Sally Field, 76, was considered ‘ugly’ after choosing to age naturally – She discovered joy in being a grandmother to 5 children and living in an ocean-view house

Keeping up with the Hollywood glam sometimes means defying age with the help of procedures and plastic surgeries. It’s not a secret that many celebrities opt to go under the knife for the sake of the good and youthful looks and the opportunities that looks brings.

However, not everyone who is part of the film industry is willing to follow this trend, and actress Sally Field is one of them.

Having been part of films such as Smokey and the Bandit, Norma Rae, Mrs. Doubtfire, and Forrest Gump, and having received plenty of awards for her acting, including Two Academy Awards, two BAFTA Film Award nominations, three Primetime Emmy Awards, two Golden Globe Awards, two SAG Awards, and most recently the Life Achievement Award, it’s safe to say Field has a career she can brag about.

Regardless of her age, 76, she still looks as stunning as ever and accepts her natural appearance. During her speech for the SAG Achievement Award she wore a magnificent black gown and embraced her naturally grey hair.

“I felt guarded, reserved, and out of the spotlight. But I was never sure what I’d say or do on stage. I would astonish myself,” the actress said. “I wasn’t hoping for praise or attention, though it’s excellent.”

She continued: “Acting has always been about preserving those priceless moments when I feel whole, thoroughly, and occasionally dangerously alive. Finding a path there has always been a challenge.

“They allowed me to open up and let me know things about myself that I never would have known otherwise. I’ve been working all my life. She continued for almost 60 years; there hasn’t been a day when I haven’t been genuinely happy to identify as an actor.”

Back in 2016, she was asked how she felt about playing an elderly, eccentric woman, Doris Miller.

“It’s okay that I’m an old woman; 70 is old. My years have given me strength; I have earned the right to have them, and I have owned them. And even if I dislike my neck and many other things, it’s alright,” Field told NPR.

And when it comes the natural process of aging, Field opts to stay true to herself despite the fact that the fight against ageism in Hollywood is a real one. “’Oh, I wish that weren’t happening to my neck,’ I think when I watch myself on television. Additionally, your eyes are bulging, and your face is collapsing. Then, though, I come across some of the women (who have undergone plastic surgery) who I once thought were stunning. Oh no, I’m feeling right now. Avoid doing it! And that would seem disrespectful to who they are right now,” she once said.

Field was married two times and went through two divorces. In 1986, she married Steven Craig with whom she welcomed two sons. The couple untied the knot in 1975.

She then dated Burt Reynolds before she married film producer Alan Greisman. Field and Greisman share a son together.

Eventually, she decided to commit all her time to her career but it was when she became a grandmother that her life took on a new dimension.

She embraced the new role and loves spending time with her grandchildren at her wonderful beach house with ocean views.

We love Sally Field.

My Family Left Grandpa at the Hotel to Avoid Paying — They Didn’t Realize I Was the Wrong Grandson to Mess With

As the front doors slid open and my feet touched the tile, I spotted him—my grandfather—standing behind the counter.

His shoulders drooped, and his hands trembled slightly as he held a thick sheet of paper.

Just two months before, he had retired at 74, after spending 52 years working as a machinist. He’d never missed a day unless he was genuinely sick—and even then, he still called in to check on things.

Grandpa was the quiet, dependable type. Every birthday, he’d show up with a card and some money inside. He never missed one. Always giving. Never asking for anything in return.

So when my aunt, his daughter, suggested we do something meaningful for his birthday, my cousin Ashley jumped at the chance. Everyone agreed. The plan? A weeklong, all-inclusive beach resort trip. Ashley handled all the arrangements—booked five rooms, even reserved a suite with a private balcony just for Grandpa.

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He was told not to worry about the cost.

So he packed his one suitcase, brought along his old fishing hat, and wore sandals for the first time in a decade. Off they went.

I couldn’t join until the final day—work obligations kept me in the city—but I booked a one-way ticket to help Grandpa get home. He hated airports. Said they made him feel disoriented.

When I arrived, the sun was out, and palm trees swayed in the breeze.

I walked into the hotel smiling.

That smile disappeared fast.

Grandpa stood alone. His suitcase was packed. The bill was in his hands. Everyone else was gone.

“They said everything was paid for,” I said, trying to keep my voice steady.

He nodded. “That’s what I believed too. But this morning, they all got ready, said checkout was noon, and left for the airport.”

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“I didn’t want to cause any trouble,” he added. “What matters is… they had a good time.”

I looked at him, then down at that bill. My fists clenched.

“I’ll be right back,” I said.

I stepped outside and pulled out my phone. I called Ashley. She answered on the second ring.

My voice was calm but cold. “Why did you leave Grandpa with a $12,000 bill?”

She hesitated, then laughed.

“We figured he could cover it,” she said casually. “He’s retired. Doesn’t support the family anymore. It was like… a thank-you trip. From him to us.”

“You figured?” I said, my voice tightening. “You figured it was fine to stick a seventy-four-year-old man with a $12,000 bill without asking?”

I stared at the road in front of the hotel, phone clenched in my hand, while laughter drifted over from the pool.

“Let me be clear,” I said flatly. “He’s not the one who looks foolish. You are.”

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Inside, I could still hear Grandpa trying to explain things at the front desk, still apologizing for something he didn’t cause.

I went back in and paid the entire bill myself. The manager printed the receipt, and I asked for a detailed breakdown by room. She promised to email it within the hour.

That night, I called an old college friend who’s now a lawyer. Sharp, meticulous.

By morning, we had:

A full itemized invoice, with each relative’s charges clearly outlined.

Security footage from the lobby shows them checking out, no goodbyes, no hesitation.

Written confirmation from staff that Grandpa had been left behind and told he was responsible for the charges.

We drafted formal letters:

“You are responsible for the charges listed below. Payment is expected within 14 days. If not received, I will pursue reimbursement in small claims court for fraud, financial abuse of a senior, and abandonment.”

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Each envelope contained the invoice with their charges highlighted in yellow.

Three days later, Ashley paid in full. No apology. Just a bank transfer with a sour-faced emoji in the memo. Her brother followed, then my aunt. One by one, the money came back.

In two weeks, all $12,000 had been reimbursed—except for Grandpa’s part.

I told the lawyer to leave that untouched.

Thanksgiving passed in silence. No calls. No invites.

Grandpa didn’t seem surprised.

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But he’s different now—lighter, happier. He laughs more freely. In a strange way, that awful trip gave him something priceless: closure. A clean slate. A brand-new chapter.

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