What does bravery really mean? Is it the bravery to hold on when you know the end is close and the battle you fought so hard is lost, or is it the capacity to face terrifying things?
For a sixteen-year-old girl, bravery meant standing by her father, who never wavered even under the most trying circumstances.
A man by the name of Tom Mitchell told the following tale.
This loving father remembered his daughter complaining that she didn’t feel well and requesting to be taken to the doctor because she thought she had a sinus infection.
Yes, sweetie, I’ll come get you tomorrow after school. If you’d like, we can have supper together afterward,” he replied.
The next day, the two did enjoy dinner together, but it was not at their preferred eatery. Rather, kids were having difficulty swallowing the food at Fairfax Hospital’s pediatric oncology unit. These father and daughter would have more than 450 meals there together, not to mention the hundreds more in the years that followed.
Instead of a sinus infection, his daughter had a massive tumor that had gone to her lungs and collapsed one.
It was a genuine struggle. Even though they knew it wouldn’t be simple, they were committed to fighting as a team.
Hodgkin’s illness, stage four, was Shayla’s diagnosis.
Tom tried to convey to them what it meant to be brave and withstand the trials and problems life placed in front of them by purchasing two sterling silver “feather” bracelets and placing one on each of their wrists.
Then he made three promises: he would stay at the hospital every night until Shayla was cancer-free; he would wear the bracelet until then; and he would persevere as long as she did.
Shayla’s cancer struggle dragged on for years, during which she had blood transfusions, chemotherapy, radiation, painkillers, and more medication. Her body could not take all of this, and as a result, her heart grew weak and a defibrillator had to be quickly implanted within her chest.
Shayla was getting ready for chemotherapy one day when she started screaming, “Help me, Dad! I’m shocked by it! ..I’m shocked by it.
Tom continued his explanation of what had occurred. I drew her in and gave her my strongest embrace. It almost blew her out of my arms and stunned her once more. But I resisted letting go. That’s exactly how I hugged her, fiercely as I could. As swiftly as it had begun, it stopped startling her, and we hurried to the hospital.
As it turned out, the device’s maker had to recall thousands of them because they were malfunctioning, and Shayla’s chest contained one of them.
More chemotherapy sessions, blood transfusions, a botched bone marrow transplant, and more uncomfortable sleepless nights ensued. But until the very last, Shayla never once considered giving up.
“How in the world was I meant to talk to my sweet kid about this? How would I ever have the courage to tell my daughter that she was going to die? There’s a quote I once heard that kind of captures my thoughts. “Can a guy who is terrified still be brave? He can only be bold at that moment. I had to have courage for HER! Of course, I did have that talk with her, and despite how unbelievable it may sound, it ended up being the most incredible, lovely, magical, and fantastic conversation I have ever had in my life. I sincerely pray you never, ever have to have it. Tom gave a portion.
“Dad, am I still brave?,” she murmured in his ear.
Then he met her gaze directly and saw into her soul. He was aware that she was beyond tired of battling and that it was becoming impossible for her, but he suddenly came to a chilling realization. She exhibited bravery for him rather than for herself.
Shayla tragically passed away a few days later, but her father will always remember her bravery and strength.
Shayla, rest in peace.
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Neighbor Reports Family to Police Over Kids Using Trampoline, Parents Craft the Perfect Retort
Mrs. Whitaker, the always grumpy neighbor, had reached her limit when she called the police on Fred’s family because their kids were laughing. Fed up, Fred decided to confront her directly, leading to a neighborhood clash and an unexpected solution.
Living next to Mrs. Whitaker felt like living next to a ticking time bomb. She always found something to complain about, especially when it came to Fred’s family. To her, even the sound of children laughing was unbearable.
Fred and his wife, Laura, enjoyed spending time with their two kids, Danny and Emma, who loved to play outside, especially on their backyard trampoline. Their laughter brought joy to Fred, but to Mrs. Whitaker, it was like nails on a chalkboard.
Last week, it happened again. Fred was fixing a deck board when he heard a knock. He opened the door to find Officer Roberts, who had been called once more about the kids’ noise.
Officer Roberts, apologetic as always, walked around the yard, observing the children play. He sighed, knowing there was nothing wrong, but Fred was frustrated. This was about more than just a neighbor’s complaints; it was about their right to enjoy their home.
After talking with Laura about the situation, Fred decided it was time to take action. They brainstormed various ideas but ultimately agreed that Fred should confront Mrs. Whitaker directly.
When he knocked on her door, she immediately launched into an angry tirade, calling the kids wild and accusing Fred of being a terrible father. Shocked by her harsh words, he struggled to stay calm. He tried to explain that the children were just enjoying their childhood, but she insisted he needed to control them better.
Feeling infuriated, Fred returned home, where Laura was waiting. After hearing what Mrs. Whitaker had said, they both realized they couldn’t let her continue her behavior. They devised a plan: they would install a security camera aimed at her property and throw a loud party to show they wouldn’t be intimidated.
After setting up the camera, they invited all of Danny and Emma’s friends to what they called the “Noise-Maker Extravaganza”. By the time the party rolled around, over 20 kids were ready to have fun, and the backyard was transformed into a playground of joy.
On the day of the party, the laughter and excitement echoed throughout the neighborhood. Fred and Laura watched happily as the kids enjoyed the trampoline and water slide, knowing Mrs. Whitaker was likely seething behind her curtains.
As the noise escalated, Fred caught glimpses of Mrs. Whitaker glaring from her window. Feeling mischievous, he raised his drink in a playful toast to her. With that, she disappeared from view, clearly defeated.
After the party, life returned to normal. The security camera and bright light discouraged any further complaints from Mrs. Whitaker, allowing Fred’s family to enjoy their home without fear of interruptions.
One evening, Laura hugged Fred and smiled. They realized that sometimes, handling a difficult neighbor required a mix of cleverness and joy. They had reclaimed their home and happiness, reminding themselves that their family’s joy was worth fighting for.
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