The woman was shocked when her Uber driver uninvitedly offered advise on how to take care of her beautiful skin.
The “Queen of the Dark,” as the fashion diva was affectionately called, laughed off his comments and embraced her breathtaking beauty.
Continue reading to find out what this Uber driver said her and how she utilized it as a teaching moment!
Nyakim Gatwech, who spent her early years in refugee camps in Ethiopia and Kenya, thought that living in America would “be like heaven.”
But when Gatwech moved to Buffalo at the age of 14, she stayed by herself a lot, crying over comments made about her very dark skin tone.
“You don’t wash your hair. Because of this, your skin is filthy.Or, “Nyakim, smile so we can see you. You are invisible to us. You have dirty skin as a result. Or grin for us to see you, Nyakim. We cannot see you.
In class, for example, the instructor might ask a question and say, “Oh, Nyakim, can you answer that?””How about a toddler asking, “Who are you talking to?”? We cannot see her. She’s not here. The now 31-year-old woman says, “I would just cry, and the whole class would start laughing,” as reported by Cosmopolitan.
The innocent young girl just wanted to fit in, but it was difficult when random people were speculating about whether or not she was indeed that dark-skinned and whether or not she was wearing leggings.
I did think about [bleaching my skin] at one time. I was 14 years old when I fled an African refugee camp and moved to Buffalo, New York. The beauty admits, “After being teased [about my skin], I would cry myself to sleep.””So many stunning Sudanese women with dark skin tones bleach their skin.”
The model continued by saying that her own sister was one of the Sudanese ladies who had bleached her skin.”It was my own sister.” However, after a few months of living in America, I told her that I wanted to, and she said no. I will not allow my kid, you, or anyone else to do it.
Dark Queen
The woman, who has encountered prejudice from makeup artists, designers, and other models, is now referred to as the Queen of the Dark and feels strong since she has triumphed over the criticism.
Additionally, Gatwech’s 962,000 dedicated Instagram fans encourage her self-assurance and amazing fondness for her deep chocolate skin tone.
“My chocolate is sophisticated. Thus, I stand for this. A country of fighters,” she writes in one of her posts.
And the incredibly beautiful woman’s admirers can’t get enough of her.
One fan writes, “Omgggggg I love your skin and melanin,” while another exclaims, “I love your beautiful skin tone so much!” God creates exquisite things like you to serve as a constant reminder of His majesty.
In response to the tremendous outpouring of love, Gatwech adds, “I learned to love myself.I’m not troubled by the negative anymore. I love and embrace my skin, and I no longer feel insecure about it. I no longer believe I’m ugly. I am confident in who I am.
“The silliest queries”
Speaking about her odd skin, Gatwech recounts about meeting an Uber driver a few years ago who asked if she would ever consider whitening it.
“Oh, you’re dark,” he remarked.Gatwech describes her chat with the driver to Cosmopolitan.”I merely chuckled. I was curious as to why he felt that I ought to. He said that because it would make my life simpler. If I were lighter, I could get into a relationship more easily and guys would be more drawn to me. I’m lighter, so if I went to a job interview, I would receive the opportunity. I just responded, “I’d rather take the [hard] road, even if] being lighter would make my life easier.”
The woman goes on, “I’m used to people asking the stupidest questions ever [about my skin].”
Gatwech then shared the story on Instagram along with a stunning picture of herself with three other stunning dark-skinned Sudanese women.
“A country with people so dark you won’t believe your eyes,” the author writes. Teeth so brilliant, skin so rich. Oh, how I cherish my nation, my people, and all that it entails.
“[SIC] I was asking my Uber driver the other day, and he said, don’t take this personally, but would you bleach your skin for ten thousand dollars?” she says, going on to describe her interaction with the driver. I couldn’t even respond because I was laughing so much.He then responded, “So that’s a no,” to which I replied, “Hell to the f*king yeah, that’s a no, why would I ever bleach this gorgeous melanin that God bless with me?””So you see it as a blessing,” he continued.
Her backers applauded Gatwech right away and raced to her defense.
“I suppose he missed the memo.”Black is gorgeous,” an admirer writes.
Another person says, “I cherish you for cherishing me.”A third wonders, “Why would we ever want to mess up something so beautiful?”
Asking Yahoo Beauty for guidance, she said, “You are beautiful, you are unique, and there are people who love you just the way you are” to young black girls suffering comparable struggles. It’s said that the juice of a cherry is sweeter the darker it is. Accept your gloom!
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At 60, I Found Love Again 9 Years After Losing My Husband – At the Wedding, My Late Husband’s Brother Yelled, ‘I Object!’
When Ellie decided to remarry at 60, nine years after losing her husband Richard, she thought her family and friends would celebrate her happiness. But as the priest asked if anyone objected, her late husband’s brother stood and shouted, “I object!” What followed was something she didn’t see coming.
For nine years, I grieved Richard’s loss and slowly rebuilt my life piece by piece. When I met Thomas, a kind widower who understood my pain, I thought I had finally found a second chance at happiness.
But not everyone was ready to let me move on.
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They say life begins at 60, and for me, it felt true.
After years of grief, I was ready to embrace love again, and when I met Thomas, my heart told me it was time to take a chance.
But before I tell you about our story, let me share a bit about my life.
Richard and I were married for 35 years, and we built a beautiful life together.
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We had three wonderful children, Sophia, Liam, and Ben. Richard was the type of guy who’d do anything to keep his family happy, and that’s exactly what he did.
He was a loving husband and an incredible father. He worked tirelessly to ensure our kids were well-fed and was always there to support us.
We had our ups and downs like every couple, but his steady presence always made me feel secure no matter what life threw at us.
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But all stories have to come to an end, right? Our story reached its final chapter when Richard was diagnosed with stage four cancer.
The doctors didn’t give us much hope, and despite trying every treatment available, the illness consumed him quickly.
I’ll never forget how he encouraged me to handle everything bravely. I was sitting by his bedside when he held my hand and looked straight into my eyes.
“Take care of the kids,” he said in a trembling voice. “Be strong for them. And don’t let this stop you from living.”
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He passed away shortly after, and my world crumbled into pieces.
The first six months after his death were the hardest. I couldn’t go to the grocery store without breaking down because it reminded me of the times we shopped together.
Every corner of our home held memories of him, and the silence at night was unbearable.
One day, I was at Sophia’s place when my grandson looked at me with his big, tearful eyes.
“Grandma, I don’t want to lose you like I lost Grandpa,” he said.
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What he said was just a combination of 11 words, but the impact it had on me was enormous. It made me realize that I couldn’t let sorrow consume me. I couldn’t spend the rest of my life feeling sad because my family still needed me.
That night, I made a promise to myself. I told myself I’d keep living and that was not just for me. It was for my family.
From that day on, I slowly started to rebuild.
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I sought help from a therapist, started attending dance classes, and even experimented with bright, colorful clothes. I styled my hair differently and embraced the parts of me I had once neglected.
“After all, this is what Richard wanted me to do,” I told myself. “He wanted to see me dress up and smile. He wanted his wife to be happy even if he wasn’t there.”
By the seventh year after Richard’s passing, I found myself smiling more often and feeling lighter. I wasn’t the same woman I had been during the first few dark months.
I was vibrant and confident, ready to embrace life again.
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A year ago, I decided to take a trip I had always dreamed of. I wanted to go see the beautiful waterfalls and nature parks, and Sophia encouraged me to go ahead.
“You deserve to live all of your dreams, Mom,” she told me.
That trip was where I met Thomas.
I’ll never forget the first time we spoke. It was a crisp morning at a small park near one of the waterfalls.
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I was sipping coffee, gazing at the water cascading down the rocks, when Thomas approached me with a warm smile.
“Beautiful, isn’t it?” he said, gesturing toward the falls.
We began talking, and before I knew it, hours had passed.
He told me about his late wife, how they had shared a life full of love but how her passing had left a void he didn’t think anyone could fill. I told him about Richard, and how, for years, I couldn’t imagine even smiling again.
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It felt like the world had paused for us at that moment.
We shared our grief and our hopes. Both Thomas and I dreamt of companionship, laughter, and love that didn’t need to replace what we’d lost but could stand alongside it.
Over the next few months, Thomas and I grew closer.
I found him to be very patient, kind, and thoughtful. He lived a few hours away from my house, but he never asked me to drive all the way there.
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Instead, he visited me whenever he could and the best part about him was that he never rushed things. He understood my hesitations, my guilt, and the little pangs of doubt that occasionally surfaced.
But with every conversation, every walk in the park, and every shared meal, I felt my heart opening again.
A year later, Thomas proposed during a picnic at that same waterfall. I was stunned but overjoyed.
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“Are you sure?” I asked him as tears blurred my vision. “You’re ready for this?”
He laughed softly and held my hands.
“I’ve never been more sure of anything,” he said. “We deserve this, Ellie. We deserve happiness.”
As our wedding day approached, I felt like I was twenty again. I wore a beautiful dress that Thomas had selected himself.
The church was filled with golden afternoon light, and my heart was full as I walked down the aisle toward Thomas.
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My children sat in the front row, smiling as they saw me in the white dress. At that point, I felt whole.
But as I stood at the altar, hand in hand with Thomas, the moment was interrupted.
Just as the priest asked, “If anyone objects to this union, speak now or forever hold your peace,” a voice broke the silence.
“I OBJECT.”
I turned to see who it was, and that’s when my gaze landed on David, Richard’s elder brother. His face had this fierce look of disapproval.
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“I object!” he repeated, stepping forward with a pointed glare.
Murmurs rippled through the room as David walked toward the altar. Meanwhile, my heart pounded against my chest because I had no idea what was happening.
Why would David object to my wedding? What was going on?
He didn’t leave much room for guessing.
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“Look at you, Ellie!” he shouted, his voice filled with disdain. “Dressed in white, standing here as if Richard never existed. While Richard—my brother—lies in the cold ground, you’re here celebrating like none of it ever mattered. How dare you?”
His words made me so embarrassed that I could feel the heat in my cheeks. I also felt the sting of tears in my eyes, but I didn’t let them fall.
Instead, I took a deep breath, preparing myself to answer his question.
“Do you think I’ve forgotten, David?” I asked, looking straight into his eyes. “Do you think a single day has passed where I haven’t thought about Richard?”
A woman talking to her late husband’s brother | Source: Midjourney
I looked at Thomas, who gave me a calm nod, signaling me to go ahead. Then, I turned back to David.
“Richard wasn’t just my husband. He was my best friend, the father of my children, and the love of my life. But he’s gone, and I am still here. Am I not allowed to live?”
David scoffed, but before he could reply, my daughter Sophia stood up.
“Enough, Uncle David!” she said. “Before you accuse Mom of sinning because she wanted to live her life, I want you to see something. Not just you… I want you all to see this.”
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Then, she walked to the front of the church with a small projector in her hands. That’s when I understood what she was doing. She was about to show a video of Richard.
It was supposed to be a surprise for the reception, something my children and I had planned to honor Richard’s memory. But now, it was time.
The room grew silent as the projector flickered to life. Moments later, Richard’s voice filled the air, warm and steady, just as I remembered.
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“Ellie, if you’re watching this, it means I’m no longer here,” his voice said. “But I need you to promise me one thing. Don’t let grief hold you back. Love again, laugh again, and dance in that silly way you do. If someone else brings you happiness, hold onto them with all your strength.”
Richard had made this video for me during his last days. He’d made more videos for our kids too, and they wanted to play all of them at the reception. They believed playing the videos would make us all feel Richard was there with us, supporting us.
But my dearest Sophia decided to play this one to stand up for me.
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The guests were quiet, and I could even see some of my friends crying. But David? He wasn’t done yet.
He turned to Thomas with a stern expression on his face.
“And you,” David spat. “You think I don’t see through you? Marrying a woman in her 60s so you can rob her children of their inheritance? What kind of man are you?”
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Thomas stood tall, his voice calm but commanding. “David, I don’t need Ellie’s money. We’ve signed a marriage agreement. In the event of her death, I inherit nothing. I’m here because I love her, not because of what she has.”
David opened his mouth to speak again, but Thomas raised his voice.
“Enough!” he said. “Just mind your own business and let other people be happy. There’s nothing more left to say.”
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David wanted to argue, but he was escorted out of the church with the help of my sons.
The ceremony continued after he left, and as Thomas and I exchanged vows, the warmth and love in the room were undeniable.
And that is how I remarried at 60 and started a new chapter of my life.
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