While performing in Denver, Van Ark met actress Julie Harris while interviewing her for a local newspaper, and the actress persuaded her to study acting and drama at the Yale Drama School.
As a result, Van Ark became the youngest student ever to receive a scholarship to the well-respected school and the second woman ever to enroll. The first woman was Julie Harris, who helped Van Ark into the school.
“She wrote to the dean and asked him to meet me. Long story short, my parents drove me to New Haven, Connecticut, to meet the dean, who gave me a scholarship,” she recalled.” It was meant to be.”
Valene Ewing on ‘Dallas’ and ‘Knots Landing’
Van Ark began her professional career at the Minneapolis Guthrie Theater, where she starred in The Miser by Moliere. After working about a year at the Arena Stage in Washington DC, she moved down to work with the national touring company Barefoot in the Park in 1963, which led to her Broadway debut. In 1971, she was nominated for the Tony Award for Best Featured Actress in a Play after starring in The School for Wives.
At that point, Joan Van Ark had begun working in front of a screen rather than on stage. She appeared on television series including Temperature’s Rising, Spider-Woman, and Days of Our Lives and even in one episode of Bonanza.
Even though Joan Van Ark wasn’t short of jobs, she was still looking for her significant breakthrough role as the 1980s approached. In 1978, she made several appearances as Valene Ewing on Dallas – which led her to the role of a lifetime.
Knots Landing – a spinoff of Dallas – premiered in 1979, and Joan Van Ark reprised her role as Valene Ewing. She starred in 327 episodes – acting alongside Michele Lee as Karen and Ted Schakleford as Gary – and became a massive star.
Even though it was a spinoff of Dallas – about the rotten but wealthy Ewing Clan – it was initially brought to CBS years before.
However, the network wanted a “big rich family” show, and Dallas got picked as the one. But later on, Knots Landing became a massive success as the studio realized how big of a show Dallas had grown into, and after only one season, it rose into the top 20 in TV ratings.
How Joan Van Ark almost missed out on her biggest role
Knots Landing became the story of Gary Ewing and his wife Valene – played by Van Ark – and how they decided to start a new life in Knots Landing.
However, Van Ark almost missed out on the part of Valene Ewing. She explained that she had a “three-way clash” where she did The Love Boat simultaneously, as well as a commercial in New York.
In the end, it was her husband – John Marshall, who we will come back to in a minute – that persuaded her into choosing Dallas. And it was a significant – and important – decision.
“I got the call asking me to do a guest appearance in this show called Dallas, which was attracting a lot of buzz, but I said to my husband, ‘John, why should I even read this script? I can’t be in three places at once,’” she told Express. “Then he read it and said, ‘No, you’ve got to do it. It looks wonderful.’”
“So basically, he talked me into a schedule that had me in LA one day, then flying to Dallas for two days, followed by two days in New York and then back to Texas. But looking at this old cast photo from Knots Landing – the spinoff from Dallas – I’m so glad I listened to him,” she added.
Dallas and Knots Landing became a 15-year commitment for Van Ark, who became identified by her role. As earlier mentioned, she and Julie Harris had quite a history – and in 1980, they met again
“I could stay forever on the show and be safe”
Harris was cast in Knots Landing as the mother of Van Arks’ character, and for the actress, it was almost too good to be true.
“When the producers told me they had finally last someone to play my mother, I held my breath,” she recalled in a 1984 interview with Florida Today.
“I thought, ‘Oh my God, are they going to say Phyllis Diller or Zsa Zsa Gabor, or who?’ Then they said it was Julie Harris, and I went right through the roof. I couldn’t believe they had picked her to be my mother. They didn’t even know we were friends.”
Joan Van Ark stayed for 13 seasons and 327 episodes on the show. Then in 1993, just one season after she left, Knots Landing was canceled. But the reason for Joan leaving wasn’t that she didn’t like it. Instead, it was all about her trying on new challenges.“I could stay forever on the show and be safe,” Van Ark told the Los Angeles Times in 1992.
“But three years ago, I did Night of the Iguana in Williamstown (Mass.), and I had a quote from Tennessee Williams taped on my mirror, taken from an essay he’d written on success. It said, and I’m paraphrasing here: ‘Security is in the shape of a kidney-shaped pool in Los Angeles, where you sit waiting for your residual checks.’ I was in a comfortable spot on Knots, and an artist should not be comfortable.”
At the same time, the television series became a huge part of Van Ark’s life. So even though she felt comfortable leaving, it was a tough blow since she thought it would be easier.
Blamed herself for ‘Knots Landing’ cancelation
“I have loved more than life the 13 years I’ve had on that show,” she said. “[Knots Landing creator] David Jacobs is a great influence on my life, has taught me so much about so many things. Ted [Shackelford] is the other half of every breath I take on the show, and personally, he’s a large part of my heart. The people are my family–we have shared marriages, deaths, divorces. It’s far more difficult to leave than I thought.”
The show didn’t quite work without the great chemistry between characters Valen and Gary. In fact, Joan took the blame for the show being shut down.
“Well, it was my fault. I jumped over to NBC to do a pilot which did not sell,” she said. “I was so ready to go, after fourteen years with the one lady, so I auditioned for the pilot, and they cast me. It wasn’t as cleanly negotiated as it should have been. When the pilot didn’t sell, they asked me back, and I did do the four-hour finale of the show.”
Joan Van Ark left the soap opera business behind but continued to star in many television series. She had minor parts in television series, including Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, and starred in some television movies. Between 2004 and 2005, Joan appeared as Gloria Fisher in 55 episodes of the hugely successful television drama The Young and The Restless.Joan Van Ark – marriage, husband, children
It’s common for celebrities in Hollywood to marry other celebrities, and show-biz marriages don’t always last very long.
But that wasn’t the case for Joan Van Ark, who met the love of her life back in high school. She met her husband, John Marshall, while the two were students in Boulder. In 1966, the couple married on a military base in Germany.
“Believe me, it was nothing like the marriages [Valene Ewing] has gone through,” she told UPI.
In 1969, they welcomed daughter Vanessa Marshall, who also chose a career in entertainment. She became a well-known voice-over artist and actually gave up on her on-camera acting career. Instead, Vanessa Marshall has lent her voice to animated films, television series, and several video games.
John Marshall went on to become an Emmy newsman, working on KNBC-TV and NBC. He’s had a flourishing career just as his wife Joan, and while the couple was working hard to make it in their respective fields, Vanessa was growing up.
For Van Ark, becoming a mother while trying to navigate through the business was tough. And she gives credit to her husband, John, for keeping the family together during those stressful years.
“He is the reason we have the most wonderful daughter in the world and that the marriage has stayed strong,” Van Ark told The Leader-Post in 1988. “I feel I am the committed person who can’t give up time for this or that.”
“He did not want to miss watching Venessa grow up, and he did not want to miss me,” she added. “He knows correspondents live out of suitcases. John made career choices I didn’t agree with because if it had been me, I would have packed my bags, and I would have been waiving at the airport.”Joan Van Ark – net worth
Besides her acting job, Joan Van Ark has a great interest in running. The 78-year-old has completed several marathons and explained she’s running instead of going to a psychologist. However, when it comes to her husband, she stated that she would never go on a run with him.
Why? Because “it’s the quickest way to a divorce that I know of. You’re always criticizing the other’s style,” Joan said.
In the last decade, Joan Van Ark has continued to work on stage in several productions for theater and starring in television series and movies such as Watercolor Postcards and Psycho Wedding Crasher. But she will always be most remembered for her magnificent spell on Dallas and Knots Landing.
According to Celebrity Net Worth, Joan Van Ark has a net worth of around $10 million.
Woman Turned To a Stranger for Help After Her Husband’s Betrayal, Only to Face a Bigger Surprise – Story of the Day
While navigating a difficult divorce, Ellis meets a bold young man at a bar who offers to transform her life. His charm and confidence seem like the perfect distraction, but their connection soon leads to unexpected revelations that force Ellis to confront her past — and her family — in ways she never anticipated.
Ellis remembered an evening with her husband, Mark. They had been married for almost 25 years. Their life had turned into a dull, predictable routine.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
That evening, Ellis noticed something was off. Mark looked uneasy, shifting in his seat.
“What’s wrong?” Ellis asked, watching him closely.
“Nothing, everything’s fine,” Mark said, waving her off. But Ellis knew he was lying. She had always been able to tell when he wasn’t honest. She narrowed her eyes, waiting for him to speak.
Mark sighed deeply. “Alright, we need to talk,” he said finally.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“Why? What happened?” Ellis asked, her voice tense.
“Do you remember my business trip from a few weeks ago?” Mark asked, avoiding her gaze.
“Yes, with Donna,” Ellis said slowly.
Mark looked at the floor. “We slept together,” he admitted.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“You what?” Ellis said, her voice barely above a whisper. She couldn’t believe what she was hearing.
“I don’t know why it happened,” Mark said. “I’ve been thinking a lot about our 25th anniversary. You’re the only woman I’ve ever been with. I guess I started wondering about things, and it all happened so fast. But, Ellis, it was a mistake. I’ve felt terrible ever since. I love you, only you.”
“How could you do this to me?” Ellis asked. She didn’t yell, but her heart felt heavy, as though it might break.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“I’m so sorry. Please forgive me. I’ll never do it again, I promise,” Mark said, his voice trembling.
“Leave,” Ellis said firmly.
“Don’t do this, please,” Mark begged.
“Go. I can’t look at you right now,” Ellis said.
Mark nodded and walked to the bedroom. Ellis sat silently, her mind racing, barely noticing when he left.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“This is the saddest cocktail I’ve ever seen,” a voice said, pulling Ellis out of her thoughts. She blinked and looked around, realizing where she was.
She sat at the bar, staring at the divorce papers Mark had signed. They sat right in front of her.
She had filed for divorce and forced Mark to sign them. Yet, her own name remained unsigned.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
It had been weeks since she learned about Mark’s affair, but she still couldn’t move on.
Ellis turned toward the voice. She saw a young man standing nearby. He looked barely older than her daughter.
“What do you want?” she asked, frowning. “I’m not in the mood to talk.”
“My name’s Leo,” he said with a smirk. “I’ve been watching you come here night after night. You sit alone, looking miserable. Then you whine to the bartender about your marriage. It’s getting old. Pretty pathetic, honestly.”
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“If you came here to insult me, don’t bother,” Ellis snapped. “And I’ve seen you leave with a different woman every night. So tell me, who’s more pathetic? At least I know what love is.”
“Ouch,” Leo said with a laugh. “You’ve got some fight in you. I like that. Look, I’m not here to make fun of you. I’m here to offer some help. Give me a few days, and I’ll get you back in shape.”
“In shape for what?” Ellis asked, narrowing her eyes.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“For seducing men, of course,” Leo replied.
“I’m 42,” Ellis said. “I’ve only ever been with one man.”
“Exactly,” Leo said. “That’s why I want to help. So, what do you say?” He held out his hand.
“What’s in it for you?” Ellis asked suspiciously.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“It’s a challenge,” Leo said.
Ellis sighed. Then, reluctantly, she shook his hand. She wasn’t interested in flirting with men, but she figured a distraction might not be the worst idea.
Over the next few days, Leo dove headfirst into helping Ellis reinvent herself.
He took her shopping at trendy boutiques, insisting she try on clothes that were far from her usual style.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Ellis initially hesitated, standing awkwardly in front of the mirror in fitted dresses and bold colors.
He didn’t stop there. Leo coached her on how to hold her head high and how to speak with conviction.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
He even pointed out men at the bar for her to approach, handing her opening lines. At first, Ellis felt ridiculous.
She stumbled over her words, her hands shaking as she introduced herself. But after a few tries, something changed.
Men smiled at her. Some even asked for her number. For the first time in years, Ellis felt seen.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Still, one thing nagged at her. Leo’s charm with women, though effortless, felt empty.
He flirted easily, laughed at their jokes, and disappeared with a new woman every night. One evening, as they sat at the bar, Ellis broke the silence.
“Why do you do it?” she asked. “Don’t you want something real?”
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Leo avoided her gaze. “What’s the point?” he said.
“You’re scared of getting hurt,” Ellis said gently.
Leo paused before answering. “I’m not ready for anything serious,” he finally admitted. “I’ve seen what happens when people fall in love — it ruins them.”
Ellis shook her head but didn’t press him further. She knew fear when she saw it.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
One quiet evening, Ellis sat at the bar, sipping her drink, when a man approached her. His name was Ryan.
He was polite, with an easy smile, and spoke confidently.
He complimented her dress and smiled at her often. But as she sat there, Ellis felt her thoughts drifting.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
She remembered how Mark used to make her laugh until her sides hurt. She thought about how he always seemed to know what she needed, even when she didn’t.
“I need to use the restroom,” Ellis said, suddenly standing up. But instead of going back, she walked out of the restaurant, got into a cab, and went home.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
The house was silent. Family photos hung on the walls, staring back at her. Ellis saw the unsigned divorce papers on the table. She picked up her phone and texted Leo.
@Ellis:
Where have you been? I haven’t seen you in over a week
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
@Leo:
I met someone
@Ellis:
Wow. But I need to talk to you
@Leo:
I can’t right now. I’m with her
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
@Ellis:
I’m thinking about going back to Mark
@Leo:
I’ll be there in 20 minutes
Twenty minutes later, Ellis heard the sharp sound of a car horn outside. She stepped onto her porch and saw Leo climbing out of his car. His face was tense, and he looked frustrated.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“You can’t go back to him!” Leo shouted as he walked toward her.
Ellis crossed her arms. “I’ve realized something. I love him. I always have. No one else comes close,” she said firmly.
“He cheated on you!” Leo yelled, his voice rising. “He betrayed you!”
Ellis stood her ground. “I know. But I think I can forgive him.”
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“You can’t forgive that!” Leo snapped, shaking his head.
“Why not?” Ellis asked. “You’ve changed. You’ve found someone. Why can’t he?”
“It’s… it’s not the same,” Leo muttered, avoiding her eyes.
“I think it is,” Ellis replied, her voice steady.
Leo paused, then threw up his hands. “Fine. Do whatever you want. I’m done,” he said sharply. Without another word, he turned and got back into his car.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Ellis watched as he drove off, his tires kicking up dust on the quiet street.
The next morning, she woke with a heavy heart. That day marked what would have been Ellis and Mark’s 25th wedding anniversary.
She decided it was time to talk to him. Taking a deep breath, she texted Mark, asking him to come over without explaining why.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
She spent the afternoon preparing dinner, using recipes she had made on their anniversaries before.
Later that evening, the doorbell rang. Ellis opened the door to find Mark standing there, his shoulders slumped and his eyes heavy with regret.
“Hey,” Mark said softly as the door opened.
“Hi,” Ellis replied, stepping aside. “Come in.” She gestured toward the living room, her voice steady but nervous.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Mark walked in slowly, his eyes scanning the room. “So, what did you want to talk about? Is this about the divorce? Are we making it official?” His tone was cautious, his shoulders tense.
“I didn’t sign the papers,” Ellis said, her words measured.
Mark froze. “What? Why not?”
Before Ellis could answer, the doorbell rang. She frowned, glancing at the clock. “Who could that be?” she wondered aloud.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“Did you tell Sara about the divorce?” Mark asked, his brow furrowing.
“No, I couldn’t. Did you?” Ellis asked, meeting his gaze.
“No,” Mark said, shaking his head.
Ellis sighed. “Damn. She knows it’s our anniversary. She probably came to celebrate,” she said, walking to the door.
When Ellis opened it, she was stunned to see Sara standing there — but her daughter wasn’t alone. Standing beside her was Leo.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“What are you doing with my daughter?!” Ellis demanded, glaring at Leo.
“Mom,” Sara said, beaming. “This is my boyfriend, Leo. I thought today would be a great time to introduce him to you.”
Ellis stared at Leo in disbelief. “No way! Do you know he’s a womanizer?!”
“He was,” Sara said, her smile fading. “But… Wait. How do you know that?”
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“I was teaching her how to flirt with men,” Leo said casually, then blinked in confusion. “Wait… how is she your mom? She’s way too young!”
“Why do you think I got married at 17?” Ellis replied dryly.
“What’s going on here?” Sara asked, her voice rising. “Why were you teaching my mom how to flirt? She’s married!”
“They’re divorcing,” Leo interjected. Then, noticing Mark, he added, “Or maybe not.”
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
“What?!” Sara exclaimed. “Why didn’t you tell me?”
Ellis looked at her daughter, her face softening. “Because I wasn’t sure yet. And today, I invited your dad to tell him I want to get back together.”
Mark’s head jerked up. “Really?” he asked, his voice filled with cautious hope. Ellis nodded.
Leo crossed his arms. “He doesn’t deserve you.”
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Ellis raised an eyebrow. “And you don’t deserve my daughter.”
“You said I’ve changed,” Leo retorted.
“And that’s true,” Sara said, stepping forward. “Mom, we’re in love. And it was Leo’s idea to meet you.”
“I didn’t know you were her parents,” Leo said defensively.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Ellis took a moment to process everything. The room fell silent until Mark spoke. “Are you really ready to forgive me?”
“Yes,” Ellis said. “I’ve decided it’s worth giving us another chance. If someone like Leo can fall in love, then after 25 years, we can fix things too.”
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Mark stepped forward and hugged her tightly. Ellis clung to him, tears streaming down her face. She loved him, and together they could rebuild.
“But,” Mark said, pulling back, “I still need to know how you know Leo.”
“Me too!” Sara exclaimed. They all burst into laughter, and Ellis invited them to the table. Together, they sat, letting love guide the way forward.
For illustration purposes only. | Source: Midjourney
Tell us what you think about this story and share it with your friends. It might inspire them and brighten their day.
If you enjoyed this story, read this one: Walking into the office that morning, I expected another ordinary day of burying myself in work. But then I saw him—the man who had destroyed my life. My chest tightened, and the memories came flooding back. I had no idea how to handle it. All I knew was that I couldn’t stay in the same room as him.
This piece is inspired by stories from the everyday lives of our readers and written by a professional writer. Any resemblance to actual names or locations is purely coincidental. All images are for illustration purposes only. Share your story with us; maybe it will change someone’s life.
Leave a Reply