Raising children these days can be a task on its own. Young parents don’t just have to hear opinions from family members but also have to put up with random strangers on the internet commenting on their parenting methods.
Jordan Driskell is a young father of five quintuplets. His quintuplets happen to be 5 years old. As you can imagine, looking after 5 children who are the same age can be quite taxing. Especially at 5-years-old when a child is curious and likes to explore.
31-year-old dad, Jordan Driskell decided to find a creative solution to his problem. He bought leashes meant for children to control his rambunctuous little kids when they are in public together.
In the past, Driskell had a 6-seat stroller that they used for their big family. However, that grew tiresome very quickly because the kids would be bothered when inside it. The stroller was also incredibly inconvenient to take anywhere.
This helps the little kids get to wander and explore their surroundings when the family goes out without their dad losing sight or control of them and hence keep them safe!
Driskell posted a video of the family’s outing to the acquarium that caused a lot of negative feedback directed towards the parents. The video of the kids on leashes went viral with over 3 million views. Hundreds of people commented about how the children were not animals and hence should not have been leashed.
Others commented, “If you can’t manage the pressure, don’t have so many kids.”
Other offered disdain masked as advice, “Can’t you just properly train your children?” Discuss to them why fleeing is risky.”
Dr. Deborah Gilboa, an expert in parenting and adolescent development had a different opinion. She does not think a leash will make your child think they are an animal. And if the alternative to a leash is to stay at home, then of course, the leash is a much better option!
Dr. Gilboa said a leash is a great tool for younger children or neuro-diverse children to be controlled in a public environment. However, she said that if a neurotypical child is not off a leash by the age of eight and nine, and hence has not developed their listening skills, that might be troublesome.
By then, parents should be able to effectively communicate with children verbally instead of relying on tools like leashes.
Parents should have the freedom to parent the way they want without facing unneccesary judgement from society.
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Michelle Obama shared a super sweet anniversary message for Barack Obama.
Michelle Obama and her husband, former President Barack Obama, celebrated their wedding anniversary today. The couple, who have been married for 32 years, shared matching posts to mark the occasion. This year, they celebrated by spending time together at the Whitney Museum of American Art in New York City. In the posts, they are seen hugging, smiling, and posing in front of Alvin Ailey dance posters.
“32 exciting years with my love! Thank you for always supporting me, standing by my side, and making me smile. I love you, @BarackObama,” Michelle wrote in her post. In the picture, they kept it simple, with Michelle wearing a matching tie-dye coat and pants, while Barack wore gray slacks and a coach’s jacket.
Barack shared the same photo, saying, “Happy anniversary, @MichelleObama! 32 years together, and I couldn’t have asked for a better partner and friend to share my life with.”
Fans of the Obamas look forward to the couple’s anniversary posts every year because they always share sweet messages on social media. Birthdays have also become special for them, often featuring cute moments on Instagram.
For their 30th anniversary, Michelle wrote a really sweet note to her husband, saying, “Happy anniversary to the man I love! These last 30 years have been an adventure, and I’m thankful to have you with me. Here’s to a lifetime together. I love you.”
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