to hurt Grandma. I thought it would be a nice surprise.”
“It wasn’t nice, Amanda. It was selfish and thoughtless. You can’t just assume that people have money to spend on your ideas. Grandma deserves better than that.”
Amanda nodded, wiping away her tears. “I understand. I’ll apologize to her. I promise I’ll change.”
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True to her word, Amanda apologized to Grandma the next day. She expressed her regret and promised to never take advantage of anyone’s generosity again. Grandma, ever the forgiving soul, accepted her apology, though it was clear she was still hurt by the incident.
To make amends, my sister and I organized another family dinner, this time at a modest restaurant that Grandma loved. We covered the ENTIRE bill and reimbursed Grandma for the previous dinner. It wasn’t about the money; it was about restoring the trust and respect that had been damaged.
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As we sat around the table, enjoying a much more relaxed and heartfelt evening, Grandma smiled at us, her eyes twinkling with gratitude. “Family is everything,” she said softly. “And I’m glad we’re able to come together like this.”
Looking at Amanda, I could see the sincerity in her eyes. She had learned her lesson, and our family bond was stronger for it. We laughed, shared stories, and created new memories that night, leaving the past behind us.
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In the end, Amanda’s misguided attempt at a grand gesture turned into a valuable lesson for all. It reminded us of the importance of humility, respect, and understanding the true meaning of generosity. And most importantly, it reaffirmed the strength of our family’s love and commitment to one another.
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