During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
A Tattoo Artist Uses Her Magic Touch to Ink a “New Permanent Eye” for a Man After Tragedy
For most people, tattoos are a form of self-expression. But for one man, ink became a life-changing solution after a devastating accident left him without an eye. Instead of opting for a traditional glass prosthetic, he took a different path—one that led him to a skilled tattoo artist with the ability to create hyperrealistic tattoos.
A Tragic Accident That Changed Everything
Pavel, a young man with a bright future, suffered a horrific car accident that left him with severe facial injuries. His nose was nearly destroyed, and his right eye was beyond repair. Reconstructing his face would require a series of complex medical procedures, but one of the biggest challenges was how to deal with his missing eye.
Doctors initially explored the possibility of saving what was left of his damaged eye. However, the risk of infection spreading to his healthy eye was too high. The safest option was to remove it entirely.
Pavel accepted the decision with courage, saying:
“I don’t hold on to things that don’t work. It’s better to get rid of something potentially dangerous than to risk losing my other eye too.”
But once the procedure was done, he was left with an important question—how should he replace his missing eye?
From Surgery to Art: A Unique Solution Emerges
Traditionally, people in Pavel’s situation turn to glass prosthetic eyes. But he wanted something different—something that wouldn’t require daily removal or ongoing adjustments.
That’s when doctors introduced him to a highly skilled tattoo artist specializing in hyperrealistic medical tattoos. She had already made a name for herself by helping burn victims, breast cancer survivors, and alopecia patients reclaim their confidence through tattoo artistry.
However, this project was different. She wasn’t just restoring eyebrows or camouflaging scars—she was about to create the illusion of a realistic eye on a flat surface.
This would become one of the most challenging tattoos of her career.
The Artist’s Preparation: A Year of Meticulous Planning
A hyperrealistic tattoo isn’t something that happens overnight. The artist dedicated a full year to studying and preparing for this groundbreaking piece.
Her process included:
- Analyzing old photos of Pavel to match his original eye color and shape.
- Developing a custom pigment palette that could replicate the natural shading of an eye, ensuring the sclera (the white part) didn’t look unnaturally bright.
- Practicing on artificial skin to simulate the texture of scar tissue and skin grafts, testing how ink would blend.
- Consulting with doctors to ensure that tattooing wouldn’t interfere with his healing process.
- Sketching and refining designs over and over again to get the illusion of depth just right.
While the artist prepared, Pavel adjusted to his new face. He remained patient, even joking:
“While you’re practicing, I’ll get used to my new nose!”
Despite the curiosity of strangers, his friends and family stood by him, treating him no differently. Their support gave him the strength to embrace the journey ahead.
The Big Day: Creating a Realistic Eye with Ink
After months of preparation, the day finally arrived. Pavel stepped into the tattoo studio, knowing this was a permanent transformation.
The artist carefully mapped out the placement of the eye tattoo, ensuring that it:
- Aligned naturally with his facial structure.
- Considered the shadows and highlights needed to create depth.
- Worked with the texture of his skin grafts and scars, ensuring the ink settled correctly.
The first outlines were drawn, and within a few hours, the shape of an eye began to emerge. When the artist handed Pavel a mirror, he smiled and said:
“Wow! It actually looks like something!”
There was still work to be done—adding highlights, refining details, and perfecting the illusion—but the transformation had begun.
The Power of Medical Tattoos: A Growing Trend
Pavel’s story isn’t just a remarkable example of tattoo artistry—it’s part of a growing movement where tattoos serve medical and emotional purposes.
Some of the most impactful medical tattoo techniques include:
- Scar camouflage tattoos, which help burn victims and surgery patients feel more comfortable in their skin.
- 3D nipple tattoos, which help breast cancer survivors reclaim their bodies after mastectomies.
- Eyebrow tattoos, providing a solution for alopecia patients and chemotherapy survivors.
- Skin pigmentation correction, helping people with vitiligo and birthmarks achieve a more even skin tone.
The use of hyperrealistic tattoos in medical recovery is revolutionizing self-confidence, showing that tattoos are not just about self-expression—they’re about self-restoration.
More Than Ink: How Tattoos Can Heal Beyond the Surface
Pavel’s journey highlights an important truth—tattoos have the power to change lives.
Beyond their visual appeal, medical tattoos help individuals regain control over their bodies after trauma. Studies show that people who undergo these procedures experience:
- Increased self-esteem
- A renewed sense of identity
- Emotional healing after a traumatic experience
For many, these tattoos shift the focus from loss to empowerment, allowing them to move forward with confidence.
Conclusion: A Story of Strength, Art, and Transformation
Pavel’s story is a testament to resilience, innovation, and the transformative power of art.
With the help of a brilliant tattoo artist, he didn’t just replace his missing eye—he reclaimed his confidence.
His journey serves as a powerful reminder that true beauty isn’t about perfection—it’s about embracing what makes you unique and finding strength in the face of adversity.
In the world of medical tattoos, artists aren’t just creating inked designs—they’re restoring hope, identity, and dignity.
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