Her childhood was unconventional as she grew up during the Blitz period. Years later, Joan thought it would be great to do a film about growing up with her sister during this era but her dream hasn’t come to fruition.
Even so, the actress said that as the war continued, she was just a child, unaware of the bombings. She would collect fragments of debris from the streets and store them in her cigar box each evening.
She narrated, “We would draw silly pictures of Hitler. We were evacuated 10 or 12 times. We would be in the tube stations, and people would be playing their harmonicas and singing.”
Despite the chaos, Joan Collins, who deeply loved her Anglican Briton mother, realized that she did not want to live the same life her mom lived. “Mummy was the 1950s housewife, very sweet and very docile,” she explained.
The actress had previously said that her mom, who died at the age of 52, died very young because she never spoke back to her husband.
oan also shared that “My father never held back. I saw him as a figure to look up to more than my mother. I loved her to death but I considered her to be weak and I hated all the clothes she wore.”
The actress’s mother consistently wore girdles, suspenders, stockings, tight bras, underpinnings, and corsets, which Joan disliked.
Joan, who took great care in her appearance, was voted the most beautiful girl in England by a photographers’ association when she was 18. The newspapers asked her dad what he thought about her daughter’s position, he replied, “I’m amazed. She’s a nice-enough-looking girl. Nothing special.”
At this point, Joan had departed from the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art (RADA), developed a passion for French existentialism, admired the singer Juliette Gréco, and dreamed of becoming a celebrated stage actress.
The focus on her appearance was even more as her film career progressed. Joan disclosed that in Hollywood, she faced daily verbal abuse.
She recounted how the makeup department gave her cruel nicknames, such as “Moonface” due to her baby fat and “Scrawny Legs” because of her thin legs. She remembered the department as a large group of women who were particularly harsh and unkind to her.
In 1955, when Joan was 22, she was cast in the biopic about Evelyn Nesbit “The Girl in the Red Velvet Swing.” Evelyn was considered the most beautiful girl in New York and Joan was to play her.
So, one day, Joan who was still in the Juliette Gréco character and thus had no makeup and was in jeans with scruffy hair, ran into her director Richard Fleischer. Richard told her, “Oh my God, I cannot look at you – you are so ugly. You cannot go around like that – put some makeup on, get your hair done, get a proper dress.”
Just like her career, Joan’s personal life also had its ups and downs. When she was 17, still a virgin, the actress went on a date with actor Maxwell Reed, aged 31. He spiked her rum and coke and raped her.
“I was 17, but I was the equivalent mentally of 12. We did not have sex education,” she noted. Shockingly, Maxwell became the actress’s first husband. When asked why she chose to marry her rapist, she answered, “Because I come from a generation where if you’re going to have sex, you get married.”
However, when Joan learned that Maxwell wanted to give her to older men for $12,710 a night as long as he could watch, she stood up for herself. After four years of marriage, the two divorced.
In her 20s, Joan lived with several men, including Sydney Chaplin and Arthur Loew Jr. She also had an affair with a married man who was eight years her senior. As much as the man was handsome, witty, and fascinating, Joan said the affair was utter hell and she never engaged in one again.
Hollywood men, including directors, also went after Joan. In her autobiography, “Behind the Shoulder Pads,” the actress revealed that she was offered the role of Cleopatra in Joseph L. Mankiewicz’s film on the condition that she got along well with Buddy Adler, the head of Fox, and the chairman of the board.
Joan, who was disgusted by how directors and producers, who were old men, took advantage of young actresses said no as she never wanted to be a part of that. The Cleopatra role was given to Elizabeth Taylor.
In the memoir, Joan also wrote about having an abortion when she got pregnant at 26 with her fiancé, Beatty, a 23-year-old aspiring actor. Beatty convinced Joan to abort the baby because it would derail their career. Years later, she agreed with him, noting that if he had a baby, she would have had to say goodbye to her acting career.
Joan went on to have three kids. She had her first two, Tara and Alexander with her second husband, Anthony Newley. Her last child, Katyana, is with her second husband Ron Kass.
The actress’s third husband was Peter Holm and she is now married to Percy Gibson. Joan announced that she was engaged to Percy in December 2001 and then the pair got married in 2002 at Claridge’s Hotel in London, in front of 175 guests.
The lovebirds, who have been together for over two decades, met when Joan was featured in a touring production of the play “Love Letters” in the US. The Peruvian-born theatre manager also helped Joan edit her novel “Star Quality.”
Many people talked when Joan and Percy Gibson got married because he is 32 years younger than her. Joan was asked to comment on their age difference and she said, “Well, if he dies, he dies.”
In 2023, Joan gushed about her marriage saying that she had found the right man in her current husband, “Oh yes, Percy and I have been married for 21 years and it’s just marvelous.”
Now, Joan is in her 90s but she still has the youthful charm and grace in her presence. When asked if she has had cosmetic procedures done, the actress simply said with a shrug, “If people want to think I’ve had surgery, then…”
Joan added, “You can tell [I haven’t] because I have lines and jowls. When I see women around my age I think: ‘Oh, really? My gosh, I look quite a bit…’ I think I look pretty good!”
The movie star is also needle-phobic and just couldn’t bring herself to have cosmetic work done on her. She attributes her good look, perfect complexion, and youthfulness to staying out of the sun.
She added that her mom taught her to moisturize her skin and use night cream, something she also taught her daughters. Joan’s lovely appearance still amazes her fans.
In April 2024, Joan enjoyed a fun photoshoot for the New York Times Fashion and Style section. She looked radiant in a white cardigan paired with an off-white cap and black trousers.
A fan, amazed by her look, said, “You are simply iconic, dear one, and stunning ♥️♥️.” Another admirer commented, “You always look so beautiful♥️.”
When she turned 90 in 2023, a fan shared a picture of Joan taken on the streets. The actress was in a modest flower dress styled with a white coat, a sun hat, and sunglasses. The fan captioned the post, “Happiest of birthdays to Dame Joan Collins, who turns 90 but easily looks at least 20 years younger.”
At 91, Joan Collins is content with both her personal and professional life. Retirement isn’t on her agenda, as she plans to continue working because of her passion for it.
She acknowledged that performing her one-woman show and staying in a different hotel each night was exhausting, but the enthusiastic audiences and her love for her work made it a rewarding experience.
I Was Sure My Partner Was a Widower – Until His Daughter Confessed She’s Been Seeing Her Mom on Saturdays
I thought Austin was the perfect man, a widower raising his daughter, grounded by tragedy. But everything unraveled the day his daughter whispered a chilling secret: her mother wasn’t dead.
Meeting Austin felt like finding a lighthouse in a storm. We met at a mutual friend’s housewarming party, where he stood by the fireplace, cradling a drink with practiced ease.
A man standing by a fireplace | Source: Midjourney
His eyes held a softness that I hadn’t seen in a long time; a quiet resilience beneath a tragedy.
“It’s been two years since my wife passed,” he told me later, his voice low and even. “Car accident. It’s just me and my daughter now.”
Austin’s vulnerability drew me in. He was attentive in ways that felt like a balm to my guarded heart. He was always texting to check if I’d made it home safely and showing up with dinner on nights he knew I’d had a long day.
A man holding a takeout bag | Source: Midjourney
It was sweet, even if, at times, it bordered on clingy. When he’d ask if I could “just send a quick text” when I was out with friends, I chalked it up to someone who’d been through loss and was just cautious about losing someone else.
As the weeks turned into months, his kindness and steady demeanor convinced me I’d found something real.
He introduced me to his daughter, Willow, a quiet 14-year-old who mostly lived with her grandmother.
A teen girl | Source: Midjourney
She spent Sundays with Austin, and while she was always polite, there was a distance to her. She’d perch awkwardly on the edge of the couch during visits, her legs tucked under her like she wasn’t planning to stay long.
Six months in, I thought I knew him. I really did.
On Saturday, we celebrated Austin’s birthday. It was a small gathering, just a few close friends and Willow, who stayed overnight so she could spend Sunday with her dad.
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The next morning, as I stood in the kitchen pouring my second coffee, I heard a whisper from the living room. The sound was faint, but it caught my attention.
“Sorry, Mom. You know yesterday was his birthday. I couldn’t come. I’ll call you later.”
I froze, the coffee pot still tilted mid-pour. Mom?
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“Willow?” I called, trying to keep my voice steady as I walked into the living room. She was still clutching her phone, cheeks flushed.
She looked up, startled. “Yeah?”
“Did you just say ‘Mom’?”
Her eyes darted toward the hallway, then back to me.
A teen girl glancing nervously to one side | Source: Midjourney
“Oh,” she laughed, too high and too loud. “It’s just a friend. We call her ‘Mom’ as a joke.”
The explanation didn’t sit right, and Willow must’ve seen the doubt on my face. Before I could press further, she grabbed my hand, her grip surprisingly firm for such a slight frame.
“Not here,” she hissed. “Let’s talk in the basement.”
The air in the basement was cool and damp, and Willow’s eyes darted toward the closed door as if it might betray her.
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“You can’t tell Dad what I’m about to tell you,” she said, her voice trembling. “Promise me.”
“I… okay,” I said, though my heart was pounding. “What’s going on?”
“She’s not dead,” Willow whispered, each word a fragile shard. “My mom. She’s alive.”
I felt the world shift beneath me. “What? How… why would he think she’s dead?”
Willow looked down, her hands twisting the hem of her sweatshirt. “Because she wanted him to.”
A teen girl speaking to someone in a basement | Source: Midjourney
“She left to escape him and his controlling behavior,” she added. “But he wouldn’t let her move on. He stalked her and threatened her. When the crash happened, she saw her chance.”
“Her chance?” My voice cracked.
“To disappear.” Willow swallowed hard. “It happened on a country road and the police assumed wild animals got her when they couldn’t find a body. Everyone believed it. She moved to another city. She thought it was the only way to be free.”
A teen girl in a basement | Source: Midjourney
Her words came in gasps now. “I see her on Saturdays. She’s safe, but if Dad found out, he’d ruin her life all over again.”
Willow’s revelation sent my mind reeling. The ground I thought I’d been standing on felt suddenly unstable, like I’d been balancing on thin ice without realizing it.
Her words echoed in my head: “If Dad found out, he’d ruin her life all over again.” The Austin I thought I knew (a kind, steady man who loved deeply) didn’t match the Austin she described.
A disturbed woman | Source: Midjourney
But the pieces she’d handed me started to slot into place. I couldn’t ignore the red flags any longer.
I began replaying moments I’d dismissed. The constant texts checking in (“Just wanted to make sure you’re okay”) had felt sweet at first, a sign he cared. But now I remembered the unease I’d felt when they came in rapid succession if I didn’t respond fast enough.
Then there was his subtle needling when I made plans without him: “Why didn’t you tell me you were going out with your friends?” or “I guess I just assumed we’d spend the evening together.”
A woman lost in thought | Source: Midjourney
At the time, I’d written it off as insecurity, nothing malicious. But now, it felt like a web was being spun tighter and tighter around me.
I decided I needed to test him. If Willow was right, Austin’s response to the smallest assertion of independence would tell me everything.
“I need some space,” I told him one evening, my voice steadier than I felt. My pulse hammered in my ears as I forced myself to meet his gaze. “Just to think about where we’re going.”
A woman speaking to someone | Source: Midjourney
The air between us shifted, his expression freezing for the briefest moment before he forced a smile. It was a practiced smile, one that didn’t quite reach his eyes.
“Of course,” he said, his tone gentle but strained. “Take all the time you need. Just don’t forget how much I care about you.”
I nodded, unsure what else to say. For a moment, I let myself believe he’d taken it well.
A concerned woman | Source: Midjourney
His texts began the next morning, one after another, faster than I could respond.
“Hey, just checking in.”
“I hope everything’s okay.”
“I miss you. Can we talk soon?”
By the time I arrived at work, my phone was buzzing incessantly. By lunchtime, he was standing outside the building with a bouquet in his hand.
A man holding a bouquet | Source: Midjourney
His smile stretched too wide as he greeted me, his presence jarring against the normalcy of my workday.
“I just wanted to see you,” he said, handing me the flowers. His eyes scanned my face like he was searching for something, reassurance, maybe. Or a sign that I’d give in.
I tried to deflect, thanking him but keeping my distance. “I’m really busy today, Austin. We’ll talk later.”
A woman waving while walking away | Source: Midjourney
He nodded, but his smile faltered as I turned and walked away. By the time I reached the elevator, my hands were shaking.
That evening, as I approached my apartment, I spotted him standing by the entrance. He didn’t have flowers this time, just his presence, looming and uninvited.
“I couldn’t stop thinking about you,” he said, his voice low, almost pleading. But his eyes… there was something darker there now, something I couldn’t ignore.
A man with an unsettling smile | Source: Midjourney
My instincts screamed at me to run, but I forced myself to stay calm.
“Austin, this isn’t okay,” I said, my voice trembling despite my effort to sound firm. “You need to go.”
He hesitated, then gave me that tight, brittle smile again. “I just wanted to talk.”
Once he left, I bolted the door and called my friend, Mark.
A woman making a phone call | Source: Midjourney
Mark was a cop so if anyone could help me out, it was him. My hands were shaking so badly I nearly dropped the phone.
When he answered, the words spilled out in a torrent, my voice cracking under the weight of my fear.
Mark listened patiently, his tone steady when he spoke. “You did the right thing calling me,” he said. “If he steps out of line again, we’ll deal with him.”
A woman speaking on the phone | Source: Midjourney
The next day, I spotted Austin again as I left work. My heart sank, but this time, Mark was ready. He stepped out of his squad car with an authority that seemed to fill the space around him.
“Austin,” Mark said, his voice calm but steely. “This stops now. If you keep this up, there will be legal consequences. Leave her alone.”
For a moment, Austin just stared at him, his jaw tight and his fists clenching at his sides. Then his mask slipped.
A glaring man | Source: Midjourney
The glare he directed at me was sharp, venomous, and unrecognizable. It was a glimpse of the man Willow had warned me about.
“I just wanted to talk,” he muttered, his voice low and defensive. But he stepped back, his movements deliberate as he turned and walked away.
Mark stayed until I was safely inside my car, his presence a quiet reassurance. But the image of Austin’s glare stayed with me, etched into my mind like a warning.
A woman sitting in her car | Source: Midjourney
The man I’d once trusted completely was gone, replaced by someone I barely recognized.
I blocked Austin on everything: my phone, my email, and even social media. Then I packed a bag and moved in with my friend, Jennifer for a while. The relief of distance was like air filling my lungs after weeks of suffocation.
Sitting in Jennifer’s guest room that night, I thought about how dangerously close I’d come to losing myself.
A woman sitting on a bed | Source: Midjourney
I thought of Willow, her small hands clutching her sweatshirt in the basement, and her mother, rebuilding a life from ashes.
If they could find the strength to start over, so could I. I wasn’t just escaping Austin; I was reclaiming my life. And this time, I would be more careful.
Here’s another story: My new neighbor was making my life hell between his dawn wood chopping and that destructive dog. We were on the verge of an all-out war when his seven-year-old daughter showed up crying on my doorstep with a desperate plea for help.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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