After 23 Years of Marriage, Wife Asks Husband on a Date and Learns He Is Ashamed of Her — Story of the Day

A woman decides to ask her husband out on a date to rekindle their flame. He refused, admitting he was ashamed of her, only to learn an important lesson from one of his good friends later.

Jack and Mary had been married for 23 years with four children who needed constant attention from Mary. Their life was a routine, something that no longer excited the couple.

Their daily routine differed from one another. Jack would come home from work, lay on the couch, and watch television until dinner. Meanwhile, Mary worked the entire day, cooking dinner, washing everyone’s clothes, caring for their youngest child, and guiding the other kids with their homework.

When Mary would finally have free time late at night, she’d watch romantic films and imagine herself in them. She’s been dreaming of going on a date, as she and her husband haven’t gone on one in a while.

Mary wanted to go on a date with her husband, as they haven't been on one in a while. | Source: Shutterstock

Mary wanted to go on a date with her husband, as they haven’t been on one in a while. | Source: Shutterstock

However, when Mary looked at herself in the mirror, she was saddened by what she saw. She looked nothing like the women in the movies.

She glanced at her wedding photo in front of the mirror and couldn’t believe her eyes. She now saw a tired, sad old woman instead of the cheerful young girl she once was.

Shaking the thought, she decided to change her reality. The next day, when Jack returned from work, she sat him down at the dinner table.

“Jack, I was thinking… maybe we can go on a date? There’s a nice place that opened downtown. Maybe we can go check it out,” she suggested.

Jack scoffed and was surprised that Mary even initiated it. “Date? Why would we go on a date? Is today a special day or something?” he asked.

Mary always looked tired, as she looked after the entire household every single day. | Source: Pexels

Mary always looked tired, as she looked after the entire household every single day. | Source: Pexels

Mary shook her head. “Well, we don’t have to wait for a special day to go out on a date… we can make any day special,” she smiled kindly.

Instead of feeling touched by Mary’s gesture, Jack started to feel irritated. “Look at you!” he told Mary. “You look terrible. I’m not going anywhere with you.”

Mary felt hurt by her husband’s harsh words, especially since she looked that way because she had just finished cleaning their house. “I just finished doing all the housework; that’s why I look like this,” she justified.

“Don’t be ridiculous. You look like this every day. You used to take care of yourself, fix your hair, dress up well, but now you look like an old maid. I don’t know when you started to let go of yourself,” Jack told her.

Mary’s eyes filled with tears. “Even when you cry, you look terrible. Do you want the truth? I’m ashamed of you. I can’t take you out like this,” Jack said before walking out the front door.

Mary couldn't help but cry after hearing such hurtful words from her husband. | Source: Pexels

Mary couldn’t help but cry after hearing such hurtful words from her husband. | Source: Pexels

Jack went to his friend Samuel’s house and invited him to a bar for a beer. But Samuel turned him down immediately. “Sorry, mate. I’m going on a date with my wife. There’s this new place downtown I wanna take her to.”

Jack was offended that his friend refused a trip to the bar for a date with his wife. Then he saw Samuel’s wife heading down the stairs. She looked beautiful in her dress and had a big smile as she held flowers in her arms.

“Sam, I just found this bouquet on the table in our room. Did you put them there?” she beamed, kissing Samuel on the cheek.

“Yep, surprise! Also, here…” he said, taking a paper bag from behind the front door. His wife opened it and inside was a beautiful evening dress.

“Oh, Sam. This is beautiful! You are the best husband! Let me change quickly. I will wear this dress on our date,” she said excitedly, rushing back upstairs.

Samuel surprised his wife with flowers before their date. | Source: Pexels

Samuel surprised his wife with flowers before their date. | Source: Pexels

Jack was stunned at what he had just witnessed. “Sam, your wife is beautiful, and you two look so in love! My wife always looks miserable. She barely ever smiles nowadays,” he said.

“When was the last time you asked Mary out on a date?” Samuel asked his friend.

“I can’t remember… two years ago, maybe?” he replied.

“You last asked her out on a date two years ago, and now you’re complaining to me that she doesn’t smile?!” Samuel said, hitting his friend playfully on the arm.

Shaking his head, Samuel decided to give Jack a valuable piece of advice. “You know, mate. I make every single day special for my wife. She’s the light of our home. She deserves all the love and appreciation from me. She’s always been beautiful, but every day, she puts in extra effort to look even more beautiful – because she feels loved.”

Samuel makes every day special for him and his wife. | Source: Pexels

Samuel makes every day special for him and his wife. | Source: Pexels

Jack stood there, quietly absorbing what Samuel was saying. He realized he had a responsibility he hadn’t been fulfilling toward his wife.

“When I take my wife on a date, it’s not because it’s a special day. It’s because I choose to make every day special. Try it, mate. It might work wonders on your marriage,” Samuel suggested.

Jack nodded, realizing that what Samuel said was what Mary was trying to tell him earlier. “Thanks, Sam. Well, enjoy your date tonight. I’ll go back home now.”

When Jack returned home, he had a gift for Mary. “I’m sorry for hurting you with my words earlier today. I was being disrespectful, and you didn’t deserve that,” he said, handing her the gift box. “Would you like to go out on a date with me tomorrow? I booked us a table at that cool place downtown…”

Jack surprised Mary with a gift before asking her out on a date. | Source: Pexels

Jack surprised Mary with a gift before asking her out on a date. | Source: Pexels

Mary looked at Jack, surprised. She was thrilled and smiled the same cheerful smile she used to show him every day when they were younger. She opened the gift box and saw a beautiful silver necklace.

“This is so beautiful, Jack. Thank you. I would love to go on a date with you tomorrow,” she replied.

The following day, Jack saw Mary transform right in front of his eyes. She looked breathtaking, and he was reminded that he had the most beautiful woman by his side. He was happy, and so was she.

Since then, both Mary and Jack have made it a point to work on their relationship. They rekindled the flame between them, and it did wonders not only for themselves but also for their family life.

What can we learn from this story?

  • You don’t need a special day to celebrate. You can make every day special. Jack initially believed dates should only be celebrated on special occasions. His good friend Samuel made him realize that every day could be memorable, and it was up to him to make it that way.
  • Show your loved ones your love, support, and appreciation every day. We often overlook the little things our loved ones do for us every day. It’s important to pay attention to them and show your appreciation so that love continues to bloom at home.

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We Moved Away from My Controlling MIL, but Then a Court Notice Arrived — She Found Us and Claimed We Owed Her Unpaid Bills

I thought we were free. For months, I woke up in our new home, relishing the quiet, the privacy, and the relief of finally escaping my MIL. But just as I let my guard down, a knock at the door shattered that illusion. A lawsuit. A court summons. And the most terrifying part? She knew where we lived.

We had cut ties, erased our footprints, and built a life without her meddling in every moment. So how had she found us? And why was she claiming we owed her money?

An older woman sitting in her house | Source: Midjourney

An older woman sitting in her house | Source: Midjourney

As I stood there, the court papers trembling in my hands, I knew one thing for certain. Inga wasn’t done with us yet.

***

I ran my fingers along the window frame, staring out at the quiet street.

The house was just a modest rental with a creaky front porch and mismatched wallpaper. Nothing special.

But to me, it was a sanctuary. A fresh start.

Behind me, Max sat on the couch, flipping through a book while our seven-year-old son, Leo, played with his toys. He smiled while moving his toy car, but I could see the shadows under his eyes.

A child playing with his toys | Source: Pexels

A child playing with his toys | Source: Pexels

It had taken months for Leo to start sleeping without nightmares. Years of our lives had been twisted and manipulated by Max’s mother, Inga, who was an expert in control and overstepping boundaries.

I still remember the way she would push her way into our daily lives, no matter how much I tried to set boundaries. At first, she convinced Max that she just wanted to “help out” after Leo was born. She cooked meals, cleaned, and always seemed eager to babysit.

But the help quickly turned into control.

An older woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

An older woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

She made decisions for Leo without consulting us.

For instance, she once cut his hair because she thought it was “too long.” She even fed him snacks we explicitly asked her to avoid.

At night, she would creep into Leo’s room after he had fallen asleep, pressing kisses to his forehead, brushing his hair back, and whispering things I couldn’t hear. I can’t explain how invasive it felt.

A woman standing outside her grandson's room | Source: Midjourney

A woman standing outside her grandson’s room | Source: Midjourney

And she never knocked.

It didn’t matter if I was in the bedroom, bathroom, or the kitchen, Inga would just appear. Her presence loomed over our home like a storm cloud, suffocating me with unspoken judgment.

The worst part? She convinced Max that she was only trying to be close to her grandson.

“She’s just excited to be a grandmother,” Max would say whenever I complained. “She doesn’t mean any harm.”

A man sitting on his bed | Source: Midjourney

A man sitting on his bed | Source: Midjourney

But I saw it for what it was. Control.

While we were living on her property, she kept everything in her name, including the utility bills, the lease, and even the mailbox.

Every month, she would remind us of how much we owed her, even though we gave her cash for everything. And if we ever disagreed with her? She would weaponize it.

“I do everything for you,” she would say, voice dripping with disappointment. “And this is how you repay me?”

The day we packed our bags to leave, she stood in the doorway with her arms crossed.

An older woman standing in a doorway | Source: Midjourney

An older woman standing in a doorway | Source: Midjourney

“You’ll regret this,” she said.

That was months ago. Now, as I sat in our new home, listening to Leo hum quietly while stacking his Legos, I felt something close to peace.

But then… There was a sharp knock at the door.

My heart skipped a beat. For a split second, I imagined opening the door to my mother-in-law’s smirk.

But when I pulled it open, I found a man in a suit holding an envelope.

“Are you Sarah?”

A man in a suit | Source: Midjourney

A man in a suit | Source: Midjourney

I nodded.

“You’ve been served.”

My fingers trembled as I took the document. A lawsuit notice. A court summons.

My heart pounded against my chest as I skimmed the accusations: unpaid utility bills, property damage, unlawful departure.

She had found us.

But how?

We had done everything right.

We’d changed numbers and deleted social media. We hadn’t told anyone where we were going. We’d cut her off completely.

Yet, somehow, Inga had found us.

A woman standing in a neighborhood | Source: Midjourney

A woman standing in a neighborhood | Source: Midjourney

I turned to Max, my hands clutching the papers. “She knows where we are.”

I showed Max the papers and watched his eyebrows furrow as he read them.

“It’s another power move,” he said. “But this time, it’s going to be her last.”

A bitter laugh bubbled in my throat. “She’s suing us for her bills, Max. Bills that were always in her name. How does she think she’s going to win this?”

Max exhaled sharply. “She doesn’t need to win. She just needs to make our lives miserable.”

A man standing in his living room | Source: Midjourney

A man standing in his living room | Source: Midjourney

And at that, she was succeeding.

I still remember how she told us not to go for a proper contract when we decided to move into her house.

“We’re family,” she said.

And now, she was suing the same family by lying that we didn’t pay her anything.

How could she stoop so low? What was she even thinking?

A close-up shot of a woman's face | Source: Midjourney

A close-up shot of a woman’s face | Source: Midjourney

A few days later, Leo came home from school looking pale and upset.

“Grandma came to my school today,” he said. “She said she missed me and wanted to talk, but I asked the teacher to tell her to leave.”

My blood turned to ice.

I dropped to my knees in front of him, gripping his shoulders. “She talked to you?”

Leo shook his head quickly. “No. The teacher didn’t let her. But she saw me. She waved at me from the gate.”

An upset boy | Source: Midjourney

An upset boy | Source: Midjourney

That night, Leo tossed and turned, mumbling in his sleep, trapped in another nightmare.

And I knew this was all because of Inga. This had to stop. I couldn’t let her ruin our lives anymore.

The following morning, I stepped outside to grab the mail. And that’s when I learned about Inga’s final move.

Our mailbox had an electricity bill addressed to Max.

The date? After we had moved out of Inga’s house. She wanted us to pay for electricity we hadn’t even used.

A woman holding a document | Source: Midjourney

A woman holding a document | Source: Midjourney

I gripped the paper and stomped back into the house.

“She’s been running up charges in our name,” I told Max. “This is fraud.”

Max exhaled. “All she wants is to make us look like we’ve committed a grave sin by moving out…”

That’s when I realized what Inga was doing wasn’t just about money. This was about control. About dragging us into court and humiliating us.

But if she thought we were going to roll over and let her win, she was in for a surprise.

The day of the hearing arrived, and as we walked into the courtroom, I saw her sitting there.

She was ready for battle.

An older woman sitting in a courtroom | Source: Midjourney

An older woman sitting in a courtroom | Source: Midjourney

Soon, the performance began.

“I opened my home to them, I paid their bills, I took care of them… and they left me with nothing but ruin!” she sobbed theatrically, dabbing at dry eyes with a tissue.

I glanced at the judge. He wasn’t buying it.

A judge in a courtroom | Source: Pexels

A judge in a courtroom | Source: Pexels

But then Inga went for the kill.

She turned toward Leo and gasped dramatically. “My own grandson won’t even look at me now. My heart is broken!”

That’s when Max’s hands clenched into fists. I guess he was done.

“Enough, Mom,” he spoke up. “You never paid for us. You took our money, claiming it was for bills, but you never actually paid them. And you deliberately ruined our rental history.”

He turned to the judge. “And we can prove it.”

I took out the stack of papers.

A stack of papers | Source: Midjourney

A stack of papers | Source: Midjourney

The documents had a full record of every payment we had made. It was proof that we had always given Inga the money for the bills she claimed to have paid.

There was also a police report from the day we moved out, documenting Inga’s threats.

And a copy of the new electricity bill dated after we left.

Inga wasn’t ready for this. Her eyes widened the moment she saw us submitting the documents.

“No! This isn’t fair!” she shrieked, scrambling to her feet. “They lied! They manipulated everything! You can’t do this!”

An angry woman | Source: Midjourney

An angry woman | Source: Midjourney

The judge barely spared her a glance. “Sit down, or you’ll be held in contempt.”

Inga’s chest heaved. “I took care of them! I gave them everything! And this is how they repay me?!”

Max exhaled sharply, shaking his head. “We don’t owe you anything. Not anymore.”

The judge’s verdict was swift. Case dismissed.

And then? A formal warning against Inga for harassment.

A judge holding a gavel | Source: Midjourney

A judge holding a gavel | Source: Midjourney

Inga lost, and we won. But for some reason, it didn’t feel like a real win. I guess that was because Inga still knew our address, and she could still show up to our house or go to Leo’s school to meet him.

The following day, I told Max something he wasn’t expecting.

“We’re moving. For good this time.”

“What?” he blurted out. “Moving again?”

“That’s the only way to ensure your mother stays away from us,” I said, picking up my phone.

A woman using her phone | Source: Pexels

A woman using her phone | Source: Pexels

I called our real estate agent and told him we needed to move somewhere else. Somewhere far away from this place.

Three weeks later, we settled into a beautiful house in a quiet, welcoming neighborhood. Leo laughed more, slept better, and finally felt safe.

Max, too, seemed lighter, especially when he received an unexpected call from a top firm in the area with a brilliant job offer.

For the first time in years, I felt truly free. And this time, Inga had no way of finding us.

A woman looking down | Source: Midjourney

A woman looking down | Source: Midjourney

Sometimes, family isn’t about blood. It’s about boundaries.

Sometimes, cutting off toxic people isn’t cruel. It’s survival.

You see, some people will never respect your peace, and when that happens, you have to choose yourself.

What do you think? Would you have handled it differently?

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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