During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Justin Bieber Shares Crying Photos and Fans Are Worried
From his meteoric rise to fame as a teenager to his more recent successes in music and personal growth, Justin Bieber’s journey has been closely followed by millions. However, it’s not just his chart-topping hits and sold-out concerts that keep fans invested in his story; it’s also his willingness to share his struggles and vulnerabilities, particularly through social media platforms.
In 2023, Bieber made headlines when he decided to end his Justice World Tour prematurely to prioritize his health. The reason behind this decision was his diagnosis of Ramsay Hunt syndrome, a condition that comes from the same virus as chickenpox.
Despite the disappointment of canceling tour dates, Bieber chose to be transparent with his fans about his health journey. Taking to Instagram, he shared a candid video, showcasing the temporary paralysis he experienced—a symptom of the condition. This openness not only provided insight into his challenges but also fostered a deeper connection with his audience.
Recently, Bieber once again turned to social media to share a glimpse into his emotional state. In a series of photos, the 30-year-old singer showcased various moments from his life, including moments on stage, and casual snapshots. However, it was the final two images that sparked a strong response from fans. In these selfies, Bieber can be seen with tears streaming down his face, his vulnerability laid bare for the world to see.
The outpouring of support from fans was immediate and heartfelt. Comments flooded in, expressing concern, empathy, and encouragement. Some reassured Bieber of their unwavering support, while others offered words of solace and prayers. Even Bieber’s partner, Hailey Bieber, joined in, affectionately remarking on his appearance as a “pretty crier.”
What makes Justin Bieber‘s openness on social media so impactful is its authenticity. In an era where carefully curated images often dominate feeds, Bieber’s willingness to share both the highs and lows of his life serves as a powerful reminder of our shared humanity. By showcasing his vulnerabilities, he not only invites empathy and understanding but also encourages others to embrace their own imperfections.
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