For different people, tattoos and other body markings can represent a wide range of meanings. Something that is revered in one part of the world could be viewed as inappropriate in another; a symbol or piece of art that has significant value in one place might seem like random squiggles in another. It’s safe to say, in my opinion, that for as long as we have been as a species, people have used their appearances to communicate ideas and express themselves.
Unless you’re a resident of a remote island, you’re probably accustomed to seeing tattooed individuals. Certain designs can be little regrets from childhood, but others might have deeper significance—telling tales or following customs or traditions, for example.I don’t know about you, but I always find it fascinating when I see the same tattoo on multiple people.
That is to say, I’m instantly captivated by the meaning of the tattoo and the reasons the owner felt it was so important to have it on display for the rest of their lives. One that I have witnessed many times over the years but have never taken the time to look into is the so-called “red string of fate.”
The small red tattoo will certainly be recognizable to some of our readers, but it is unlikely that many of those who have seen it before will get its symbolic meaning. I did say that I had seen a couple folks with the tattoo. Certainly enough to identify a trend. I had no idea what this mark meant, but it had to imply something.
I used the internet to conduct some research and found that the red thread tattoo in issue is known as the “red string of fate” in Asian traditions. Usually seen on men’s thumbs and women’s pinky fingers, the tattoo has a basic bow-like design with tails that mimics a tied shoelace.This small tattoo has a meaning that is centered on optimism and desire.
The tale is purportedly based on a folktale from China about a matchmaker who foretells the partners that each of us is destined to meet.Naturally, the notion that one is fated to meet someone else is not exclusive to romantic endeavors, nor is the idea of sharing an invisible relationship with another person confined to any one culture; rather, it is present in practically all of them.
No matter where they are, when they are, or what happens, two people are meant to be lovers, according to the red string of fate. That is a comforting and pleasurable concept for some people. Still others, meanwhile, surely would prefer to be masters of their own fate.
I Wasn’t Able to Contact My Wife for Weeks — Then My Father-in-Law Called and Said, ‘I Think You Need to Know the Truth’
For nearly two decades, I thought my marriage was unshakable — until one morning, my wife vanished, leaving only a cryptic note. Weeks later, a single phone call revealed a betrayal so deep it changed everything.
I never thought of myself as the kind of man who’d end up abandoned. Not me. Not Adam, a 43-year-old husband, father of three, and steady provider. My life wasn’t perfect, but it was predictable and solid.
For nineteen years, my wife, Sandy, and I built something real together: a home, a family, a life that felt like it could withstand anything.
And then, one morning, she was just… gone.
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It started like any other day. I woke up groggy, rubbing the sleep from my eyes as I reached for Sandy’s side of the bed. Empty. That wasn’t too unusual; she was an early riser, always up before me, usually making breakfast or lost in one of her endless projects.
But when I stumbled into the kitchen, there was no fresh coffee, no sizzling bacon, no scribbled note about running errands. Just silence.
That’s when I saw it.
A single piece of paper, folded neatly on the counter.
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I frowned, picked it up, and my stomach clenched the moment I read the words.
“Don’t call me. Don’t go to the police. Just accept it.”
I read it twice. Then again. The words blurred together. My hands felt numb.
What the hell was this? A prank? Some kind of cruel joke?
“Sandy?” I called out, my voice too loud in the still house. No answer.
I checked the bedroom again; her closet was half-empty with drawers yanked open as if she’d packed in a hurry.
That’s when panic sank its claws into me.
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I grabbed my phone and called her. Straight to voicemail. Called again. Same thing.
I texted her: “Sandy, what is this? Where are you? Please, call me.”
Nothing.
Within the hour, I was calling everyone — her friends, her coworkers. No one had seen or heard from her. Then I called her parents.
Bernard, my father-in-law, answered. His voice was careful, too careful.
“Adam, son, maybe she just needed space,” he said, like he was trying to convince himself more than me.
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“Space?” I repeated. “Bernard, she left a note saying not to call her. That I should just ‘accept it.’ That’s not ‘needing space’—that’s running away.”
A long pause. Then a sigh. “Just… give it some time.”
That’s when I knew he was holding something back.
But what choice did I have? The police refused to help, claiming she was an adult who had left willingly. “No signs of foul play,” they said. “This happens more often than you’d think.”
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Days turned into a week. Then two.
The kids were wrecked.
Seth, my fifteen-year-old, shut down completely; silent, brooding, locking himself in his room for hours. Sarah, sixteen, was angry. At Sandy, at me, at the universe. “She just left?” she’d yell. “Did she even think about us?”
And Alice… God, Alice. Ten years old, still waiting by the front door some nights, hoping her mom would walk through.
“Maybe Mom’s lost,” she whispered one evening as I tucked her in. “Maybe she needs help.”
I forced a smile. “Maybe, sweetheart.”
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But I didn’t believe it.
I barely slept and spent hours staring at my phone, willing it to ring. And then, one night, three weeks after she disappeared, it finally did.
Not from Sandy.
From Bernard.
It wasn’t a normal call. It was a Facebook video call, something he never did. That alone sent my nerves into overdrive.
I answered immediately. His face filled the screen, lit only by a dim lamp. He looked… haunted.
“Bernard?” I said, heart pounding. “What’s going on?”
He hesitated, rubbed a hand over his face. “Adam… I think you need to know the truth.”
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I froze. “What truth?”
“It’s about Sandy.” His voice dropped to a near whisper. “But before I tell you, you have to promise me something.”
“What?” My pulse roared in my ears. “Bernard, where is she? Is she safe?”
“Promise me first,” he said, his expression unreadable. “Don’t tell Sandy I told you this. She made us swear, but I—” He exhaled shakily. “I couldn’t keep this from you.”
I hesitated. My throat felt tight, like my body already knew the truth before my mind could process it.
“I promise,” I finally said.
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Bernard exhaled slowly as if the weight of this secret had been crushing him for weeks. His voice wavered.
“She’s in France,” he said. “With him.”
I frowned. “Him?” The word felt foreign in my mouth. Then, before he could even answer, the realization hit me like a freight train.
“No,” I said, shaking my head. “You don’t mean —”
“Her first love, Jeremy,” Bernard confirmed. “The one from high school. The one she only left behind because he moved to Europe.” His voice was bitter, edged with something I couldn’t quite place. “She told us she’d dreamed of this moment for years.”
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My stomach twisted so violently that I thought I might be sick.
I gripped the phone tighter. “You’re telling me she — planned this?”
Bernard hesitated before answering, his voice strained. “Yes.”
I sat down hard, the air sucked out of my lungs.
“She said she’d be back in six months,” he continued. “She made us swear not to tell you. But I — I just couldn’t keep quiet anymore. You and the kids deserve better than this.”
My hands curled into fists. “She abandoned us.” The words came out hollow, like I couldn’t believe them even as I said them.
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Bernard let out a shaky breath. “I raised her better than this,” he murmured. “Or at least, I thought I did. But she left you. She left her own children. And for what? A fling? A fantasy from when she was seventeen?”
His disgust was palpable. I knew he was struggling with this as much as I was.
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He went on, his voice thick with emotion. “At first, I kept her secret because I thought maybe she just needed time. That maybe she’d come to her senses. But when I spoke to her last, she wasn’t talking like someone who regretted her choices. She sounded… happy. Free. As if none of you even existed.”
The words settled over me like a suffocating weight.
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Bernard sighed. “But it’s not just my shame I can’t bear — it’s what she’s done to you, to her children. I won’t let them suffer because of her selfishness. You need to protect them, Adam. And for that, you need to know the truth.”
I pressed my fingers against my temple. My brain felt foggy, my thoughts scattered.
“Do you have proof?” I finally asked.
Silence stretched between us. Then, I saw a new message pop up.
Bernard had sent me a voice recording.
I hesitated, then pressed play.
Sandy’s voice filled the room. Light. Excited.
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“I feel alive for the first time in years,” she said, practically breathless. “Maybe I’ll stay longer. Maybe another few months. He makes me so happy, Dad. You have to understand.”
My jaw tightened so hard it hurt.
“Understand?” I muttered to myself.
I felt sick. Physically sick.
The woman I had spent almost two decades loving, the mother of my children, had left us for this.
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That night, I didn’t sleep. I sat at the kitchen table, staring at the cold, empty space where Sandy used to sit, where she used to sip her coffee in the mornings, where she used to laugh at my terrible jokes.
It was over. All of it.
The next morning, I contacted a lawyer.
I prepared divorce papers.
If she wanted her fresh start, I’d give it to her.
And then — eight months later — she returned.
It happened on a Sunday.
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I had just come home from grocery shopping when I heard the sound of a car pulling into the driveway. I didn’t think much of it at first until the knock on the door came.
I opened it, and there she was.
Sandy.
She looked different. Not in a dramatic way, but just… less. Her usual confident posture was gone, replaced with something hesitant, almost fragile.
“Adam,” she breathed, her eyes glassy. “I’m home.”
I leaned against the doorframe, arms crossed. “Are you?”
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Her lips trembled. “Please, can we talk?”
I didn’t invite her in. Instead, I stepped outside and closed the door behind me.
The kids were out with their grandparents; I wasn’t about to let them be blindsided by this.
“Talk,” I said flatly.
Her eyes darted to the ground. “It was a mistake,” she whispered. “I left him.”
I didn’t react.
She swallowed hard. “Please, Adam, let’s fix this.”
I let out a short, humorless laugh. “Fix what?”
She flinched. “Us. Our family. I — I thought you’d wait for me.”
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I stared at her, stunned by the sheer audacity of that statement.
“Wait for you?” I repeated. “You planned your escape. You told your father you felt ‘alive’ for the first time in years. You chose this, Sandy. And now that your fantasy crashed and burned, you want to come back?”
Her eyes filled with tears. “I was confused. I — I made a mistake.”
I shook my head. “No. You made a choice. A conscious, selfish choice. You put your happiness above everything else. Above me. Above your own children.“
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A tear slid down her cheek. “Adam, please. I know I messed up. I know I hurt you, but —”
“You didn’t just hurt me,” I cut in. “You destroyed our kids. Seth barely speaks anymore. Sarah doesn’t trust anyone. Alice still waits by the window some nights, thinking you’ll come home. You did that, Sandy. And now you want to waltz back in like none of it happened?”
She sobbed openly now. “I love you. I love them. I just — I lost my way.”
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I exhaled slowly, looking at the woman I once knew and realizing she wasn’t the same person anymore.
And neither was I.
“You lost everything,” I told her.
She blinked, her breath hitching.
I stepped back, reached into my pocket, and pulled out an envelope.
Divorce papers.
She looked down at them, her face crumbling. “No,” she whispered. “Adam, please —”
I shook my head. “You made your choice, Sandy. Now I’m making mine.”
I turned and walked back inside, locking the door behind me.
She was alone.
Just like she had left us.
And I didn’t look back.
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Do you think I did the right thing? What would you have done in my place?
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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