Lucie Arnaz is proud of her ‘15,695 days’ marriage and ‘5 kids’ – she survived famous parents’ horrible divorce

Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz are perhaps one of the most famous couples in television history. Their romance continued off-screen as well. Their marriage was famously tumultuous, and no one knows that better than their daughter Lucie Arnaz.

Keep reading to know more about their daughter and how her life turned out over the years.

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Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were perhaps the most beloved couple on American television at one time. Their show I Love Lucy depicted them as the Ricardos, a middle-class couple that were the ideal nuclear family.

The show had six seasons and ran from 1951 to 1957. It followed Lucille as Lucy Ricardo, a housewife who always gets into hilarious situations. While the couple seemed perfect in their on-screen depiction, in real life, their relationship was quite volatile.

The former Broadway star and the Cuban bandleader met while filming Too Many Girls. Their whirlwind six-month romance led to an elopement and marriage in November 1940.

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After over a decade of their marriage, the couple became parents to daughter Lucie Arnaz, born on July 17, 1951. Two years after that, on January 19, 1953, they became parents to their second child, their son Desi Arnaz Jr.

The two children joined their parents in the family business of acting. They starred alongside their mother in the spin-off shows for I Love Lucy. Then in May 1961, after nearly two decades together, the couple filed for divorce.

It took years for Lucie Arnaz to open up about the reality of her parents’ marriage and their subsequent divorce. She revealed in a 2018 interview how “They were fighting all the time when we were growing up. There was a lot of anger and screaming.”

She lamented at her childhood where she had to deal with so many issues, she said, “Their divorce was horrible. And then there was the alcoholism. I had preferred those things had never been there. We didn’t have any abuse, but we did go through some pretty hard stuff, and that’s why my parents didn’t stay together. “

Lucille felt the split even more than perhaps her husband because she felt she had shattered the perception the American public had of her. She remarried soon after to comedian Gary Morton.

In her early twenties in 1971, Lucie Arnaz tied the knot to “The Doctors” actor Philip Vandervort Menegaux. The marriage ended in divorce five years later

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But the younger Arnaz’s second try at marriage was much more lasting. She met and married actor and writer Laurence Luckinbill. Now the couple has been together for over four decades.

On June 22, 2023, Lucie celebrated her 43rd wedding anniversary with Luckinbill. She took to Instagram to remember the day many decades ago that she was last single on an apple farm in the coastal city of Kingston, New York.

Their friends and family arrived at the venue in a “big yellow school bus.” She was wearing a “lovely cream crocheted gown” as her father walked her down the aisle. She continued in her post, “…[I] vowed to love Laurence Luckinbill till death us do part. 15,695 days, 5 kids, and three grandchildren later, I am proud to still say,’‘ I do.’”

The Murder, She Wrote actress is still very much in love with her husband. She dedicated a sweet post to him on his 88th birthday late last year in November 2022. She posted a picture of him and wrote how he was “kind, talented, adorable, wise, [and] sexy.”

Luckinbill had two children from a previous marriage; Nicholas Luckinbill and Benjamin Luckinbill. And him and Lucie had three more children together; two sons and a daughter.

Their first child together Simon Thomas Luckinbill was born in December 1980, Joseph Henry Luckinbill was born on New Year’s Eve 1982, and their daughter Katharine Desirée Luckinbill was born on January 11, 1985.

Lucie Arnaz and her husband live in Palm Springs, and their family lives nearby. These days the actress wears her hair in a short pixie cut and spends her time with her beloved grandchildren.

On Grandparents Day in 2019, Arnaz joked about hitting the “jackpot” when the couple welcomed their first two grandchildren just four weeks apart from one another. Since then, they have welcomed many more grandchildren to their brood.

Lucie has been a second-generation actor. She was only 11 years old when she starred alongside her mother in The Lucy Show at 11 opposite her mother, which they then followed up with Here’s Lucy.

She also played the main character in the television movie Who Is the Black Dahlia? and also led in the short-lived comedy The Lucie Arnaz Show in 1985 as psychologist Dr. Jane Lucas.

She has played other roles in guest starring parts in shows such as, Marcus Welby, M.D., Murder, She Wrote, Fantasy Island, Law & Order, and the reboot of Will & Grace.

She has also been credited as a producer in three stories related to her parents. Lucy and Desi: A Home Movie, I Love Lucy’s 50th Anniversary Special, and Being the Ricardos. She also produced the 2003 documentary The Desilu Story.

In June 2023 she revealed that she will be doing an encore of her cabaret act titled I Got The Job! Songs From My Musical Past, at 54 Below in New York City. She had performed the show before the pandemic to a sold-out crowd.

While Lucie is very public about her life, her little brother Desi Arnaz Jr. is quite private about his. When Lucille Ball was pregnant with Arnaz Jr, her pregnancy was written into the show. And as fate would have it, she gave birth to him the same day the episode aired in which her character gave birth to ‘Little Ricky.’

My Husband Died in an Accident, but I Never Saw His Body — One Day, I Heard His Voice Coming from Our Little Daughter’s Bedroom

Grief plays tricks on the mind, but this? This was real. Kelly knew her husband’s voice, and she’d just heard it… coming from her daughter’s room. A chill ran down her spine. Jeremy had been dead for two years. So who — or what — was speaking in his voice? Then she stepped inside… and FROZE.

I’m Kelly. I’m 30, and my life has been a rollercoaster of love and loss. My husband, Jeremy, died in a car accident two years ago. I was eight months pregnant with our daughter, Sophia. One moment, I was painting flowers on the walls of her nursery, dreaming about our future. The next, I was getting a phone call that shattered my world.

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A pregnant woman looking at her phone | Source: Pexels

I remember that moment like it was yesterday. The paintbrush slipped from my fingers, leaving a trail of pink down the wall.

“Miss Kelly?” the voice on the phone was gentle, practiced. “This is Officer Reynolds…”

“Yes?” My hand instinctively went to my swollen belly. Sophia kicked, as if sensing my fear.

“There’s been an accident. Your husband…”

“No,” I whispered. “No, please…”

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A startled woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

They told me the crash was bad — so bad that I shouldn’t see his body. I never got to say goodbye. Just a closed casket at the funeral, and that was it.

“Kelly, honey,” my mom had said at the funeral, holding me as I sobbed. “You need to stay strong. For the baby.”

“How?” I choked out. “How am I supposed to do this without him? He was supposed to be here. He was supposed to hold her…”

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Men carrying a coffin | Source: Pexels

Two years later, I was doing my best to keep going, to be strong for Sophia. But the emptiness? It never really left.

And then, two days ago, something happened that made me question everything.

It was just a regular afternoon. I had put Sophia down for her nap in her bedroom and curled up on the couch with a book. The house was quiet. Peaceful.

Until I heard it.

The sound of a window shutting. Not loud — just enough to make me glance up. Probably the wind, I thought. But then, my blood ran cold when I… Oh my God… when I heard JEREMY’S VOICE:

“I love you forever.”

I swear to God, my whole body turned to ice.

It wasn’t a muffled memory in my head. It wasn’t wishful thinking. It was CLEAR AS DAY.

A terrified woman | Source: Midjourney

A terrified woman | Source: Midjourney

I sat frozen, my breath caught in my throat. My ears were ringing. My heart pounded so hard I thought I might pass out.

“Jeremy?” I whispered into the silence, my voice trembling. “Baby, is that you?”

No. No, no, no. Jeremy was gone. This was NOT POSSIBLE.

But I heard it. Again.

“I love you forever.”

It was coming from Sophia’s room.

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A frantic woman standing at the doorway | Source: Midjourney

I shot up so fast the book tumbled off my lap. My mind raced with possibilities — was someone in there? Was I hallucinating?

Was Jeremy ALIVE?

I rushed down the hallway, barely feeling my feet hit the floor. My hands were ice-cold, and my stomach churned like I might throw up.

“Please,” I whispered as I ran, tears already forming. “Please, if you’re there…”

I pushed open Sophia’s door.

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A terrified woman walking into a room | Source: Midjourney

She was sound asleep in her crib, curled up in a little ball, her tiny fingers clutching a teddy bear. The room was just as I had left it. No open windows. No shadows in the corner. Nothing.

But then, I heard it again.

“I love you forever.”

I swore my heart stopped.

“Jeremy?” My voice cracked. “Is this some kind of cruel joke? Please… I can’t… I can’t take this…”

I scanned the room, my hands shaking as I moved toward the window. Something had to explain this.

A little girl fast asleep while holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

A little girl fast asleep while holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

My fingers brushed against the glass. It was shut. Locked. Outside, a small tree branch rested against the pane, broken like it had fallen against it.

Okay. That explained the noise. But Jeremy’s voice?

My eyes darted back to Sophia. She stirred in her sleep, hugging the bear tighter.

“Dada,” she murmured in her sleep, and my heart shattered all over again.

And then it hit me.

The bear.

I dropped to my knees beside her crib, hands trembling as I reached for it. Pressed it.

“I love you forever.”

My chest squeezed so tight I thought I might collapse.

A startled woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

A startled woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

Jeremy’s voice… It was coming from the bear.

“Oh God,” I sobbed, clutching the bear to my chest. “Oh God, Jeremy…”

I sat on the couch, staring at the bear like it might come to life.

I had no memory of buying this. Had someone given it to Sophia?

And then I remembered. A week ago, we had celebrated Sophia’s second birthday. My mother-in-law, Gloria, had given her this bear.

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A little girl celebrating her 2nd birthday | Source: Pexels

“Look what Grandma got you!” I had said, trying to sound cheerful despite the ache in my chest. Another birthday without Jeremy.

I had barely looked at it at the time. It was just another stuffed animal.

But now? Now I needed answers. So I called Gloria.

She picked up on the second ring. “Kelly, hi, sweetie! Everything okay?”

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An older woman holding her phone | Source: Midjourney

I gripped the bear tighter. “Did you know this thing plays Jeremy’s voice?”

Silence.

Then, a quiet, almost hesitant, “Oh… did it finally play?”

My stomach twisted. “Finally? What do you mean FINALLY?”

Gloria sighed. “I was wondering when you’d hear it.”

I sat up straighter. “Gloria. What did you do?”

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A woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Kelly, please,” her voice wavered. “Just let me explain…”

“Explain what?” I demanded, my voice rising. “Explain why you thought it was okay to… to…”

I couldn’t even finish the sentence.

Gloria showed up an hour later, looking almost nervous. She sat across from me, hands folded, eyes scanning my face.

“I just… I thought it would help,” she said softly.

I placed the bear between us. “Help who?”

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Two women talking to each other | Source: Midjourney

She exhaled. “Sophia. And you.”

I stared at her.

“Kelly,” she reached across the table, taking my hand. “Every time Sophia asks about her daddy… every time I see you trying to explain… it breaks my heart.”

“And you don’t think this breaks mine?” My voice cracked. “To hear his voice again, out of nowhere?”

Gloria swallowed. “After Jeremy died, I kept thinking about how Sophia would never know her dad’s voice. So I took a recording from your wedding video. You remember his vows?”

My throat closed.

“‘I love you forever,’” she whispered.

Oh my God.

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A woman overwhelmed with emotions | Source: Midjourney

“I remember,” I choked out. “He… he practiced those vows for weeks. Said he had to get them perfect…”

She clasped her hands together. “I had it sewn into the bear before her birthday. I wanted her to have a piece of him. To know he’s always with her.”

I blinked hard, staring at the table, my mind spinning.

She had meant well. I knew that. But I felt so blindsided.

“Gloria,” I said, my voice barely above a whisper. “You should have told me.”

“I know,” she admitted with a fragile smile. “I just… I didn’t want to upset you.”

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An older woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

“Upset me?” I laughed bitterly. “I thought I was going crazy. I thought… for a moment, I thought he was…”

“Alive?” Gloria finished softly. “Oh, sweetheart…”

She moved around the table, pulling me into her arms as I broke down.

“I miss him so much,” I sobbed. “Every single day…”

“I know,” she stroked my hair. “He would be so proud of you, Kelly. So proud of how you’re raising Sophia.”

I didn’t know what to say.

I wasn’t angry. I wasn’t relieved. I was just… overwhelmed.

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A distressed woman | Source: Midjourney

That night, I sat in Sophia’s room, watching her sleep. The bear was in my lap. My fingers traced the soft fabric as I stared at my little girl — the daughter Jeremy never got to meet.

She looked so much like him. The same curve to her nose, the same dimple when she smiled, and the same sparkling blue eyes.

“You would have loved her so much,” I whispered into the darkness. “She’s perfect, Jeremy. Just perfect.”

I pressed the bear one last time as a familiar voice filled the room and my heart:

“I love you forever.”

A lump formed in my throat. I wiped my eyes quickly, swallowing down the ache.

I missed him.

A heartbroken woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

A heartbroken woman holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

Sophia stirred, her eyes fluttering open. “Mama?”

“Hey, baby girl,” I whispered, reaching to stroke her cheek.

“Bear?” She reached for the teddy.

I handed it to her, watching as she pressed it to her chest. Jeremy’s voice filled the room again.

“That’s your daddy,” I told her, my voice thick with tears. “He loves you so, so much.”

A cheerful little girl holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

A cheerful little girl holding a teddy bear | Source: Midjourney

“Dada?” She looked at the bear with wide eyes, then back at me.

“Yes, sweetheart. That’s Dada.”

She hugged the bear tighter, closing her eyes. “Love Dada.”

And for so long, I thought I had lost everything. But here, in my daughter’s arms, was a piece of him.

I leaned down and kissed Sophia’s forehead.

“You’ll always have him with you, my sweet girl,” I whispered. “Always.”

The grief was still there. It always would be.

But for the first time in a long, long time… I didn’t feel so alone.

A grieving woman holding herself together | Source: Midjourney

A grieving woman holding herself together | Source: Midjourney

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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