‘She’s on My Maintenance, I’ll Kick Her Out If She’s Not Obedient,’ My Husband Said About Me during His Celebration

When Abby loses her job, she seeks comfort in her husband, Gregor, to keep them afloat until she finds another. But while Abby assumes that Gregor will be supportive, she finds out how he really feels when they celebrate his birthday surrounded by their closest people…

I’m not usually one to share my life online, but after what happened recently, I figured my story should be shared. Let me tell you all about the time my husband tried to humiliate me in front of his friends and how I turned the tables on him in the most satisfying way.

A pensive woman in her forties | Source: Midjourney

A pensive woman in her forties | Source: Midjourney

I met Gregor when I was in my forties. I wasn’t looking for anything serious, and the marriage dream had died a long time ago for me.

“Come on, Abby,” my mother said. “It’s never too late to find someone. Don’t you just want to be married and settle down?”

I shook my head.

In reality, I did want that, but after a toxic relationship in my thirties, I was done thinking about it all. I didn’t want that anymore.

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A couple arguing | Source: Midjourney

But then, I met Gregor and we hit it off right away. He was charming, thoughtful, and genuinely seemed to care about me.

“I’ve waited my entire life for you, Abby,” Gregor said when he showed up at my house with a bouquet of roses and an engagement ring tucked away in his palm.

Our first year of marriage felt like one long honeymoon. We traveled together, laughed together non-stop, and truly enjoyed each other’s company.

A man holding a bouquet of roses | Source: Midjourney

A man holding a bouquet of roses | Source: Midjourney

It seemed that we just belonged together.

Gregor was successful in his career, working as an executive at a well-known firm, while I was also doing well in my own career. I worked for a marketing company and I really loved my job.

Life was good, and I felt like I had it all.

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A smiling couple in their forties | Source: Midjourney

“I told you, Abby,” my mother said one day when I went to visit her with ingredients to make dumplings.

“I know,” I chuckled. “I should have listened. But I’m happy now, and I think I finally got it right.”

“It’s all going to be fine,” my mother said. “As long as you’re happy.”

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A plate of dumplings | Source: Midjourney

But then life threw a curveball.

The company I worked for went bankrupt, and just like that, I was out of a job.

It was a blow, not just financially, but also to my confidence. I was good at my job, but there was just something about being unable to do it that made me feel like I wasn’t good enough.

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A close up of an upset woman | Source: Midjourney

“It’s going to be okay,” I told myself as I sat at my desk for the last time. We had all been called in to pack up our belongings and just say goodbye.

But deep down, I knew that although I prided myself on my independence and hated the idea of being reliant on anyone, Gregor was still there.

When I broke the news to Gregor, he seemed supportive at first. But it didn’t take long for his true feelings to surface.

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An upset woman sitting at a desk | Source: Midjourney

“What? Now, I’m going to be the breadwinner at home? The only breadwinner?” he asked with a hint of annoyance in his voice.

“It’s just for now,” I said. “I’m going to start the job hunt as soon as possible. But until I get back onto my feet, it’s going to be you running the home. Okay?”

“Well, it’s not like I have a choice, right?” he said, rolling his eyes.

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A grumpy man | Source: Midjourney

“It’s not for long,” I promised. “Just give me a few weeks and I’ll have another job ready to go.”

I had to admit, I was taken aback by his reaction, but understood his concern. I quickly started job hunting, determined to find something else.

I sat down at my laptop and stared at the screen until the words blurred.

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A woman using her laptop | Source: Midjourney

“Come on, Abby,” I told myself. “You need to find something. You just need the world to give you a break, that’s all.”

While I was searching, I took a temporary job as a cleaner in a nearby restaurant. It wasn’t glamorous, but it was honest work, and it helped keep us afloat.

“At least your boss is happy to give us food,” Gregor said one evening as I unwrapped leftover steak and veggies from the restaurant.

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A woman holding a mop | Source: Midjourney

“Yes, the manager would rather have food sent home for our families to enjoy rather than just throw it out,” I said, cutting my steak.

“It’s good food,” Gregor said. “But at the same time, it’s not a good job for you. Our family and friends are used to seeing you with your nails and hair done, wearing high heels and fancy outfits. Not black slacks and an apron, Abby.”

A plate of steak and veggies | Source: Midjourney

A plate of steak and veggies | Source: Midjourney

“I know that,” I said. “But it’s not like I’ve settled for the job. I’m still actively looking for another job. This is to keep us going until then.”

Gregor grunted and continued to eat.

For a moment, I had no idea who my husband was. But this man wasn’t the one that I had married.

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A man eating | Source: Midjourney

Fast forward a few months to Gregor’s 45th birthday.

My husband decided to throw himself a big bash at an expensive restaurant and invited all his friends, family, and colleagues.

“So, he can complain about looking after his wife, but he’s fine with spoiling everyone else for his birthday?” my mother tutted on the phone.

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An older woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“I don’t know what else to tell you, Mom,” I said. “It’s just how he is. But I’m looking forward to this. It’s my first weekend off in a while and I just want to unwind and have fun.”

“I know, darling,” she said.

Admittedly, I was excited for the night, thinking it would be a chance for us to relax and just spend time together outside of our home.

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A smiling woman on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“Happy birthday, my love,” I said to Gregor when we got to the restaurant.

I had called ahead and asked for them to set up black and silver balloons around the table Gregor had reserved.

The night started off well, with good food, laughter, and drinks flowing freely. As the evening went on, tipsy people began to make toasts.

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A table with food and drinks at a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

First, was Gregor’s sister, Natalia.

“You’re lucky to have Abby in your life, brother,” she said, holding two glasses of champagne. “She’s the best thing that’s ever happened to you.”

I felt touched by her words and smiled, feeling appreciated.

Gregor’s friend, Tim, went next, talking about the joys of having Gregor in the office next door.

A woman holding two glasses of champagne | Source: Midjourney

A woman holding two glasses of champagne | Source: Midjourney

Finally, it was Gregor’s turn to speak.

He stood up, his glass of champagne in hand, and began laughing before he even said a word.

“Oh, I know I’m lucky, Nat,” he said. “But let’s be real, Abby is lucky too! She’s basically my dependent now. I’d have kicked her out a long time ago if she wasn’t so obedient. It’s just a pity I invested all that money in her over the years.”

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A man standing and giving a speech | Source: Midjourney

Gregor hiccupped and reached for a piece of shrimp from his plate.

The table fell silent, and my insides twisted more than they ever had. Embarrassed wasn’t enough to describe how I felt.

He was laughing, expecting everyone else to join in. Some people chuckled awkwardly, not knowing what to do, but most people looked around uncomfortably.

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A plate of fried shrimp | Source: Midjourney

Gregor took another piece of shrimp before he dissolved into laughter for a while.

“Come on guys, that was a killer joke!” he bellowed in between laughing.

But then, as I sat there, something clicked inside me.

I decided I wasn’t going to let him get away with this behavior. This was toxic behavior.

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A man laughing | Source: Midjourney

I wasn’t going to allow that back into my life.

Calmly, I stood up and took a deep breath.

“Well, Gregor,” I said. “It seems like you’re forgetting a few things. But let me remind you and everyone else about some investments I’ve made.”

All eyes were on me as I spoke, and Gregor’s smug smile slowly faded away.

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An expressionless woman | Source: Midjourney

“You see,” I started. “While you’ve been investing in me, you’ve also been busy investing. The money you used to fund this luxurious celebration didn’t come from your account.”

Gasps erupted around the room.

“I saw the notification,” I said. “You took it from my savings fund. You don’t believe me? I can pull up the statement on my phone right now…”

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A woman holding her phone | Source: Midjourney

“No…” Gregor said.

“I was willing to overlook this because we were a team, but it seems that we’re not. I know that you only took out the money to reserve this place, and that the rest of the bill needs to be paid when we leave here. Correct?”

Gregor nodded slowly.

“Correct,” he muttered.

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A close up of a man | Source: Midjourney

“And I have the money with me, right in my purse,” I said. “I wanted you to have a good birthday, and I didn’t want you to pay for your own birthday dinner.”

I looked around the table, seeing the realization dawn on everyone’s faces.

“But do you know what? I think I’ll just keep it, along with my dignity.”

With that, I calmly walked off the stage and out of the restaurant.

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A woman walking away on the pavement | Source: Midjourney

I don’t know how Gregor paid for the dinner, but I didn’t care. Instead, I went home and packed as much of my clothes as my car would allow, and I drove to my mother’s place.

I wasn’t going to stay in a toxic relationship again.

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A close up of a woman | Source: Midjourney

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My Downstairs Neighbor Asked Me to Be Quieter at Night, but I Have Not Been Home for the past Week

When Piper returns from a trip with her friends, she cannot wait to get home to her husband. But as she unpacks her car, a neighbor approaches her, complaining about the noise from her apartment. If Piper wasn’t home, who was Matthew entertaining in her absence?

I had just returned from a blissful week-long camping trip with my friends. It was all about us taking time away from our lives and enjoying being away from the city.

My husband, Matthew, had stayed behind, claiming that he needed to stay at home.

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A woman sitting outside and looking at the view | Source: Midjourney

“I have to be home, Piper,” he said when I was packing my bags. “It’s just work responsibilities. There are meetings and presentations coming up.”

“Are you sure?” I asked him. “Why don’t you come along, and then we can find you a place to work in between it all?”

Matthew smiled at me and sat down on the bed.

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A woman sitting on a suitcase | Source: Midjourney

“It’s okay, sweetheart,” he said. “You go and join the others and have fun. You need some time away from this place.”

He continued to persuade me to go on the trip, and eventually, I gave in.

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A smiling man | Source: Midjourney

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

My MIL Shamed Me in Front of the Whole Family for ‘Not Bringing Enough’ to Her Birthday Party—After I Cooked the Entire Meal

When my MIL turned 60, she threw a classy family dinner and sent out dish assignments. I was told to make five gourmet dishes from scratch. I cooked all day… only to be publicly shamed during the toast. Little did she know, I had something in my purse that would cut her down to size.

I knew I was in trouble when the “dish assignment” text came through. It was longer than my wedding vows, formatted with bullet points and everything.

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A woman holding a cell phone | Source: Pexels

My mother-in-law was turning 60, a milestone she’d decided to celebrate with what she called a “classy family dinner party.”

She’d already declared it would be a formal, themed event with all the cooking done “with love by the family.”

Which sounded fair enough. Nobody should have to cook for their own birthday party, but I understood there was more to what Sandra was saying.

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A thoughtful woman | Source: Midjourney

In Sandra-speak, that meant we would do all the work and she’d take all the credit. Just like last Thanksgiving, when my SIL complimented the sweet potato casserole I made, and Sandra replied, “Thank you! It did turn out well, didn’t it?”

She may not have overtly claimed the credit, but Sandra was a master of speaking in implications.

I scrolled through the text, seeing the usual pattern.

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A woman using her phone | Source: Pexels

Sandra had told both her daughters to bring wine. Her niece was expected to bring bread rolls, and her son, my husband, just had to bring his appetite.

My assignment was right at the bottom.

“Mandy, you’ll bring a three-layer veggie lasagna (with homemade pasta sheets)

Quinoa & beet salad with goat cheese

Two dozen falafel with dipping sauces

Lemon-blueberry bundt cake

Caprese skewers with fresh pesto drizzle.”

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A woman staring at her phone in shock | Source: Midjourney

And then, the kicker: “Everything MUST be made from scratch. No shortcuts!” In bold. As if I’d consider using store-bought pesto for Her Royal Highness’s birthday dinner.

I walked over to my husband, who was sprawled on the couch watching basketball.

“Is this a joke?” I asked, waving my phone at him.

He glanced up briefly. “What?”

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A man looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

I thrust the phone closer. “This list from your mother. She expects me to make five dishes from scratch for her birthday. Five! Your sisters are just bringing wine.”

He shrugged and turned back to the game. “It’s her birthday, babe.”

“That’s all you have to say?” I could feel my blood pressure rising. “Do you know how much work this is?”

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An annoyed woman with her head in her hands | Source: Midjourney

“Mom always gives you the complicated stuff because you’re the best cook,” he said, like that was supposed to be a compliment.

“And that doesn’t strike you as unfair? At all?”

Another shrug. “That’s just how she is.”

His apathy said everything.

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A man smiling apologetically | Source: Midjourney

This was normal to him. I cooked, everyone ate, and Sandra claimed all the praise. The cycle continued, and I was expected to just… go with it.

So I did. For two days before the party, I cooked, boiled, chopped, sautéed, and baked.

As I whisked the goat cheese dressing, I kept thinking about Thanksgiving and that sweet potato casserole.

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A whisk beside a bowl of dressing | Source: Pexels

Having Sandra steal credit for a single dish was one thing, but I was practically catering her party for free.

She wouldn’t dare pull that stunt this time, would she?

By the time I finished, our kitchen looked like a cooking show had exploded in it. Every surface was covered in flour, beet juice, or olive oil.

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Spilled flour around a pasta maker | Source: Pexels

But the food? The food looked amazing. I carefully packed each dish in containers, labeling them with heating instructions. I was exhausted but proud.

“Did you have to make the pasta from scratch?” my husband asked, surveying the kitchen disaster.

“Your mother specified ‘no shortcuts,’” I replied.

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A woman looking over her shoulder while speaking | Source: Midjourney

“You went all out,” he said, lifting the lid on the bundt cake. “Mom will be impressed.”

I didn’t respond. After six years, I knew better.

The night of the dinner, I arrived early with my husband, arms loaded with food containers. Sandra greeted us at the door in a stylish outfit, looking like she’d stepped out of a retirement commercial.

A haughty, well-dressed woman | Source: Midjourney

A haughty, well-dressed woman | Source: Midjourney

“There you are,” she said, giving me her signature air kiss somewhere near my cheek. She barely glanced at the stacked containers in my arms. “Just put those in the kitchen.”

“There are heating instructions on each one,” I told her, balancing the tower of food. “The lasagna needs about 40 minutes at 350 degrees.”

“Yes, yes,” she said, already turning away.

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A woman gesturing dismissively | Source: Midjourney

In the kitchen, I carefully arranged my offerings, making sure everything looked perfect. I had even brought garnishes in separate containers to add just before serving.

The house gradually filled with family members.

Glasses clinked, conversations flowed, and eventually, Sandra announced it was time to eat. My sisters-in-law helped me carry the dishes to the dining room, where an elaborate buffet was set up.

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Dishes arranged on a table buffet-style | Source: Pexels

“Wow, who made the lasagna?” Sandra’s sister asked, loading her plate.

“This falafel is incredible,” someone else called out.

From across the room, I heard Sandra’s voice, clear as day: “Oh thank you! My girls did such an amazing job this year.”

I froze, fork halfway to my mouth.

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A portion of lasagna on a plate | Source: Pexels

I watched as Sandra beamed, gesturing toward her daughters. They looked confused but smiled politely.

“Are you kidding me?” I whispered to my husband. “That’s my food.”

Jeff swallowed and shot me an awkward glance. “Well, she didn’t say it wasn’t…”

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A man smiling apologetically at a dinner table | Source: Midjourney

“She didn’t say it was either,” I shot back.

“Should I say something?”

There was a pleading look in his eyes that told me he was hoping I wouldn’t say “yes.”

“It’s okay,” I said quietly. “Let’s just see what happens.”

I didn’t need Jeff to stand up for me because I’d come prepared.

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A woman with a confident smile | Source: Midjourney

What happened was Sandra didn’t mention me once. Not when guests raved about the bundt cake. Not when her brother-in-law went back for thirds of the falafel. Not even when her husband commented on how good the lasagna was.

Then came the toast.

Sandra tapped her glass with a spoon and rose from her chair like she was accepting an Oscar.

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A woman holding a wine glass | Source: Pexels

“I want to thank everyone who helped make this evening so special,” she began, her voice carrying across the room. “Well, most of you.”

Laughter rippled through the crowd.

She raised her glass higher. “Some went above and beyond. Others just showed up.”

And then she looked right at me. In front of 20 family members. And smirked.

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A woman at a dinner table smirking at someone | Source: Midjourney

That smirk was the final straw. Six decades of perfecting the art of the subtle insult had culminated in this moment — a perfectly crafted barb wrapped in a birthday toast.

I’d hoped for better, but as they say, “hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.”

I reached into my bag and pulled out an envelope I had brought just in case of a moment like this.

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A handbag on the floor near a woman’s feet | Source: Pexels

“Actually, Sandra,” I said, standing up calmly, “I’m so glad you mentioned that.”

The room went quiet. All eyes turned to me.

“Since you were keeping track of who contributed what,” I continued, pulling out my stack of grocery receipts, “I figured we could split the cost of the $263.48 I spent making the dishes you assigned me.”

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A woman holding up a receipt | Source: Pexels

I smiled sweetly. “I’ll accept Venmo, Zelle, PayPal, or cash. Whichever works for you.”

A cousin choked on her wine. My husband’s younger sister giggled into her napkin. Even Sandra’s husband mumbled, “Well… fair’s fair.”

Sandra blinked rapidly, and seeing her caught off-guard like that made all those hours spent cooking worth it.

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A shocked woman | Source: Midjourney

“I… I need to check on the candles for the cake,” she muttered, before fleeing to the kitchen.

My husband squeezed my hand under the table. “That was amazing,” he whispered.

“Was it too much?” I asked, suddenly worried.

“No,” he said firmly. “It was exactly enough.”

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A man looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

Sandra returned, eventually, and the evening continued. She never mentioned the receipts. She never apologized. She never even looked me in the eye again that night.

I didn’t say anything else either. I didn’t need to. The room had heard it.

The next day, my sister-in-law called.

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A cell phone | Source: Pexels

“You’re a legend now,” she laughed. “Mom was on the phone with Aunt Carla for an hour complaining about how you embarrassed her.”

“I didn’t mean to embarrass her,” I said, though part of me knew that wasn’t entirely true.

“Well, you did. And it was about time someone did,” she replied. “Aunt Carla agreed with you, by the way. So did Dad.”

In the weeks that followed, the story spread through the family.

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Two women speaking while crossing a street | Source: Pexels

It became known as “The Receipt Incident.” Anytime a family dinner got planned, someone would joke, “Better bring your receipts, or Sandra might think you just showed up.”

She hasn’t assigned me a single dish since. Not one. At Thanksgiving, she called and specifically told me not to bring anything. At Christmas, she hired a caterer.

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A table decorated for Christmas dinner | Source: Pexels

Which is totally fine by me.

Because now I bring the one thing Sandra wasn’t ready for: boundaries, served cold.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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