Here’s Why I Refused to Take Care of My Mother with Disability– Story of the Day

My mother had a clear favorite her entire life, while I was raised by my grandparents mostly. When she got old and sick, I helped financially but refused to do more than that for a crucial reason.

While most good parents would tell you that they don’t have a favorite, my mother was not ashamed to tell me that my brother, Stanley, was her golden boy. My father walked out of our family because caring for two children became too much.

In the end, my mother blamed me for it. “He wouldn’t have left if I hadn’t gotten pregnant with you,” she told me one day. I was just a child at the time and only wanted my mother’s love.

“But that’s not my fault,” I replied. “I didn’t ask to be born.”

“Don’t talk back to me! I’m the parent, and you’re the kid, so shut up,” she finished. We would have similar conversations through the years whenever she was mad at me. Finally, my mother sent me to live with my paternal grandparents.

They felt so bad that our father had walked away from our lives that they took me in and gave me all the love I never received at home. That’s how I learned that the word family has lots of meanings.

All I heard about my mother and brother over the years was that she helped him with everything. He got into some trouble with the police, and my mother paid all his legal fees. Eventually, she had to sell her house and pay for his apartment.

Stanley was spoiled and couldn’t hold down a job, but my mother coddled him. Meanwhile, my grandparents didn’t have much money, but they gave me everything they could. I had to work to afford my college and my home.

I learned a whole ton of responsibility, and when I graduated, I got a pretty decent job. That’s where I met my husband, Lawrence. We had two daughters whom I cherished equally. When my grandparents got sick, I was there for them until the very end.

They gave me their house, and one of my daughters moved there when she got married. Unfortunately, my husband died shortly after her wedding. She asked me to live with her, but I wanted to stay in our home.

I didn’t hear from my brother or my mother for many years. They didn’t care about me at all, so why should I care about them? But one day, Stanley called. “Hello?” I answered the phone.

“Hey, Brooke. It’s Stanley. How are you?” my brother said through the other line.

“Oh, hey, Stanley. Long time, no speak. I’m fine. How about you?” I replied.

“Yeah, it’s been a while. Listen, I’m calling because Mom broke her hip. I need your help,” Stanley continued.

“Oh, that’s too bad. Is she ok?” I asked.

“She’s fine. It’s just that the hospital bill will be pretty expensive, and I need help paying for it. She’s our mother after all,” he explained.

“Oh, well. Ok. Give me the details, and I’ll send some money,” I told him. My husband and I had accumulated decent savings, so I could afford to send Stanley some money for whatever our mother needed.

“That’s great, Brooke. Thank you. I’ll talk to you later,” Stanley said and hung up. I didn’t feel any obligation to my mother, but I wasn’t heartless. I sent him the money and forgot about it until a week later when my brother called again.

“Hey, Brooke!” Stanley started.

“Hey. How did everything go?” I asked.

“The operation for her hip went well, but the doctor just told me she’s going to need tons of rehab and round-the-clock care. I was wondering when you could come to pick her up?” my brother asked.

“What do you mean pick her up?” I probed, confused.

“I told you. She needs someone to take care of her. I’ve been by her side our whole lives. It’s time you take responsibility, Brooke. I can’t watch her,” Stanley added.

“Excuse me? Responsibility? Mom sent me to live with our grandparents because she hated me, and you were her golden boy. She essentially abandoned me,” I snapped.

“Please. Stop the melodrama. You need to step up because she needs you. She gave you life. You owe her,” Stanley demanded.

“No. I don’t owe her anything. I needed my mother when I was growing up, and she refused. She gave all her love to you, so you will need to figure out something. I gave you money for her hospital bills out of the goodness of my heart, but I won’t be her caretaker,” I told him.

“YOU’RE HORRIBLE, BROOKE! HOW CAN YOU DO THIS? I CAN’T WATCH HER!” Stanley started screaming through the phone.

“Honestly, I don’t care, Stanley. You don’t get to call me horrible. I was a kid when she abandoned me, and my grandparents became my REAL PARENTS. Don’t call me again!” I finished and hung up the call.

Stanley tried calling, texting, e-mailing, and more for several days, but I blocked him. He also tried contacting my daughters, but they refused to listen to him. They knew my history with that side of the family.

Of course, Stanley and my mother bad-mouthed me to anyone who would listen. I have been severely judged for my decision, but I didn’t listen to their criticism. After all, no one ever judged my mother for what she did to me.

What can we learn from this story?

  1. Caring for your loved ones is important. While Brooke’s choice is controversial, it’s easy to understand her point of view, given her background.
  2. Forgiveness is divine. Sometimes, you have to be the bigger person. Caring for your parents when they’re old is a big duty, both financially and emotionally. Someone has to do it.

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I Gave Birth to a Child After 20 Years of Waiting & Treatment — When My Husband Saw Him, He Said, ‘Are You Sure This One Is Mine?’

The day my son was born should have been the happiest of my life. Instead, it was the day my entire world began to fall apart. When my husband finally showed up at the hospital, what he said left me questioning everything.

I’ve been married to my husband, Ethan, for 21 years. For most of that time, we’ve battled infertility. I’ve shed more tears than I ever thought possible—tears of hope, disappointment, and despair.

Stressed out woman | Source: Midjourney

Stressed out woman | Source: Midjourney

When we first started trying, Ethan seemed supportive enough, attending doctor’s appointments and holding my hand as we navigated the maze of treatments. But as the years dragged on, something shifted. He started behaving… differently.

I brushed it off for the longest time, convincing myself it was just the strain of our situation. After all, infertility takes its toll on a marriage. But his late nights at work and secret calls became more frequent.

I’d hear him murmur things like, “I’ll call you later,” before quickly hanging up when I walked in.

Man seated in his office at night | Source: Midjourney

Man seated in his office at night | Source: Midjourney

It was unsettling, but I chose not to focus on it. I was so consumed by the desperate desire for a child that I couldn’t allow myself to spiral into paranoia.

By the time I turned 40, I had nearly given up hope. But something in me—call it stubbornness or sheer desperation—refused to let go completely. I decided to try one last time. Ethan seemed indifferent, mumbling something about “whatever makes you happy” when I told him about my decision. That hurt more than I cared to admit.

And then, against all odds, it happened. I got pregnant.

A person holding a positive pregnancy test | Source: Pexels

A person holding a positive pregnancy test | Source: Pexels

“Ethan,” I’d whispered, holding the positive pregnancy test in shaky hands. “We did it. I’m pregnant.”

“That’s… great. That’s really great,” he said, but his tone was off. Forced. I ignored it, focusing on my own joy.

Nine months later, I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. Ethan refused to be in the delivery room

“I’ll just pass out,” he’d said when I begged him to stay. “They’ll end up taking care of me instead of you.”

So, I went through it alone. And when he finally walked into the hospital room two hours later, his first words shattered me.

“Are you sure this one’s mine?” he said, his voice cold and flat.

Newborn baby covered in blue blanket | Source: Pexels

Newborn baby covered in blue blanket | Source: Pexels

I felt like I’d been slapped. “What? Ethan, how can you even ask me that? Of course, he’s yours! We’ve been trying for this baby for years!

His jaw tightened, and he reached into his jacket pocket, pulling out something I couldn’t see. “I have proof,” he said.

My world tilted. What proof? What could he possibly mean?

He started telling me this wild story about how his mother had “proof” I’d been unfaithful—photos of a man supposedly waiting for me outside our house, and how she claimed no baby had been delivered from the room I gave birth in, but that someone had brought in a different baby to make it look like mine.

Man standing in a hospital room | Source: Pexels

Man standing in a hospital room | Source: Pexels

I stared at him, dumbfounded. “This is insane. It’s all lies! You really believe her?”

“She wouldn’t lie to me,” he said, his tone cold. “She’s my mother.”

“And I’m your wife. The one who went through everything to have this baby. The one who almost died giving birth to him! And you’re standing here accusing me of…” I couldn’t even finish the sentence.

He turned on his heel, his expression unreadable. “I’ll be back when I’m ready to talk,” he said, walking out the door and leaving me sitting there, trembling with rage and hurt.

Woman holding her newborn baby | Source: Midjourney

Woman holding her newborn baby | Source: Midjourney

The moment he left, I grabbed my phone and called my best friend, Lily. She picked up on the first ring.

“Claire? What’s wrong?”

I couldn’t hold back the tears. “He thinks I cheated on him. He said his mom has proof. Lily, it’s insane. I don’t know what to do.”

“Okay, slow down,” she said, her voice calm but firm. “Start from the beginning.”

By the time I finished explaining, Lily’s voice had taken on a hard edge. “Something’s not right, Claire. You need to watch him. He is not acting normal.”

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Woman on phone | Source: Midjourney

“Watch him? How?”

“I’ll do it,” she said without hesitation. “If he’s up to something, I’ll find out.”

Hours later, she called back after tracking him. “Claire, he went to another woman’s house. I saw him go in.”

My heart stopped. “What?”

“Listen to me,” Lily said urgently. “This doesn’t add up. You need help—professional help. Hire someone who can dig into this.”

Emotional woman on phone | Source: Midjourney

Emotional woman on phone | Source: Midjourney

A few days later, I contacted Lydia, a private investigator Lily had highly recommended. She listened intently, as I recounted every detail.

“This is messy,” she said finally, her sharp eyes meeting mine. “But I’ll get answers. Give me two days.”

Two days. All I could do now was wait.

When I brought Liam home from the hospital, Ethan wasn’t there. No text, no call—just a chilling, empty silence.

What kind of father doesn’t show up for his son?

Woman holding a newborn baby | Source: Midjourney

Woman holding a newborn baby | Source: Midjourney

The waiting was unbearable. I checked my phone every five minutes, hoping for a word from Lydia, the private investigator. When the doorbell rang early the next morning, I almost jumped out of my skin.

Lydia’s face was serious, her lips pressed into a thin line. “We need to talk.”

I led her into the kitchen, settling Liam into his bassinet. Lydia’s eyes softened when she glanced at him.

She leaned forward, her voice calm but deliberate. “I spoke with Ethan’s sister.”

Women having a serious conversation | Source: Midjourney

Women having a serious conversation | Source: Midjourney

“His sister?” My eyebrows knitted. “We don’t talk. She’s… well—”

“She’s not an addict as you think” Lydia interrupted. “She’s been sober for years, and she told me a lot—things that are going to change everything for you.”

“What kind of things?” I asked.

“Ethan married you for your money,” she said bluntly. “His entire family knew. They planned it from the beginning.”

Women having a serious conversation | Source: Midjourney

Women having a serious conversation | Source: Midjourney

“What?” My voice cracked, my grip tightening on the edge of the table.

“For the past twenty years, he’s been siphoning money from your inheritance. Not just for himself, but to support another family—his other family. He has three children with another woman.”

“No… you’re wrong,” I shouted.

“I’m not,” Lydia said, sliding a folder toward me. “It’s all here—bank records, medical bills, and photos. And there’s more. It looks like Ethan might’ve been sabotaging your attempts to conceive.”

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A person receiving printed documents | Source: Pexels

I froze, staring at her. “What… what do you mean?”

“Some of the clinics you went to—there’s evidence he tampered with things. He didn’t want you to get pregnant, Claire.”

My chest felt tight. I could barely breathe.

Lydia’s words hung in the air, suffocating me. I could barely think. “Sabotaging my treatments?” I whispered, my voice trembling. “Another family? How… how could he do this to me?”

Stressed out woman | Source: Midjourney

Stressed out woman | Source: Midjourney

I glanced at Liam in his bassinet, his tiny hand curling and uncurling in sleep. The weight of twenty years crashed over me like a tidal wave. Memories I’d once cherished now felt tainted. The little gestures of love, the whispered promises of forever—it had all been a lie.

The sobs started quietly, but soon they came in waves, shaking me to my core. How could I have been so blind? So foolish? I’d spent years blaming myself—my body—for our struggles to conceive, while Ethan had been sabotaging me.

Stressed out woman | Source: Midjourney

Stressed out woman | Source: Midjourney

I thought of every late-night appointment, every failed treatment, and every moment I’d spent crying in the dark while he faked concern.

“I trusted him,” I said aloud, my voice breaking. “I loved him, Lydia. I gave him everything.”

Lydia stood, placing a steadying hand on my arm. “And that’s why you have to fight back, Claire. He doesn’t deserve your tears. Think about Liam. He needs you strong.”

I looked at Liam, my tears slowing as anger replaced the grief. Lydia was right. My son needed me. I wiped my face, my resolve hardening with every breath.

Mother cradling her newborn baby | Source: Midjourney

Mother cradling her newborn baby | Source: Midjourney

“You’re right,” I said finally, my voice steadier now. “I’m not going to let him get away with this.”

I picked up my phone, staring at the screen for a long moment before dialing. “James,” I said when my lawyer answered. “We need to talk. It’s about Ethan.”

A few days later, I heard the familiar rumble of Ethan’s car pulling into the driveway. The divorce papers were laid out neatly on the kitchen table, ready for him.

I stayed in the living room, Liam nestled in his bassinet beside me, as I waited for him to walk in. The door opened, and Ethan stepped inside.

Mother holding her baby | Source: Midjourney

Mother holding her baby | Source: Midjourney

“Claire?” he called, his tone tentative, like he already knew he was walking into a trap.

“I’m here,” I said, keeping my voice steady.

I didn’t waste a second. “Why are you abandoning your son?” I asked, each word deliberate and sharp.

He blinked, startled. “What? I’m not abandoning anyone. Claire, I… I’m sorry, okay? I was confused and emotional. I said a lot of stupid things that I didn’t mean. None of it was true.”

“Really?” I tilted my head. “Then why didn’t you pick us up from the hospital? Where were you for three days? Why didn’t you answer my calls?”

Couple having a disagreement | Source: Midjourney

Couple having a disagreement | Source: Midjourney

He hesitated, but then his expression smoothed into that familiar, disarming smile. “I had an urgent business trip,” he said, his voice oozing fake sincerity.

“Claire, I swear, I wasn’t ignoring you. I would never do that. I’m so sorry, sweetheart.”

“Interesting,” I said, leaning back slightly. “What are your three kids’ names?”

His entire face froze. The smile evaporated, replaced by a look of pure shock. For the first time, the mask slipped, and I saw the man underneath—the liar, the manipulator.

“I—” he started, but no words came out.

Couple having a disagreement | Source: Midjourney

Couple having a disagreement | Source: Midjourney

“Save it,” I said, cutting him off with an icy glare. “I know everything, Ethan. When you leave today,” I said, standing and turning toward the stairs, “make sure to grab the divorce papers from the kitchen table. Thanks.”

I didn’t wait for his reply. I carried Liam upstairs, my heart racing.

A moment later, I heard the front door slam shut. When I came back down later, the papers were gone. It was finally over.

After a couple of few weeks, the settlement was finalized. Ethan left with a modest payout—a sum I considered a bargain to rid my life of his toxic presence. The house, cars, and businesses stayed with me, thanks to the mountain of evidence my legal team presented.

Woman in deep thoughts | Source: Midjourney

Woman in deep thoughts | Source: Midjourney

My lawyers were also building strong cases against Ethan and the fertility clinics that had conspired with him. “This will take time,” my attorney, James, warned me. “But I’m confident we’ll win.”

Time was something I was willing to invest in. For now, my focus was on Liam. He deserved a life free of lies, and deceit.

One evening, as I rocked Liam to sleep, I whispered softly to him, “I’ll make sure you never grow up doubting your worth, little one.”

Mother cradling her baby to sleep | Source: Midjourney

Mother cradling her baby to sleep | Source: Midjourney

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided as “is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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