Some things in life are just universal among women, and one of them is sheer, unwavering stubbornness—especially when it comes to everyday habits, beauty routines, and personal quirks. If you’re a girl, you’ll instantly relate to these little signs of determination that seem to be built into your DNA. And yes, if you’ve ever used a lipstick down to the very last possible swipe (like the image above suggests), then you definitely know what we’re talking about!
The Lipstick That Refuses to Die
Let’s start with the most iconic form of stubbornness: refusing to throw away a lipstick, no matter how tiny it gets. That little plastic casing at the bottom? Yeah, there’s still product in there, and you will dig it out with your fingernail, a brush, or even a bobby pin before declaring it finished. Why? Because every last bit of that shade is precious.
Men might not understand, but every girl knows that finding the perfect lipstick color is rare. Once you find the one, there’s no way you’re letting a single speck go to waste.
Wearing Heels Even When It Feels Like Foot Torture
Blisters? Sore arches? Toes screaming in agony? None of it matters when those heels make your outfit look 🔥. Every girl has had at least one night where she’s powered through the pain because she refused to let discomfort win. The stubbornness to “make it work” leads to countless nights of wobbling, carrying flats in a purse just in case, and even using band-aids as a desperate attempt to keep going.
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And let’s be honest—when someone asks, “Are you okay?” while you’re limping, the automatic response is always, “I’m fine.”
Holding On to That One Bra That Has Seen Better Days
You know the one—the straps are barely hanging on, the underwire is poking through (but somehow, it doesn’t hurt that much), and it has stretched out beyond recognition. Yet, it’s the comfiest bra you own, and you refuse to part with it.
Sure, you have newer, fancier ones sitting in your drawer, but nothing feels quite as right as this well-worn, slightly battle-scarred piece of lingerie.
Convincing Yourself You Can Carry Everything in One Trip
Why make two trips when you can nearly break your arms trying to carry it all at once? Whether it’s bringing in grocery bags, carrying a pile of laundry, or juggling way too many shopping bags, there’s something about making one epic trip that feels like a personal achievement.
Does it matter if your fingers are turning purple from the weight? Nope. Does it matter if you drop half of it and have to go back anyway? Still no. It’s the principle of it all.
“I Don’t Need a Jacket” – Famous Last Words
How many times has someone told you to bring a jacket, and you confidently said, “No, I’ll be fine,” only to spend the next few hours freezing and regretting every life decision? But instead of admitting defeat, you’ll cross your arms, shiver in silence, and pretend you’re not cold.
Borrowing someone else’s jacket? That’s an option—but stubbornness wins every time.
Not Washing Your Hair Because “It Still Looks Fine”
Dry shampoo exists for a reason, and girls have mastered the art of stretching a hair wash as long as possible. Day three? It’s still fine. Day four? Maybe a ponytail. Day five? A messy bun totally counts as a hairstyle.
It’s not laziness—it’s about preserving the natural oils and making sure you don’t strip your hair of its moisture… or at least, that’s what we tell ourselves.
Refusing to Ask for Help Until It’s Absolutely Necessary
Whether it’s assembling furniture, opening a jar, or lifting something heavy, there’s a certain level of stubborn pride in trying to do it alone first. The jar lid might require 10 minutes of struggling and gritted teeth, but victory tastes sweeter when you finally pop it open without assistance.
And if someone offers to help? The automatic response is, “I got it.”
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Keeping Clothes You Haven’t Worn in Years – Just in Case
That dress from five years ago that you might need for a special occasion? The jeans that haven’t fit in ages but could fit again one day? Every girl has a closet full of “just in case” outfits that never actually get worn—but getting rid of them? Impossible.
Because the moment you do, you’ll suddenly find the perfect occasion where you wish you still had it. And that’s a regret no one wants.
Using Every Last Drop of a Beauty Product
It doesn’t matter if squeezing out that last bit of foundation requires full upper-body strength or if your mascara is practically dry—you paid for it, so you’re using it to the bitter end. Cutting open lotion bottles, scooping out the last remains of a face cream, or even adding a little water to shampoo just to make it last longer? Classic signs of beauty-product stubbornness.
Final Thoughts
Stubbornness isn’t just a personality trait—it’s a survival skill. From refusing to waste a single swipe of lipstick to convincing ourselves we don’t need a jacket, every girl has her own set of determined quirks. It’s not about being difficult; it’s about maximizing what we have, standing our ground, and proving (mostly to ourselves) that we can make it work.
Because at the end of the day, being a little stubborn just makes life more interesting.
After My Divorce, I Was Bullied by My Ex-husband’s Family – They Were Taught a Harsh Lesson by a Person I Didn’t Expect
Teresa thought she had it all with Shawn, her high school sweetheart turned husband. But as his ambition faded, so did their marriage. Following a bitter divorce, Shawn’s family turned vicious. Just when Teresa thought she couldn’t take any more, an unexpected ally stepped in, demanding justice.
If you had told me in high school that my life would turn into a melodramatic soap opera, I would have laughed in your face. But here I am, sharing my story because sometimes you just have to let it out.
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It all started when I fell for Shawn, the star athlete of our high school. Picture this: he was everything you could want in a guy. Tall, charming, with a smile that could light up a room.
He had big dreams and this incredible zest for life. I was hooked from the moment I saw him, and somehow, he fell for me too. We were that couple everyone envied—young, in love, and full of plans for an adventurous future.
Our marriage was straight out of a romance novel at first.
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We traveled as far as our meagre salaries allowed, took risks, and built a home filled with love and mutual respect.
We would lie on the roof of our first tiny apartment, watching the stars, dreaming about the places we’d go and the things we’d achieve. Those were the days when life felt like an endless summer.
But then things changed. Shawn changed.
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It wasn’t overnight—it was a slow, creeping transformation. He landed a job at a local factory, and I could see the light in his eyes dimming day by day.
Our evenings, once filled with planning our next adventure, turned into him zoning out in front of the TV after his shifts.
“Shawn, we need to talk about our plans,” I said one night, trying to keep the frustration out of my voice.
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“Later, Teresa,” he mumbled, not even looking away from the screen. “I’m just so tired.”
“Later” never came. The dreams we shared seemed to evaporate into the air like smoke. I felt trapped in a life that wasn’t mine. I voiced my discontent repeatedly, but Shawn just kept promising he’d change.
He never did.
Our conversations turned into arguments, the resentment building up like a dam about to burst. One evening, after yet another fight about his lack of ambition, I realized something had to give.
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“I can’t do this anymore, Shawn,” I said, my voice trembling. “I’m filing for divorce.”
His eyes finally met mine, a mix of shock and sadness. “You don’t mean that, Teresa.”
But I did. I packed my bags and moved out the next day.
Walking away from my marriage was heartbreaking, but the divorce went through with minimal animosity. At least, at first. That changed once his family got involved. They quickly turned my life into a nightmare.
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They were relentless. Shawn’s mother, Diane, spearheaded the harassment campaign with a ferocity I never thought possible.
It started with whispers in our small town, vicious rumors about me cheating on Shawn, and accusations of infidelity that spread like wildfire. I could feel the eyes of our neighbors on me, judging, condemning.
My reputation was dragged through the mud, and it hurt more than I could have imagined.
Then, the vandalism began.
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I woke up one morning to find my car keyed from the hood to the trunk. Someone had etched a selection of unrepeatable cuss words into the paint alongside the jagged scratches. It was a message meant to shame me, and it worked.
I felt a sick knot in my stomach every time I looked at it. But the harassment didn’t stop there.
One day, I came home to find my front door covered in graffiti—ugly, hateful words that made my stomach churn.
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The worst came at work. Diane’s brother, a burly man with a temper, showed up at my job and started a scene. He accused me loudly of ruining Shawn’s life, and when I tried to defend myself, he knocked over a display, creating chaos.
The management, tired of the drama, fired me on the spot. Just like that, I lost my livelihood.
I felt so alone, isolated from the friends who believed the lies Shawn’s family spread about me. My confidence was shattered, and I spiraled into a dark place.
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Each day was a struggle to get out of bed, to face the world that seemed to have turned against me. My dreams of a fresh start felt like a distant memory, almost unreachable amidst the constant siege of cruelty.
Despite everything, I clung to the hope of starting anew. I had to believe that there was light at the end of this tunnel, that I could rebuild my life even after it had been so thoroughly dismantled.
It was the only thing that kept me going, the flicker of hope that I could one day leave the nightmare behind and find peace again.
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One gray afternoon, there was a knock on my door. Not the friendly, soft kind, but a hesitant, almost reluctant rapping.
I opened it to find Shawn, his mother Diane, and his two brothers standing there, looking like they’d been dragged through hell. Their eyes were red, faces streaked with tears. It was a sight I never thought I’d see.
“Teresa, please,” Diane started, her voice trembling. “We’re here to apologize. We’ve been so wrong.”
I stood there, dumbfounded.
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The people who had made my life a living nightmare were now on my doorstep, begging for forgiveness. The shock was palpable. I felt like I was in some twisted dream.
“What is this?” I finally managed to say, my voice barely above a whisper. “Why now?”
Shawn stepped forward, his usual cockiness replaced with an expression of genuine remorse. “Teresa, we messed up. Big time. We’ve seen how wrong we were, and we’re truly sorry.”
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“Sorry?” I repeated, incredulous. “After everything you put me through? You think ‘sorry’ is enough?”
Diane started to cry, covering her face with her hands. “We know it’s not enough, but we want to make it right. Please, Teresa, we’ll do anything.”
My mind was racing. I didn’t know if I could trust them. Why the sudden change of heart? But their desperation seemed real, and despite everything, a part of me wanted to believe them.
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I crossed my arms, trying to steady myself. “Why now? Why are you suddenly so sorry?”
“We just… we’ve seen the error of our ways,” Shawn stammered. “We want to make amends.”
I stared at them, my heart pounding. Their vulnerability was disarming, and against my better judgment, I felt my anger start to melt.
“Fine,” I said finally, my voice shaking. “I forgive you. But this doesn’t erase what you’ve done.”
They nodded, tears streaming down their faces, thanking me profusely and promising to rectify the harm they’d caused me.
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I shut the door, feeling a strange mix of relief and suspicion.
Later that evening, my phone rang. The number was unfamiliar, but I answered anyway.
“Teresa, this is John, Shawn’s father.”
“John? What’s going on?”
“I’ve just found out about everything that’s been happening,” he said, his voice stern and steady. “I am furious and ashamed of my family’s behavior. I’ve made it clear to them that if they don’t make things right, they’re out of my house. This is not how I raised them.”
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Suddenly, everything clicked into place. Their desperate apology wasn’t just about guilt—it was about survival. John’s ultimatum had forced their hand.
“I can’t believe this,” I said, sinking into my couch. “So, they were threatened into apologizing?”
“Yes,” John admitted. “But I believe they are genuinely sorry as well. I’ve made arrangements for them to publicly apologize, repair the damage they caused, and compensate you for your job loss. I’ll be overseeing everything personally.”
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For the first time in months, I felt a glimmer of hope. “Thank you, John. This means a lot.”
“It’s the least I can do, Teresa. Respect and honor are everything to me, and what my family did was disgraceful.”
The next few days were surreal.
Shawn and his family followed through on their promises. They publicly apologized, standing in front of our small community and admitting their wrongdoings.
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It was both embarrassing and cathartic to watch.
They repaired my car and even helped me find a new job. Slowly, the weight of the past months began to lift from my shoulders.
At long last, this awful chapter was finally closing. I could move forward without the bitterness that had consumed me.
It wasn’t just about their apology or the restitution—it was about reclaiming my life and my peace. And for the first time in a long while, I felt like I could breathe again.
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