Devastated parents forced to pull the plug on their 13-year-old daughter after sleepover horror. They’ve now issued a warning to spare others from the same tragedy.
When Esra Haynes died, she was just 13 years old, and the reason for her tragic death is bizarre.
This young girl who was referred to as “determined, fun, cheeky and talented” by the Montrose Football Netball Club that she co-captained, got caught in a viral craze called chrominghttps://comsoftvn.com/in-order-to-pick…a-tiny-stray-dog/, which involves inhaling toxic chemicals through the mouth or nose to get high.
Esra was an athlete and lead a healthy life, racing BMX bikes with her brothers, and leading her team to a national aerobics’ championship in Queensland. But all that was taken away from her after a wrong decision she made on March 31 during a sleepover at a friend’s house.
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As she wanted to be part of the viral trend, Esra inhaled a toxic amount of aerosol deodorant and went into cardiac arrest, sustaining irreparable brain damage.
Her parents were devastated. Appearing on A Current Affair with host Ally Langdon, they spoke of the heartbreak and the fatal consequences of inhaling toxic chemicals in an attempt to prevent something similar from happening to other naive young people.
“It was just the regular routine of going to hang out with her mates,” her mom Andrea, told Langdon in the interview. Her father Paul added, “We always knew where she was and we knew who she was with.
It wasn’t anything out of the ordinary…To get this phone call at that time of night, (it) was one of the calls no parent ever wants to have to receive, and we unfortunately got that call: ‘Come and get your daughter.’”
Initially, her friends weren’t aware how serious Esra’s condition was. They only thought she was having a panic attack, not aware that their friends was dying right in front of their eyes. “But after inhaling deodorant, her body was actually starting to shut down, she was in cardiac arrest and no one at the sleepover used cardiac arrest,” Langdon explained.
When her mom arrived by Esra’s side, paramedics were trying to revive her and told Andrea that her daughter had been chroming, a word that the scared mother heard for the first time ever.
Esra was transferred to the hospital and was placed on life support, but just eight hours later, the parents were told that her brain was damaged beyond repair and that needed to make a decision to turn the life support off.
Knowing there was nothing that could be done, Andrea and Paul called relatives and family members to say their final goodbyes. “It was a very, very difficult thing to do to such a young soul. She was put onto a bed so we could lay with her. We cuddled her until the end.”
Esra’s siblings, Imogen, Seth and Charlie are have been shattered ever since their sister is gone.
“It was really devastating, devastating for everyone involved, all her friends as well,” Paul said. “It’s been the most difficult, traumatic time any parent could go through. We haven’t been sleeping, we’ve hardly been eating, we haven’t been smiling–we’re not ourselves…But it’s not just affected us, it’s the community as well.”
Following Esra’s passing, Andrea and Paul are doing all in their power to put an end to the crazy viral craze that took their daughter’s life.
Speaking to 7 News, Paul said he wished he knew of chroming when Esra was still alive, so he could have warned her of the dangers: “If we were educated and the word had been put out there, we would have had the discussion around our kitchen table for sure.
“We need to ramp it up and let these kids find out the information first-hand, and not through friends, and not through social media–then they’re given the right advice off the bat.”
Esra isn’t the first victim of chroming. Over the years, a number of young people lost their lives from the consequences of it as it can easily lead to seizures, heart attack, suffocation, sudden sniffing death, coma, and organ failure.
“We’ve got the pictures in our mind which will never be erased, you know, of what we were confronted with,” Paul told Langdon. “Our gut was ripped out.”
We are so very sorry for this family’s loss and we wish no parent ever experiences such heartbreak.
Man Gives Salary to Woman with Child Asking for Money for a Ticket — Next Day, a Large White Limousine Pulls up to His House
When an average hard-working man came across a woman begging with her child, he didn’t imagine their paths crossing for a reason. After she asked him for money, he gave everything he had, ensuring her safe return home. But what happened afterward left him shocked!
On a chilly November evening, Greg, a rugged construction worker with flecks of gray in his beard, left his site and headed toward the train station. Little did he know that one interaction at the station was about to change his life forever.
Greg at the train station | Source: Midjourney
At 40, the exhausted man had weathered enough in life to recognize hardship when he saw it, yet he rarely extended himself beyond polite sympathy. He had a wife, Diana, a 15-year-old daughter, Jamie, and a 12-year-old son, Alex, waiting for him at home, and each day he worked hard to save for their future.
That day, however, something unusual caught his eye.
As he moved through the station’s bustling crowd, a woman holding a baby stood by the exit, her figure partially shadowed in the cold evening light. She looked out of place, well-dressed yet worn and out of season, as if she hadn’t planned to spend her day there.
Lilly and Matthew standing at the train station | Source: Midjourney
Her hands trembled as she clutched the baby close. Greg paused and observed her, debating whether he should stop. When the weary-looking woman finally met his gaze, her face lit up with a brief glimmer of hope.
“Excuse me, sir?” Her voice was shaky, carrying a kind of desperation that was hard to ignore. “Could you PLEASE lend me some money for a ticket? I have money at home; I just need to get there.”
Lilly begging while standing with Matthew at the train station | Source: Midjourney
Greg didn’t respond immediately. The weight of his paycheck, freshly cashed and tucked safely in his coat pocket, felt heavier than usual. He’d seen people down on their luck in the city before, and too often he’d steeled himself against their requests.
Yet there was something genuine and different in her tone and in the way she held the neatly bundled child, who looked no older than three. With a sigh, Greg decided to do something he rarely did: he stepped forward.
Greg talking to someone | Source: Midjourney
“Alright. Let’s start by getting you two something to eat,” he said, surprised at his own words. Her face flooded with relief, and she nodded. Against his better judgment, Greg decided to help.
They made their way to a small café nearby.
“Order whatever you’d like,” Greg offered. “Don’t worry about it.”
The woman gave him a grateful look. “Thank you, really. My name’s Lily, and this is my son, Matthew.”
Greg smiled. “Nice to meet you both. I’m Greg.” He signaled to the waiter, placing orders for himself, Lily, and her son, even though he wasn’t particularly hungry.
A waitress standing to the side after taking Greg’s food order | Source: Midjourney
Lily and Matthew dug into their meals with a hunger that belied their outward appearance. But Lily wasn’t stuffing her mouth; she ate in an elegant, yet hungry, manner, revealing how she hadn’t had anything to eat for a while.
While they ate, Greg tried to strike up a conversation. “So, where are you headed?”
Lily hesitated, glancing at her son, who was happily finishing the whipped cream and fruit from a bowl.
“Home, hopefully. It’s been…a difficult time.” She struggled with her words, her gaze dropping to her hands.
Lily and Greg talking | Source: Midjourney
“I don’t have my phone or wallet. I didn’t mean to end up here, stranded. My plan fell apart, and suddenly, I had nothing.”
Greg nodded. “Sounds rough. Are you sure you’ll be alright once you get home?”
She looked up, her eyes wet with gratitude. “Yes. Thank you. You don’t know how much this means to me.”
Without thinking twice, in a moment of generosity, Greg pulled out the envelope containing his paycheck. Something told him this woman needed it more than he did at that moment.
Greg holding out an envelope | Source: Midjourney
“Here,” he said, pressing the envelope that had his home address and his entire check into her hands. “Take this; it’s part of the money I’ve been saving up for my children’s education, but I can see that you and Matthew need it more right now. Get home safely, and don’t worry about paying it back.”
Lily’s eyes widened as she realized the magnitude of his gift. “I…I can’t accept this. You don’t even know me.”
As if he was having an out-of-body experience, Greg watched as he waved off her concerns.
“Just get home safe. It’s the right thing to do.”
Greg talking to someone | Source: Midjourney
Before he could change his mind, Lily hugged him and whispered a heartfelt “Thank you,” with tears brimming in her eyes. She got up and hurried off with her son, disappearing into the city night crowd before he could even respond.
Greg returned home to Diana’s raised eyebrows and Jamie’s curiosity as she and Alex gathered around the dinner table. As he explained what happened, his wife’s face shifted from confusion to shock to worry.
Diana looking shocked while sitting at the dinner table | Source: Midjourney
“You gave away our savings? Greg, we needed that money for the kids,” she said, her voice tight with anxiety.
He rubbed his temples. “I know it sounds crazy, but it just felt right. She seemed…genuine.”
Diana sighed, clearly not convinced, but she let it go, the tension lingering between them through dinner. That night, he lay in bed, staring at the ceiling, wondering if he’d made a terrible mistake as he pondered his children’s futures.
But he wasn’t aware that his connection to Lily wasn’t over yet.
Greg worried and lying awake | Source: Midjourney
The next day, life resumed its regular rhythm. Greg went to work, keeping his head down as he poured all his energy into the job. By the time he arrived home, exhaustion weighed on him. Just as he and Diana sat down to a quiet lunch, a commotion outside drew their attention.
His wife peeked through the window, her mouth dropping open.
“Greg, you might want to see this.”
He joined her at the window, his jaw dropping as he took in the sight of a gleaming, huge white limousine parked in front of their modest house.
A white limousine parked outside Greg’s house | Source: Midjourney
The door opened, and a man in a sharp black suit stepped out, his demeanor calm but professional. They watched as he walked to their door and knocked. Greg opened the door cautiously, uncertain of what to expect.
“Uh, can I help you?”
The man offered a polite smile. “Hello, sir. Are you Greg?”
Greg nodded, still confused.
“I’m here on behalf of Ms. Lily. I believe you helped her yesterday at the train station.”
A man in a suit holding a briefcase | Source: Midjourney
A mixture of relief and confusion washed over Greg’s face.
“Lily? She’s…she’s okay?”
The man nodded.
“Yes, she’s more than alright, thanks to your kindness. She is actually a notable figure in this town, a celebrity of sorts, though she’s recently fallen on hard times.”
“Wait,” Diana interrupted, joining Greg at the door. “She’s a celebrity? But why was she stranded? And you know she took our money right?”
Diana upset | Source: Midjourney
The man paused, choosing his words carefully.
“Lily was once a successful businesswoman, and she built her career from the ground up. But, a series of unfortunate events, legal issues, a lost inheritance, and a string of failed investments, left her nearly penniless.”
He continued, “She was traveling incognito, hoping to find a fresh start by signing a new business deal with an associate, but things went wrong during their meeting.”
A man explaining Lily’s circumstances | Source: Midjourney
“The unscrupulous business associate tried to twist her arm in the deal, and they ended up having a fallout. Ms. Lily left abruptly in anger, leaving behind her handbag with all her important cards, phone, and possessions,” the man from the limousine explained.
“She hasn’t been herself for the past few years and must’ve walked for a while with Matthew before realizing that she didn’t know where she was. By that point, it was already too late; she found herself stranded without a cent. She wandered the streets for days looking for help.”
Lily stranded with Matthew | Source: Midjourney
Greg exchanged a stunned look with Diana, not sure whether to believe what they’d heard or not.
“I had no idea. She looked…just like anyone else down on their luck.”
“That’s precisely it,” the man continued. “She didn’t want to be recognized or treated differently. But your generosity struck a chord with her.”
The man reached into his briefcase and pulled out an envelope, handing it to Greg.
A man holding an envelope | Source: Midjourney
“Ms. Lily has set up a scholarship fund for your children. Your children’s education is fully funded, and there’s a little extra to help you in other ways as well.”
Greg’s hands trembled as he took the envelope, peering at the contents inside. Diana let out a gasp, covering her mouth, as she looked over his shoulder. Their years of worry and careful budgeting seemed to evaporate in an instant, replaced by a quiet sense of relief.
“Why…why would she do this?” Greg asked, still trying to wrap his head around the surreal turn of events.
Greg shocked while holding an envelope | Source: Midjourney
The man smiled, his voice gentle.
“Because sometimes, a small act of kindness is worth more than all the wealth in the world. She wanted you to know that your compassion saved her life, and now she hopes to change yours.”
Greg’s throat felt tight as he struggled to respond. “I just…I didn’t expect anything in return. I just wanted to help.”
The man extended his hand in a parting gesture.
“That’s exactly why she wanted to give back. Sometimes the universe has a way of rewarding those who give selflessly.”
A man smiling while walking out | Source: Midjourney
As the limousine pulled away, Diana wrapped her arms around Greg, their hearts full of gratitude and amazement. His act of kindness had blossomed into a future brighter than they’d ever imagined.
Greg turned to his wife, his voice barely above a whisper.
“I guess you really never know how much good a little kindness can do.”
Diana nodded, tears glistening in her eyes.
“And sometimes, it finds its way back to you tenfold.”
Greg and Diana looking happy | Source: Midjourney
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