Woman Insists Her Son Leaves His Pregnant Wife at Home for Her Birthday, but He Responds, ‘My Wife Comes First’
A man felt he had to take his wife’s side regarding a family dispute. However, his mother became angry at him for doing so, so he turned to the internet to find out if he was right.
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A man took to Reddit for advice regarding his pregnant wife and his mother’s birthday. He explained that it was his mother’s birthday at the same time that his seven-month-pregnant wife was feeling uncomfortable and particularly sensitive.
The man offered to take his mother to dinner for her birthday, and she picked a place that was a 40-minute drive away. The man told his mother he didn’t want to travel that far as his wife was uncomfortable traveling long distances in a car.
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He also explained to his mother that his wife could eat little on the menu because it was a seafood restaurant, and his wife couldn’t eat shellfish. He then asked his mother if she would choose a nearby restaurant.
The man’s mother refused, saying the only good seafood restaurants were farther away. The man then suggested that his mother choose a different cuisine, noting that they had Mexican and Hibachi near them, which he knew his mother loved.
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The man’s mother became angry and told him his wife could stay home while they went to dinner. She found it startling that a grown woman couldn’t stay home alone for a few hours while her husband went to dinner.
After telling his mother that his wife wouldn’t be pregnant forever and asking her to work with them, his mother told him to forget about it and yelled that her birthday was not about his wife. The man responded, “My wife comes first.”
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The man also accused his mother of being selfish and childish, so she hung up the phone. This led to the man’s family telling him he was wrong and his wife crying because the whole family was upset with her for ruining her mother-in-law’s birthday.
The man asked netizens whether or not he was justified in standing up for his wife and asking his mom to change her birthday plans. He received many mixed responses from fellow Reddit users.
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One user told the man he was justified in his reaction, and they were glad he was standing up for his wife. They then asked if his mother often acted this way toward his wife, to which he responded in the affirmative. The man also said that his mother’s fiancée had taken her to the restaurant, which he found was enabling her bad behavior.
Another netizen told the man he was wrong for making it seem like the situation was his wife’s fault and said they would not have stopped their husband from going somewhere they didn’t want to go when they were pregnant. The person also noted that their husband wouldn’t have blamed it on them if he didn’t want to go somewhere.
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One opinion was that the man should have told his mother he was sorry he would miss the event and let his mother feel however she felt. The person suggested offering coffee and cake at home instead of going out for dinner.
Some netizens were confused by the post, wondering why the man’s wife factored into his mother’s birthday as he didn’t say they were both treating his mother to a birthday dinner. They asked whether or not his wife didn’t want him to go anywhere while she was pregnant.
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One more person said the man was wrong for inadvertently making his wife take the blame for the situation. The person clarified that they didn’t think the mother’s fiancée taking her to the restaurant was enabling but supportive.
The person also said that the man and his wife had the option of going to the restaurant and not ordering seafood, as they had often gone to seafood restaurants despite not eating seafood and had never struggled to find something on the menu that they wanted to eat.
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The person ended their comment by saying that their judgment of the entire situation would be different if the man’s wife had a deadly allergy to seafood. The man received many other supportive comments, telling him he was right for standing up for his wife and his unborn child despite his mother’s adverse reaction.
Only boys understand
Technology has become an inseparable part of our daily lives, but for boys, a computer isn’t just a tool—it’s a lifestyle. Whether it’s for work or entertainment, one thing remains constant: the computer setup stays the same, but the purpose changes dramatically. This subtle yet hilarious reality is something only boys truly understand.
The Dual Life of a Computer Setup
At first glance, a desk with a computer might seem like just another workspace. But for guys, the same setup serves two very different purposes:
- During Work Hours – The computer is a productivity powerhouse, running spreadsheets, emails, and video conferences.
- When Home Alone – That same machine transforms into a gaming station, movie theater, or a deep-dive research center for the most random internet searches.
It’s not just about using the computer—it’s about how the setup evolves depending on the situation.
Work Mode: The Serious Setup
When it’s time to work, everything feels structured and optimized for productivity.
- The mouse stays on the right side – Perfectly positioned for efficient clicking.
- Screens filled with work tabs – Spreadsheets, emails, and task lists dominate the display.
- Minimal distractions – Noise-canceling headphones on, focus mode activated.
- Professional posture – Sitting straight, keyboard at the perfect angle.
In this state, the computer is a workhorse, designed to tackle deadlines, meetings, and professional tasks.
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Home Alone Mode: The Ultimate Comfort Zone
As soon as work ends and no one’s around, everything shifts. The computer, once a tool for productivity, now becomes an all-in-one entertainment system.
- The mouse switches sides – Because now, everything happens at a relaxed pace.
- Tabs full of games, movies, and YouTube videos – Researching something serious? Maybe. But probably not.
- Relaxed posture – Leaning back, feet on the desk, one hand on the mouse, the other on snacks.
- Speakers blasting – No need for headphones, the room becomes a personal theater.
This transition happens almost instinctively. One moment, you’re handling work calls; the next, you’re watching an obscure documentary about ancient civilizations at 3 AM.
Why This Duality Exists
There’s a reason why guys naturally shift between these two modes:
- Work requires discipline – Efficiency is key, and distractions are minimized.
- Home is all about comfort – The brain switches gears to relaxation, and everything from posture to mouse position changes.
- Multitasking at its finest – Who says you can’t binge-watch a series while playing an online game?
The Unspoken Rules of the Setup
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Every guy who owns a computer setup follows an unspoken code:
- Never let anyone mess with your settings – Once the mouse sensitivity is perfect, it should never change.
- The workspace should remain untouched – Even if it looks messy, there’s a system in place.
- One screen is never enough – Work mode needs efficiency, and home mode needs immersion.
- Gaming peripherals double as work tools – A mechanical keyboard isn’t just for gaming—it makes typing emails more satisfying.
The Mouse Switching Phenomenon
Perhaps the funniest part of this reality is the simple act of switching the mouse’s position. When working, it stays on one side. When watching movies, leaning back, or casually browsing, it moves to the other.
This tiny, almost subconscious habit is something only guys truly understand.
Conclusion: The Secret Life of a Computer Setup
To the outside world, a computer is just a machine. But for guys, it’s a dynamic, ever-changing space that adapts to the moment. Work or play, the setup remains the same, but the experience transforms entirely.
So if you ever catch yourself switching the mouse’s position without thinking twice—congratulations. You’re officially part of the club that only boys understand.
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