The conversation around diversity has been intensifying lately, making everyone think about its importance in all areas of life. One recent topic of discussion? The iconic 90s sitcom Friends.
Quinta Brunson, known for her role in Abbott Elementary, recently pointed out Friends for its lack of diversity. While hosting Saturday Night Live, Brunson used her monologue to highlight the absence of Black characters in the beloved show.
Brunson contrasted the diversity on Abbott Elementary, which features the lives of teachers in a predominantly Black, state-funded elementary school in Philadelphia, with the noticeable lack of diversity on Friends. The difference was strikingly evident.
With her well-known wit, she joked: “I wanted to be on SNL back in the day, but the audition process seemed long – so instead, I just created my own TV show, made sure it became really popular, won a bunch of Emmys, and then got asked to host. So much easier, so much easier.”
While the audience chuckled, the underlying point was clear. Brunson continued, “It’s a network sitcom like, say, Friends. Except, instead of being about a group of friends, it’s about a group of teachers. Instead of New York, it’s in Philadelphia, and instead of not having Black people, it does.”
Her playful commentary sparked serious reflection, even from Friends co-creator Marta Kauffman. Kauffman has publicly expressed embarrassment over the show’s lack of diversity and pledged $4 million to support African and African-American studies at a university.
“I’ve learned a lot in the last 20 years,” Kauffman admitted. “Admitting and accepting guilt is not easy. It’s painful looking at yourself in the mirror. I’m embarrassed that I didn’t know better 25 years ago.”
She added, “It took me a long time to begin to understand how I internalized systemic racism. I’ve been working really hard to become an ally, an anti-racist. And this seemed to me to be a way that I could participate in the conversation from a white woman’s perspective.”
The discussion around diversity is far from over, but it’s clear that the conversation has advanced—even for a cherished sitcom like Friends.
I received a photo from one of my future wife’s bridesmaids featuring her, and it led me to call off the wedding
As their wedding day drew near, Jake and Lily were filled with excitement and nervous anticipation. They looked forward to celebrating their love with family and friends and beginning their life together. Unbeknownst to them, however, Megan, Lily’s best friend and bridesmaid, was harboring dark intentions. Overwhelmed by jealousy, Megan was unable to accept that Lily and Jake were so happy; in fact, she had secret feelings for Jake. Consumed by envy, she devised a scheme to sow discord in their relationship.
Just a week before the wedding, Megan sent Jake a photo of Lily in her wedding dress, accompanied by a chilling message implying that something terrible would happen if they went through with the marriage. The image rattled Jake and filled him with doubt.
Haunted by Megan’s ominous warning, Jake faced an agonizing decision and ultimately chose to call off the wedding, fearing the consequences of defying the superstition. Lily was left heartbroken and confused, unable to understand Jake’s sudden change of heart. In the months that followed, their friendship with Megan deteriorated. Influenced by Megan’s negativity, Jake and Lily found themselves starting anew, their once close-knit group now strained and distant.
To heal from the shock of the cancellation, they put their wedding plans on hold indefinitely. A year later, however, Jake and Lily discovered that their bond had only strengthened. With newfound clarity, they decided to try again, opting for a smaller, more intimate ceremony without the pressure of toxic friendships or superstitions. They sought to surround themselves with those who truly valued their happiness, ultimately choosing to part ways with Megan for good.
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