Being a parent to a cocky, disrespectful teenager is far from easy, and different parents have different approaches to get their children to behave.
One mom, Heidi Johnson, wrote a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. She didn’t intend for the post to go viral. She didn’t even intend to make the post public. It was supposed to just be for friends to see, but she does not regret her post or the fact that it’s public.
In the letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded her son treating her like a “roommate.” She went on to give him an itemized bill for rent, food, etc that totaled over $700. If he was going to treat her like a roommate instead of his mom, she would do the same.
Johnson signed the note, “Love Mom,” and she truly does love her son. She followed up the post with another post explaining some backstory to the situation. She also reassured parents who were criticizing her that “I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything. I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”
She added that she never intended for Aaron to pay the bill. Instead, she wanted him to “gain an appreciation of what things cost.” The reason Johnson wrote the note was to make sure her son understood “what life would look like if I was not his ‘parent,’ but rather a ‘roommate.’ It was a lesson about gratitude and respect from the very beginning.”
Johnson also explained that before she wrote the note, her son had lied about doing his homework, and when she told him she was going to restrict his internet access, he responded, “Well, I am making money now.” She explained that the money he was referring to was a little bit of income he was making from his YouTube channel, but not nearly enough to pay for food and rent.
The public note has not hurt Johnson’s relationship with her son. She explained, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”
Johnson has also had parents turning to her for advice since she posted the note to her son. She explains, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just have someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”
This small artifact has a huge role in the home
Imagine yourself in the cozy embrace of a 1970s living room, where the walls are painted in earthy hues and the shag carpet sprawls out in bold, funky patterns.
Amidst this retro-chic setting, a slender, unassuming object rests in the groove of a vinyl record sleeve.
What is it, you ask? Well, it’s none other than a humble hook — a relic of domestic life from days gone by. Keep reading to find out more!
Cast your mind back to a time when windows were adorned with their Sunday best — pleated curtains hanging proudly, framing views of idyllic suburban landscapes or the bustling streets of the city. In the background, the curtain hook quietly performed its duties, ensuring that the fabric cascaded in graceful folds, casting mesmerizing patterns of light and shadow across the room.
But as the sands of time shifted, so too did the mechanisms of home decor. The once-ubiquitous curtain hook gradually faded into obscurity, replaced by more modern fixtures. Yet, despite its diminished role, the curtain hook remains a poignant reminder of an era characterized by meticulous attention to detail — a time when even the smallest adornments spoke volumes about a homeowner’s taste and care.
“Fell out of one of my dad’s record sleeves… dangerous roach clip or dated 70s hair accessory?”via: BroccoliBastard/reddit
In a world where technology reigns supreme and trends come and go with dizzying speed, the curtain hook stands as a steadfast symbol of simplicity and tradition. Its very existence serves as a gentle reminder that amidst the ever-changing landscape of modern living, there is always beauty to be found in the timeless elegance of the past.
So, the next time you come across a curtain hook tucked away in a forgotten corner of an antique shop or buried beneath a pile of household odds and ends, take a moment. For in that unassuming piece of metal lies not just a functional fixture, but a piece of history — a humble testament to the enduring charm of days gone by.
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