In a tale of vulnerability and love, Jenny and Alex navigate the aftermath of a childhood trauma that surfaces on their wedding night. As Jenny learns the depth of Alex’s anxiety, sparked by a terrifying incident from his past, she steps into a role of understanding and support.
Falling head over heels for Alex was like diving into a mystery novel where the ending is always a surprise. We met in what felt like a whirlwind romance; it didn’t take long for us to decide that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. We chose to wait, keeping our relationship purely emotional and spiritual, which honestly made us connect on a level I didn’t know existed.
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Alex, with his guarded heart, hinted at a dark chapter from his childhood, one he wasn’t ready to share. Knowing he trusted me with even that small admission made our bond even stronger. It’s like we’re in this love story together, figuring out each chapter as we go.
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During our wedding planning, hints of Alex’s past and his secret started to surface more often. I noticed, but I didn’t want to push him into sharing something he wasn’t ready to reveal. It left me with a mix of curiosity and respect for Alex’s privacy, choosing to focus on the love and excitement of our upcoming marriage. Even when I tried to express my concerns, my mother-in-law would quickly dismiss them, assuring me everything was fine.
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My relationship with Mrs. Green, Alex’s mom, blossomed into something truly special. She was not just a mother-in-law but a friend and confidante. When it came time to pick out presents for Alex’s birthday and Christmas, she was my go-to advisor, ensuring each gift was both meaningful and personal.
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The gesture that sealed our bond was when she entrusted me with their family heirloom ring—a symbol of acceptance and trust. It wasn’t just a piece of jewelry; it was a welcoming into the family, a testament to the loving and trusting relationship we shared.
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After our amazing wedding day, filled with dancing, heartfelt speeches, and so much love, Alex and I were completely worn out by the time we got to our room. Every moment was special, from the emotional vows to the wild dance floor moves and the endless photos with everyone. Honestly, just thinking about how we managed to stay on our feet through it all is making me tired all over again.
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Settling into bed felt like a blissful escape, a moment to finally breathe and let the day’s joy truly sink in. But even amidst our exhaustion, there was this beautiful sense of beginning our life together, a mix of excitement and a deep, comforting tiredness.
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As I waited in bed, wearing my best garments, I heard him whispering something to his mom behind the door. Mrs. Green? What was she doing here? No way she would turn into one of those mothers-in-law, who need to instruct their precious son on the first night! Or worse, could she be here to instruct me?
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“Mom, I can’t do it. Can you come in?”
My heart raced as the door opened. I sheepishly pulled the covers up to my chin and stared at them in disbelief.
“What’s going on?”
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After a brief moment of silence, during which Mrs. Green seemingly calculated her response, she turned to her son, wide-eyed. “Wait. Have you told her about the—”
Alex shook his head.
“Then do! What have you been thinking about?! The poor thing must be thinking we’re a pair of weirdos!”
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Alex looked me deep in the eye before heaving a sigh and beginning to unravel his biggest secret.
“When I was just 5 years old, the unthinkable happened—a burglar shattered the peace of our home by breaking in through my bedroom window. That night, under the cover of darkness, my world changed forever. The intruder’s silhouette, a menacing presence in my sanctuary, left me frozen in terror, unable to cry out or escape. The aftermath of that violation was a deep, pervasive fear that clung to me, long after the broken glass was swept away and the window secured.
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“In the nights that followed, my bedroom felt like a battlefield, each shadow a reminder of my vulnerability. Sleep, once a refuge, became an insurmountable challenge. But in the midst of my fear, my mother became my guardian angel.
“Night after night, she sat by my bed, her presence a beacon of safety in the darkness. With the soft timbre of her voice, she’d weave stories of courage and adventure, heroes who faced their fears and emerged victorious. Her words, gentle and reassuring, were a balm to my frightened soul, coaxing me toward the calm shores of sleep.
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“These bedtime stories, more than mere tales, became our ritual, a shared journey back to a sense of normalcy and security. My mother’s unwavering patience and love taught me that, even in the face of paralyzing fear, there is a wellspring of strength within us, a resilience that can be nurtured and grown.
“Since that terrifying night, my mother has been my steadfast companion in the quest for peace as I drift off to sleep, her presence a reminder that even in our darkest moments, we are not alone.”
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Learning Alex’s secret left me reeling, a mix of emotions swirling within me. At first, there was shock, the depth of his trauma more profound than I’d imagined. Then came understanding, a realization of the weight he’d been carrying all these years. My heart ached for him, for the child he was and the man he’s become.
With this knowledge, there was also a strengthening of resolve, a determination to be the support he needs. Love, after all, means standing together, especially in the face of hidden battles.
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“So… how do I help you?” I asked, taking his hand. The atmosphere in the room suddenly turned warm and fuzzy, like a fluffy blanket.
“When Alex is feeling anxious or overwhelmed, especially at night, cuddling him in a specific way has always helped soothe him,” Mrs. Green began, her voice calm and reassuring. “Hold him close, with his head resting near your heart. It’s a method that’s comforted him since he was a child.
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“Though he’s mostly outgrown the need for this, his anxiety can still get the better of him during stressful times. It’s important to be patient and understanding, offering him that physical reassurance. This approach has often been the key to helping him find peace and fall asleep.”
In that tender night, as I cuddled Alex in the way his mother had described, I felt a profound connection between us. His head rested near my heart, and gradually, his tense body relaxed into the embrace. Despite the initial shock of learning about his anxiety, understanding washed over me, bringing a deep sense of empathy and readiness to support him.
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As he finally drifted off to sleep, the weight of his worries seemed to lighten. Mrs. Green, witnessing this moment, quietly left the room with a silent nod of approval and gratitude in her eyes. It was clear she was at peace, knowing her son was in caring hands.
After that pivotal night, Alex and I have come a long way. We’ve opened up more, really diving deep into understanding and supporting each other’s needs. Learning to soothe his anxiety became a part of our life, and honestly, it’s brought us closer.
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We tackled his vulnerabilities head-on, finding strength in each other. Our journey’s been like a crash course in love, empathy, and resilience. It’s amazing how facing challenges together has only made our bond stronger. Just wanted to share our little victory—love really does conquer all.
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Why More Happy Couples Prefer to Sleep in Separate Beds
According to a survey, only 14% of couples sleep in separate beds every night. And while many of us might believe in the saying “couples who sleep apart grow apart” there are studies that show the opposite is actually true.
We at Bright Side believe that there are no wrong or right sleep arrangements, because to some, sleeping in different beds can be as pleasing as for others sharing a bed with their partner.
A poor night’s sleep can turn lovers into fighters.
According to research, sharing a bed with a partner that has restless sleep behavior can deprive you of 49 minutes of sleep each night. And, when one partner doesn’t get a proper night’s sleep because of the other, it will most likely result in a conflict between them the next day.
Actually, the study even confirmed that couples who tend to have a poor night’s sleep have more severe and more frequent fights than those who wake up well-rested. People who get a good night’s sleep, on the other hand, are more likely to be in a good mood, have lower stress levels, and be more patient.
Resenting your partner because you can’t get a good night’s sleep can be destructive to the relationship.
Snoring, fidgeting, and bed or blanket hogging are just a few of many reasons why some couples choose to sleep in different beds or even in different bedrooms. Lying awake listening to your partner snoring while you beat yourself up to fall asleep can lead to a build-up of anger, tension, and resentment toward your partner.
According to Jennifer Adams, author of Sleeping Apart Not Falling Apart, sleeping in a separate bedroom can even help a relationship thrive because both partners are not sleep deprived.
Each partner can tailor their sleeping conditions to their heart’s content.
Tina Cooper, a licensed social worker, sleeps in different bedrooms with her partner because of their opposite sleeping habits. “I’m a night owl, he’s an early bird. I need soothing sounds to fall asleep, and he likes silence. He likes a hard mattress, and I like soft and full of pillows. And because I don’t like the early day’s sunlight, my boyfriend gave me the master bedroom which gets less light and he has the second largest room that gets the sunrise he loves.”
How you spend the nighttime in your shared bedroom with your partner can also influence your daytime functioning, marital satisfaction, and psychological and physical health. And when 2 people with different bedtime preferences and nighttime schedules end up together, changing themselves just to please their partner’s needs might harm their relationship in the long run.
Sleeping in different bedrooms with your partner means that the 2 of you will have a place just for yourselves where you can relax after an exhausting day. This way, both of you can satisfy your needs without tiptoeing around and worrying about whether your partner might wake up because you want to watch the latest episode of your show before bed.
Even if you don’t remember waking up, disturbed sleep can have a negative impact on your overall health.
During the night, our brain cycles through the stages of sleep several times: light sleep, deep sleep, and REM (Rapid eye movement sleep). But when you interrupt the cycle by waking up during the night, it means that your brain spends more time in the light sleep stage and misses out on REM. And without sufficient REM your emotional well-being and cognitive performance suffer.
Interrupted sleep can also have short and long-term health consequences, like hypertension, weight-related issues, mental health problems, reduced quality of life, and other health-related issues.
People on Reddit share why they decided to sleep separately with their partner.
- “Because a good night’s sleep is more romantic than sharing a bed. I snore and toss and turn. He gives off literal village levels of heat in his sleep and I can’t stand the heat. I read, he can’t stand light. We keep different hours to an extent. A million reasons. We get along so much better this way.” — crankyweasels
- “My partner and I have completely separate bedrooms. We ’sleepover’ occasionally in each other’s rooms. However, we both sleep exponentially better apart. He’s a night owl and I’m an early bird. He wants only one sheet on him, I want 10 lbs of blankets. In addition, having a separate room allows me to decorate it however I want, have my own personal space, and keep it to the level of cleanliness I prefer. People look at us sideways when I mention the separate rooms thing, but it’s been a game-changer.” — eriasana
- “Different sleep cycles due to different work schedules. We are still madly in love and we both agreed to this because it’s the best for both of us.” — AFishInATank
- “Early in our relationship, 90% of our fights occurred in the bedroom. I like to sleep in a cold room with the fan on and white noise like a box fan. I also like to go to sleep with the TV on. She likes to sleep in a warm, still, cave in complete silence and darkness. We started sleeping in separate rooms and all of a sudden 90% of our fights stopped. Also, because we were getting real sleep, other fights turned more into heated discussions.” — ttc8420
What are your sleeping arrangements with your partner? Do you believe sleeping in different beds can help a relationship thrive?
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