My Fiancé Humiliated Me in His Wedding Vows — He Regretted It Later
As Emily walks down the aisle, she feels as though she is finally living her wedding dream. The dress is perfect just like the venue, music, and her groom. Until it’s time for the vows when Jason completely humiliates her in front of everyone. But later, he gets a taste of his own medicine.
It was the day that I had been waiting for. After months of wedding planning and dieting to fit into my dream dress. This was the moment.
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“Come on, darling,” my father said, holding out his hand, ready to walk me down the aisle to Jason.
“How do you feel?” my father asked me, kissing my forehead.
“Happy,” I said simply. “I’ve been dreaming of this moment for years now, Dad.”
We walked down the aisle to soft music that I had chosen months ago. The guitarist perched on a wooden stool.
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“You look beautiful, Emily,” Jason said, taking my hand from my father.
The ceremony began with the priest talking about love and commitment, just as he had told us he would.
“It’s time for the vows,” the priest said, smiling at us both.
“Jason, you are my best friend, and I’ve always wanted to marry my best friend. I promise to support you, to always laugh with you, and to grow with you. I vow to be faithful and cherish every moment we have together. In this life, and the next.”
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My sister sighed next to me, wiping away her tears.
“Jason,” the priest said. “It’s now your turn.”
Jason looked at me and smiled, and then he turned to his groomsmen, causing them to snigger.
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“Emily, my love,” he said. “I promise to always be there for you, even when you’re nagging me to take out the trash because you think the house smells.”
Jason’s groomsmen chuckled.
“And I’ll always hold your hand, especially when we’re walking through spider-infested areas because we all know how much you love those eight-legged critters.”
The groomsmen laughed louder. Some of our guests joined in.
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And still, Jason continued.
“I vow to remind you to pick up your dragging feet when you walk, so we can avoid another trip to the emergency room like that time you tripped over absolutely nothing. And to taste all the burnt lasagna in the world because that’s your signature dish.”
The more Jason spoke, the more embarrassed I got.
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I frowned at him, hoping that he would understand that there was nothing beautiful or romantic about his words. But he ignored me and continued.
“Also, I will tolerate your singing in the shower. It may sound like a cat in distress but at least it makes me appreciate good music! And most importantly, Emily,” he said.
“I promise to forgive you for basically forcing me to propose to you after you left those bridal magazines all over the apartment.”
My jaw dropped.
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I didn’t know how to react. Jason’s groomsmen were all but falling over each other with laughter.
“Really?” I whispered to him.
Jason winked.
“Now, it’s time for you to exchange rings,” the priest said.
Jason’s niece came up to the altar with the wedding rings tied onto a little cushion that she clutched tightly.
“Here you go, Aunty Emily,” she said nervously.
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“Thank you, sweetheart,” I said, taking the rings from her.
Holding the rings, I realized I didn’t want to put Jason’s ring on his finger. We were married now, all but for signing the registration book.
But after hearing Jason’s vows, I didn’t know if I wanted to be with this man.
“Give me your hand,” Jason said, pulling my hand.
He slid the ring onto my finger and held his hand out for me to do the same.
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My stomach turned. Suddenly, my dream bubble had burst. Nothing felt as it had moments before.
“Jason, you may now kiss the bride!” the priest exclaimed.
Jason grabbed my waist and pulled me close to him, his other hand gripping the back of my neck. He kissed me without passion or feeling.
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“What on earth was that?” I asked Jason when we were doing our photographs before the reception.
“What do you mean?” he asked, frowning.
“Your vows,” I said. “They were insensitive and embarrassing.”
“No! They were cute!” he said. “I kept them true to us.”
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“You basically told everyone that I’m a nag and clumsy. And that I forced you into marrying me.”
I crossed my arms and waited for some kind of explanation.
“Oh, come on, Emily,” he said. “Everyone was laughing. It’s not as deep as you’re making it. Let’s just do this photoshoot and go back to the party. I am starving.”
I bit my tongue. I didn’t have it in me to fight.
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At the reception, Jason truly let himself go. He went overboard with the drinks and ate enough steak and potatoes to make anyone sick to their stomach.
“Mom,” I said, kneeling next to my mother before the formalities began. “I don’t feel good.”
“What do you mean, sweetheart?” my mother asked.
“Jason…” I said, my voice trailing as the weight of my uneasiness set in. “Those vows were nothing but an embarrassment.”
“Maybe it was just nerves, Emily,” my mother said. “You know how Jason can be sometimes.”
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“I don’t know, Mom,” I said. “I just feel like the magic has escaped.”
Soon after, the emcee got up and began the formalities. Jason’s brother stood up and spoke about how we met and his first impressions of me.
“I didn’t think Emily would stay!” Jackson laughed, his beer bottle in his hand. “But I guess she knows how to deal with my brother.”
It went on and on, and my husband ate up his brother’s words, chuckling loudly.
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Then, it was time for my father-in-law’s speech.
“Ladies and gentlemen, I have a few words to say to my son and his new bride, the lovely Emily,” he said.
I held my breath. I had always gotten along with Robert, and he had always treated me well. But I had thought the same of Jason until his vows were said.
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I didn’t know if I had to prepare myself for something from Robert, too.
If I had to be honest with myself, I just wanted to run away. I didn’t feel like a bride. I didn’t feel much like anything. I didn’t even feel like myself.
I wanted to rip off my wedding dress and get into my comfiest pair of sweatpants. I wanted to cry.
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“Jason, do you know what makes a marriage work, son?” Robert asked.
“Uh, love? Attraction? Chemistry?” Jason said, faltering.
Who on earth is this man? I wondered to myself.
“It’s respect,” Robert said, shaking his head. “It’s about cherishing your partner and never making them feel small or embarrassed. Today, you turned your vows into a series of jokes at Emily’s expense. That was not only inappropriate but also deeply hurtful.”
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I glanced around and saw some of the guests were shaking their heads.
“To teach you a lesson, Jason,” Robert continued. “I’m going to share something about you that you might find equally embarrassing.”
“What? Dad! Stop!” Jason said, standing up.
“Jason still sleeps with a nightlight. He says that it’s because he likes to read in bed, but we all know that it’s because he’s afraid of the dark.”
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Laughter erupted through the room.
“And let’s not forget about the time when Jason tried to cook for Emily and set off the fire alarm because he didn’t know that normal people don’t put metal in microwaves.”
“Dad, just stop it,” Jason hissed.
“Or about the time when he got drunk after a party, and insisted that he needed to sleep on the floor in my bedroom.”
The crowd laughed louder.
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“I shared these stories not to embarrass you, Jason. But to show you how it feels. Humor at someone else’s expense isn’t funny, it’s cruel. You need to understand the consequences of your actions.”
I smiled at Robert, finally feeling seen.
“Emily, on behalf of my son, I apologize. Jason still has a lot to learn about being a loving and respectful partner. But I know that he can do better, and I hope you give him the chance to prove it.”
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“I’m so sorry, Emily,” Jason said from beside me. “I thought I was being funny, but I see how ridiculous I was being. Give me another chance.”
“Fine,” I said. “But it’s going to take more than just empty words to fix this.”
I want to give us another chance, but something still feels very off.
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What would you do?
Five Years After My Wife’s Death, I Took My Child to My Best Friend’s Wedding – When I Saw the Bride, My Daughter Asked, ‘Daddy, Why Are You Crying?’
Five years after losing my wife, my daughter and I attended my best friend’s wedding. But my world shattered when he lifted the bride’s veil. As my daughter whispered, “Daddy, why are you crying?” the bride locked eyes with me — and in that instant, everything fell apart.
I never planned to go to that party. My buddy Mark had to drag me there, promising it would “get me out of my funk.”
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I’d been working double shifts at the construction site all week, and my body felt like concrete had replaced my muscles.
“Just one hour,” Mark said, practically shoving me through the door of some downtown apartment. “Then you can go home and be a hermit again.”
Funny how the biggest moments in life happen when you least expect them.
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The party was full of people who didn’t look like they’d ever lifted anything heavier than a martini glass. I felt out of place in my worn jeans and faded t-shirt.
But that’s when I saw Natalie.
She wasn’t supposed to be there either. I later found out she was just dropping something off for a friend.
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Our eyes locked across the room, and something clicked into place. Sparks, connection, whatever you want to call it; I knew I wanted her in my life.
“Who is that?” I asked Mark, nodding toward her.
He followed my gaze and whistled low. “Natalie. Don’t waste your time, man. Her family owns half the city.”
But I was already walking toward her.
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She smiled when I approached, and that smile hit me like a wrecking ball.
“I’m Jake,” I said, holding out my hand.
“Natalie,” she replied, her voice soft but confident. Her hand was small in mine, but her grip was firm. “You look about as comfortable here as I feel.”
We talked for hours that night.
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She wasn’t what I expected (no trust fund princess attitude, just genuine warmth and curiosity). By the end of the evening, I knew I was in trouble.
“My parents would hate you,” she said as I walked her to her car, moonlight catching in her dark hair.
“Is that a problem?” I asked.
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She looked up at me with those eyes that seemed to see right through me. “Probably. But I don’t think I care.”
Six months later, we were married. Her parents didn’t attend the wedding. They cut her off completely: no trust fund, no family vacations, nothing.
But Natalie just squeezed my hand and told me, “I don’t care about the money. I only want you.”
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For a while, it was enough.
We moved into a small two-bedroom apartment. I worked construction during the day and took night classes in architectural design. Natalie got a job at a local gallery. We were happy, or so I thought.
Then Emma was born, and something shifted.
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The warmth in Natalie’s eyes began to fade. She started comparing our life to the one she’d left behind.
“My college roommate just bought a vacation home in the Hamptons,” she mentioned one night as we ate macaroni and cheese at our tiny kitchen table. Emma was asleep in her crib beside us.
“That’s nice,” I said, not looking up from the blueprints I was studying.
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“She invited us to visit. I had to tell her we couldn’t afford the trip.”
I felt the sting of her words. “We’re doing okay, Nat. Things will get better.”
“When?” she asked, her voice sharp. “When Emma’s in college? When we’re retired? I’m tired of waiting for ‘better,’ Jake.”
Our arguments became more frequent.
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She hated budgeting and despised our humble life.
“This isn’t what I signed up for,” she’d say.
As if I’d somehow tricked her. As if love was supposed to pay the bills.
“You knew who I was when you married me,” I reminded her during one particularly brutal fight.
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“Maybe that was the problem,” she said coldly. “I thought you’d be more by now.”
The next day, I came home from work early, planning to surprise her with flowers. The apartment was quiet.
Natalie’s suitcase and all her things were gone.
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In the crib, I found a note:
“I want a divorce. I’m sorry, but our marriage was a mistake. I left Emma with Mrs. Santiago down the hall. You can keep her.”
I called her phone a hundred times. No answer. I drove to her parents’ mansion, desperate and wild-eyed.
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The security guard wouldn’t let me through the gate.
“You’re not welcome here, sir,” he told me, looking almost sorry.
“Please, I just need to talk to Natalie,” I begged.
“Sir, I need you to leave the premises.”
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Two days later, I was served with divorce papers. Natalie had signed away her parental rights to Emma.
Her father’s lawyers handled everything with brutal efficiency.
Then came the final blow.
Six months after she left, I called her parents’ house one last time.
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“She’s gone,” her mother said, her voice flat. “Natalie died in a car accident. Don’t call again. You meant nothing to her.”
The line went dead.
I collapsed on our kitchen floor, sobbing until Emma woke up crying too.
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They wouldn’t even let me see her grave. She was erased from my life as if she had never existed.
I threw myself into work and raising Emma. I finished my degree and started designing homes instead of just building them. People noticed my talent.
Within three years, I was running my own firm. Emma grew into a smart, happy little girl who looked just like her mother.
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Five years passed. Life went on and the pain dulled to an occasional ache.
Then the invitation arrived.
Stefan, my best friend from a few years ago, was getting married. We’d struggled to keep in touch after he joined the military, but now he wanted me at his wedding.
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“What do you think, Em? Should we go see Uncle Stefan get married?” I asked my daughter as she colored.
“Will there be cake?” she asked seriously.
I laughed. “There will definitely be cake. A big, fancy one.”
“Then we should go,” she decided, returning to her masterpiece.
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The wedding was at a seaside resort, all white flowers and ocean breezes. Stefan hugged me tight when we arrived.
“Man, look at you! All grown up and successful,” he said, punching my arm lightly. “And this beautiful young lady must be Emma.”
Emma smiled shyly.
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The ceremony was beautiful.
Guests filled the white chairs on the beach. Emma sat beside me, swinging her feet and playing with the flower I’d tucked into her hair.
The music started, and everyone stood.
The bride walked down the aisle with her face veiled.
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Then came the moment.
Stefan beamed as she approached. When she reached him, he gently lifted her veil.
I stopped breathing. Tears streamed down my face before I realized I was crying.
Emma looked up, confused. “Daddy, why are you crying?”
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I was frozen, staring at a ghost of my dead ex-wife in a white wedding dress.
Natalie turned to smile at the guests, but her eyes went wide in shock when she saw me standing there with our daughter.
Then she bolted.
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Stefan called after her, bewildered, but she was already gone. I stood, legs shaking.
“Stay with Aunt Linda,” I told Emma, guiding her toward Stefan’s sister before following Natalie.
I found her in a corridor, trembling, pale, clinging to her wedding dress.
“You’re dead,” I whispered, my voice cracking. “They told me you were dead.”
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She stammered, “I-I didn’t know they told you that.”
I laughed, hollow. “I begged them to let me see your grave. I spent years grieving you, Natalie.”
Tears pooled in her eyes. “I just wanted a way out… to start fresh. My father arranged everything.”
Fury rose in me.
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“You let me mourn you. I had to tell our daughter her mother was dead! It was one thing to sign away your parental rights, but this? What the hell?”
Natalie flinched. “I thought she’d be better off without me.”
Stefan appeared, looking tense and confused. “What’s going on? Why did my fiancée just run out of our wedding? And why are you two fighting?”
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I turned to him. “Because five years ago, she left me and our daughter. And then her family told me she was dead.”
“What?” Stefan’s face drained of color.
“Her father had lawyers cut all ties. Then they told me she died in a car accident. I mourned her. And now I find her at the altar, marrying my best friend.”
Stefan confronted Natalie. “Tell me you didn’t fake your death.”
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She couldn’t deny it.
“Oh my God, Natalie,” Stefan whispered, broken.
Stefan walked away, face pale, fists clenched. The wedding was called off. Natalie’s parents appeared from nowhere and whisked her away.
They didn’t say a word to me. But I didn’t follow. Not this time.
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Two weeks later, Stefan and I met for drinks.
“She fooled everyone,” he said bitterly, staring into his glass. “Her parents introduced us at some charity event last year. She never mentioned being married before or having a child.”
I nodded, but strangely, I felt at peace. “You couldn’t have known.”
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“Are you okay?” Stefan asked.
I considered the question. “Yeah, I think I am. For years, I wondered what I did wrong and why she left. Now I know it wasn’t about me at all.”
I realized I wasn’t broken anymore. I had my daughter and my successful career now.
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I had built a life despite the wreckage she had left behind. And for the first time in five years, I felt truly, completely free.
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