Raising children these days can be a task on its own. Young parents don’t just have to hear opinions from family members but also have to put up with random strangers on the internet commenting on their parenting methods.
Jordan Driskell is a young father of five quintuplets. His quintuplets happen to be 5 years old. As you can imagine, looking after 5 children who are the same age can be quite taxing. Especially at 5-years-old when a child is curious and likes to explore.
31-year-old dad, Jordan Driskell decided to find a creative solution to his problem. He bought leashes meant for children to control his rambunctuous little kids when they are in public together.
In the past, Driskell had a 6-seat stroller that they used for their big family. However, that grew tiresome very quickly because the kids would be bothered when inside it. The stroller was also incredibly inconvenient to take anywhere.
This helps the little kids get to wander and explore their surroundings when the family goes out without their dad losing sight or control of them and hence keep them safe!
Driskell posted a video of the family’s outing to the acquarium that caused a lot of negative feedback directed towards the parents. The video of the kids on leashes went viral with over 3 million views. Hundreds of people commented about how the children were not animals and hence should not have been leashed.
Others commented, “If you can’t manage the pressure, don’t have so many kids.”
Other offered disdain masked as advice, “Can’t you just properly train your children?” Discuss to them why fleeing is risky.”
Dr. Deborah Gilboa, an expert in parenting and adolescent development had a different opinion. She does not think a leash will make your child think they are an animal. And if the alternative to a leash is to stay at home, then of course, the leash is a much better option!
Dr. Gilboa said a leash is a great tool for younger children or neuro-diverse children to be controlled in a public environment. However, she said that if a neurotypical child is not off a leash by the age of eight and nine, and hence has not developed their listening skills, that might be troublesome.
By then, parents should be able to effectively communicate with children verbally instead of relying on tools like leashes.
Parents should have the freedom to parent the way they want without facing unneccesary judgement from society.
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Diver swam in Hawaii: dolphin asked him for help
In Hawaii, divers were swimming with manta rays when all of a sudden, one approached a dolphin. It approached one of the divers quite closely, as though it needed assistance. Divers understood what it wanted very soon.
Its fin was found to be stuck with a fishing line and hook, which undoubtedly caused it great discomfort and made it difficult for it to swim.
He took great care to remove the hook, but his task was not yet done. There is still tangle of fishing line around the fin.
The diver’s scissors came in handy, allowing him to release the dolphin. When the dolphin broke free, he bid it farewell.
The level of intelligence in these organisms is astounding. When a dolphin approached the diver in need of assistance, he gave it. Before it took off, it gave him a quick glance as though to say “thank you.”
Keller Laros, a stingray expert and certified diving instructor, supplied the photos. He utilizes his photos to investigate manta rays because he is an obsessive underwater photographer.
In addition, Laros is president and co-founder of the non-profit Manta Pacific study Foundation, which is committed to “research and protection of manta rays and the marine environment.”
Throughout his career, this significant work allowed Lars to release numerous law enforcement officers and sea turtles from fishing nets (which is why he carried scissors). However, this was the first occasion a dolphin approached the diver in need of assistance.
Luckily, someone recorded this heartfelt encounter, and it has been viewed millions of times since. On his website, Laros stated, “It was a really amazing experience.”
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