We all have different traditions when it comes to commemorating and paying tribute to our loved ones who have passed away.
In today’s world, honoring the customs of others while commemorating the lives of the departed ought to come as standard practice. Some may choose to follow traditions or practices that the rest of us are not familiar with, but it doesn’t make them any less legitimate.
The same is true with gravestones and the ornamentation certain families choose to place over their loved ones’ last resting places. Coins being placed on headstones is one custom that is widely practiced and that you have probably witnessed at some point. However, why is this even a thing? And from whence did it originate? Continue reading to learn more.
Coins are traditionally placed on gravestones in cemeteries around the United States and other countries. When I was a little child, I first observed it when I was at my grandfather’s tomb, and even then, I started to wonder what it was all about.
Luckily, finding the beginnings online doesn’t need much research. Although it was previously thought that the practice originated with Roman military troops, a number of sources have disproved that theory in recent years.
Still, there’s a military connection to leaving pennies on gravestones. The American Legion Website states on one of its pages that it can be linked to the Vietnam War.
“Leaving a coin was considered a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the soldier’s grave than contacting the soldier’s family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war, due to the political divide in the country over the war.”
There are other reasons why veterans leave pennies on gravestones in memory of their fallen friends; occasionally, they do so in order to purchase a beer for them. Each coin represents a different meaning, according to reports.
For instance, a nickel is left by someone who served in boot camp with the deceased, whereas a penny just indicates that someone was present.
On the other hand, a dime represents a combined period of military service. Next are quarters, which inform the family of the presence of whoever left the coin at the moment of the loved one’s passing.
Ever notice a penny left on a gravestone? Were you aware of its meaning? Tell us in the comments below.
I Found a Ring in My Husband’s Drawer a Week Ago – Now It’s Gone but He Never Gave It to Me
They say curiosity killed the cat, but in my case, it almost shattered my marriage. A week ago, I found a hidden diamond ring in my husband’s drawer and thought I was in for a romantic surprise. Little did I know that the real surprise would come in the form of betrayal, heartbreak, and a twist you wouldn’t believe.
Mark and I had been together for seven years, and our anniversary was coming up. I was buzzing with excitement because each year, our anniversary felt like a small triumph. We’d had our ups and downs but we always came out stronger. This year, though, things took an unexpected and really confusing turn.
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It started about a week ago. I was looking for some old documents in Mark’s drawer. You know how it is, rummaging through a drawer and hoping you find what you’re looking for. That’s when I saw it: a small, velvet ring box. My heart started pounding. I couldn’t resist; I had to see what was inside.
I opened it slowly, and there it was, a stunning diamond ring. It took my breath away. I instantly thought Mark had planned to surprise me on our anniversary with this beautiful ring.
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I mean, we had our rough patches, but I knew he loved me deeply. I closed the box, put it back exactly where I found it, and shut the drawer.
The days leading up to our anniversary felt like forever. I was on edge but excited, imagining the moment he would give me the ring. However, our anniversary came and went, and the ring never made an appearance. He gave me a lovely pair of earrings, which I appreciated, but my mind was on that ring.
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“These earrings are beautiful, Mark,” I said, trying to sound enthusiastic.
“I’m glad you like them,” he replied with a smile.
I forced a smile back, but inside, all I could think was, “What about the ring?”
Maybe he had another plan? Maybe he was waiting for the perfect moment?
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A few days later, while engrossed in a book, I received a message from my best friend, Emily. We had been friends since college, and we shared everything. I opened her message and saw a picture of her hand wearing a diamond ring: the same ring I had seen in Mark’s drawer.
My heart sank.
Emily’s text followed, “Look at this gorgeous ring! This new guy I met is already spoiling me!”
I stared at the picture, my mind racing. “That’s the ring from Mark’s drawer,” I thought, feeling a mix of shock and betrayal.
A closeup shot of a woman flaunting her diamond ring | Source: Midjourney
I was hurt and furious. But I knew I had to get to the bottom of this, so I came up with a plan.
“Hey, Jess. I’m going to take a shower,” said Mark, disappearing into the bathroom.
His timing was impeccable. Without wasting a moment, I grabbed his phone and quickly typed a message to Emily, pretending to be him.
“Hey, Emily. Let’s meet at Aurora Plateau Dining at 7 p.m. I’ve got something important to tell you.”
I hit send and put the phone back, my heart racing with a mix of anger and anticipation.
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When Mark emerged from the shower, I suggested we dine at the same place to maximize our anniversary celebration before another year slipped by. Fortunately, he agreed.
As the evening approached, my nerves were on edge. I couldn’t wait to uncover the mysteries, lies, and half-truths that awaited me. Amidst my conflicting thoughts, Mark’s voice interrupted my reverie. “Let’s order something, Jess. How about your favorite mushroom ravioli?”
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“Let’s wait a bit,” I replied cautiously, careful not to reveal my plan.
“Okay, but are we expecting someone?” he inquired, looking puzzled.
“You’ll find out soon enough,” I responded calmly, despite the turmoil inside me. My gaze alternated between Mark’s face and the entrance, awaiting the arrival of my special guest. I noticed Mark shifting in his seat, perhaps sensing what was about to unfold.
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Moments later, Emily entered, elegantly dressed and sporting a wide grin. However, her expression fell when she spotted me, her demeanor changing as if she had seen a ghost. With hesitant steps, she approached our table, while I struggled to maintain composure upon noticing the diamond ring adorning her finger.
“Good evening, everyone,” Emily greeted, her movements cautious as she took a seat. It didn’t take long for her and Mark to grasp the reality of my setup, and the atmosphere grew tense.
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Before I could speak, Mark cleared his throat, seemingly prepared to offer an explanation or excuse.
“Jess, I can explain…” he began, but I cut him off.
“Please, let me speak,” I interjected, shifting my gaze from Mark to Emily, who nervously fiddled with her hands, attempting to conceal the ring.
Rising from my seat, my voice trembled but determined. “I found the ring in your drawer, dear husband. Now, will you please tell me why you didn’t give it to me? And Emily, why are you wearing it?”
A closeup shot of silver wedding rings in a box | Source: Midjourney
Mark’s face turned pale, and he stammered, “I… I bought that ring for you, Jess. Our wedding rings were simple because we couldn’t afford much back then. I wanted to give you something special this anniversary, something you deserved. But I realized it was the wrong size. Emily offered to help because she knew a jeweler who could fix it.”
“Perfect. Now, Emily,” I paused to take a deep breath. “Why were you taking pictures with that ring when you simply took it to get resized? And then you had the audacity to send those pictures to me? Why?”
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Emily’s eyes filled with guilt as she glanced between us. “I… I did take the ring to get it resized, Jess. But… I also sent you that picture because… I’m in love with Mark. I wanted you to think he was giving it to me, so you would leave him.”
The room fell silent, the weight of her confession hanging in the air. Mark looked at Emily, shocked and dismayed. “Emily, how could you do this? Jess is my wife. I love her more than anything.”
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I took a deep breath, my anger now directed solely at Emily. “I trusted you, Emily. You were my best friend. How could you betray me like this?”
Emily broke down in tears, apologizing repeatedly, but her words felt hollow. Mark reached out to hold my hand, his eyes filled with remorse and love. “Jess, I had no idea she felt this way. I only wanted to surprise you. Please. You have to believe me.”
I looked at him, seeing the sincerity in his eyes. “I believe you, Mark. But Emily, this is unforgivable.”
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We left the restaurant, leaving Emily behind with her tears and apologies. As we stepped out into the cool night air, Mark squeezed my hand.” Jess, I’m so sorry for everything. I love you more than anything, and I want to make it up to you.”
I nodded, my heart heavy but resolute.
We walked in silence for a while, the cool breeze helping to calm my nerves. The streets were quiet, with the occasional car passing by. It was just us and the sound of our footsteps on the pavement.
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“Jess,” Mark said softly, breaking the silence. “I know I’ve messed up by not telling you about the ring, and I’m sorry you had to go through that confusion and hurt. I just wanted to make this anniversary special for you.”
I squeezed his hand, appreciating his words. “I know, Mark. I understand why you did it now. It’s just… it was such a shock seeing that ring on Emily’s finger. I thought the worst.”
He stopped walking and turned to face me, his eyes earnest. “I promise, from now on, no more secrets. We talk about everything, okay?”
A loving couple hugging on the road at night | Source: Midjourney
“Okay,” I agreed, feeling a bit lighter. “No more secrets.”
As we resumed walking, I couldn’t help but reflect on the night’s events. Emily’s betrayal cut deep, but Mark’s unwavering support gave me hope. I knew it would take time to heal, but I believed we could get through it.
Curious to hear your thoughts! Did this situation resonate with anyone? How might you have handled it? Share your experiences in the comments section. In the meantime, check out another story that might pique your interest:
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I Ran into My Ex-Fiancé Who Dumped Me for Not Being ‘Good Enough’ – He Was on a Date & My Revenge Was Sweet
Before we move on to the main story, here’s a bit of context. About five years ago, I was engaged to this guy named Mark. We had been together for three years and I was in love with him: you know, the kind where you cannot imagine your life without your favorite person.
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Luckily, Mark reciprocated my feelings and always assured me that he too felt the same way. We were deep into our wedding plans and I was over the moon to start a new chapter of my life with him when, out of the blue, he called it quits. Yes, you heard that right. He broke up with me.
His reasoning? I “wasn’t good enough for him.” Apparently, he’d landed a big promotion at work and suddenly felt like I didn’t fit his new image. Sounds crazy, right?
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